How do I make my experience better?
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Remember the other person is a human too, not a piece of meat. Treat them with respect and it'll make your own experience that much better. It shouldn't need to be said, but there's enough men out there treating SPs like garbage that it's worth pointing out.
Also good advice for life in general
Also good advice for life in general
And if I may paraphrase for the service providers out there ...Remember the other person is a human too, not a piece of meat. Treat them with respect and it'll make your own experience that much better. It shouldn't need to be said, but there's enough men out there treating SPs like garbage that it's worth pointing out.
Also good advice for life in general
Remember the other person is a human too, not an ATM. Treat them with respect and it'll make your own experience that much better.
Cash, a smile and upbeat positive demeanor, sparkly clean, respectful, lower your expectations helps (enjoy the beating VS not meeting them).
What specific issues are you facing that are affecting your enjoyment? It's tough to give you advice unless you can describe these issues in detail. I agree with kherg that you need to keep your expecations in check. Treat reviews as fan fiction because there's no way to convey in words how the SP will be in reality.
You also need to get comfortable with telling the SP what you want because she cannot read your mind. If you don't ask, you don't get. There's always a chance she might say no, but you have to be comfortable with that too.
You also need to get comfortable with telling the SP what you want because she cannot read your mind. If you don't ask, you don't get. There's always a chance she might say no, but you have to be comfortable with that too.
Trim your toe and finger nails a day or so in advance.
Floss teeth a day in advance.
Then when dental hygienist gets on your case you can with a smile say: Yes, I do floss from time to time.
Floss teeth a day in advance.
Then when dental hygienist gets on your case you can with a smile say: Yes, I do floss from time to time.
Keep it simple:
1. Bring your money.
2. Bring your eggplant.
3. Don't be an eggplant.
A lot of the other people have already said it more eloquently but to echo it,
-Treat them like human beings.
-Be respectful.
-Check your energy. Being positive and upbeat makes for a fun and less awkward session. Smile too.
-Keep your expectations low.
-Keep your nails trimmed.
-Take the shower. They want you fully decontaminated before doing anything.
-This really shouldn't be separate from taking a shower but this seems to be a common complaint from a few providers so I figure I'll bring it up:
WASH YOUR ASS
Body wash, soap bar (in a non Charles Barkley style manner), use some type of surfacant to clean that area out. At the least use the jet setting on the shower head, got damn.
1. Bring your money.
2. Bring your eggplant.
3. Don't be an eggplant.
A lot of the other people have already said it more eloquently but to echo it,
-Treat them like human beings.
-Be respectful.
-Check your energy. Being positive and upbeat makes for a fun and less awkward session. Smile too.
-Keep your expectations low.
-Keep your nails trimmed.
-Take the shower. They want you fully decontaminated before doing anything.
-This really shouldn't be separate from taking a shower but this seems to be a common complaint from a few providers so I figure I'll bring it up:
WASH YOUR ASS
Body wash, soap bar (in a non Charles Barkley style manner), use some type of surfacant to clean that area out. At the least use the jet setting on the shower head, got damn.
You would think someone washing their ass would be part of the shower and yet....-This really shouldn't be separate from taking a shower but this seems to be a common complaint from a few providers so I figure I'll bring it up:
WASH YOUR ASS
Body wash, soap bar (in a non Charles Barkley style manner), use some type of surfacant to clean that area out. At the least use the jet setting on the shower head, got damn.
I also point everyone to the washcloths and maybe 5 times in the last year have I found a wash cloth that was actually clearly used in the shower. I'm VERY low volume, so this is at most a 1 in 20 situation, which is still outrageous.
I heard the same from an upscale indie SP I visited recently who participates in unadvertised prostate/backdoor play on a YMMV basis - quite a welcome surprise for me.
She said she only does it for "well groomed men who properly clean themselves" who she has good chemistry with, and I was shocked when she said a not-insignificant number of clients basically let water run back there and consider it clean, and some don't even do that. Wtf? Y'all, it's not gay to properly wash your a$s, and is better for you AND the SP!
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Same, I'm into rimming but if I even smell a ml of ball sweat during the bj, don't even ask me bcz I will embarrass you and say you'd need to do reshower and scrub bcz you didn't do it well enough the first time.
