Just for shits ang giggles. I thought I would pose this question. Probably been discussed before. But is there a way to excuse yourself from a sexual relationship when you are simply not that attracted to the lady? Nothing wrong with them. Just not my type. Probably not. But I can't think of a way to politely beg out without hitting the nuclear destruct button. Hell has no fury and all that. Has anyone ever done it successfully besides this guy?
How do you dump somebody?
- Thread starter Robert Mugabe
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Say to them "Can you loan me a few thousand dollars? I'll pay you back when I get a job."
One breakup i did say...its a bit much (i was on the fence, then heard her talking marriage through her idiot loudmouth cousin ...thus had to move end out of fairness to her)...and just said I'm sorry it's not working out for me, I'm just not feeling that depth even though I like her . Then I think she tried to bluff me out a week later by asking if I'm lonely and maybe she can set me up w someone (figuring that maybe I dumped her cuz I had someone on the side, cuz if I did I'd say no to a set up) and I said " I always like your friend X wouldn't mind a date w her." Then given her reaction only then did I realise that was a ploy. (And no, had no one on the side).
canada-man
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I was horrible at it... Sometimes to my benefit as relationships turned out great for a long while.
There's always a Catch 22 scenario.
Say her best friend is hot and you've been fantasizing about 3some. If she says No Way, you reply: I need to be in a relationship with someone who's open minded and willing to explore options because all relationships become stagnant after a while and you can't feel trapped.
If she says Yes, you reply: I was hoping you'd say No. I'm looking for someone loyal and conservative with strong family values.
Either way, it's not You, it's Her.
P.S: if she said Yes, I'd reconsider dumping her.
Say her best friend is hot and you've been fantasizing about 3some. If she says No Way, you reply: I need to be in a relationship with someone who's open minded and willing to explore options because all relationships become stagnant after a while and you can't feel trapped.
If she says Yes, you reply: I was hoping you'd say No. I'm looking for someone loyal and conservative with strong family values.
Either way, it's not You, it's Her.
P.S: if she said Yes, I'd reconsider dumping her.
Brilliant! What's the plan when she brings home another dude? You have to say, yes.
Just stay one step ahead. She wants to stay with you, right? That entails going down that rabbit hole once in a while.
If she flips rules on you, there are other options but we'll discuss 'em in another thread.
P.S: MMF can too be fun
