How do escorts deal with obese clients?

[fuji]

I'm certainly not obese but there are many who are genetically and for you to lump them all in as unkempt, lazy, donut munching slobs is highly ignorant. Maybe you should just worry about yourself instead of pre-judging people.

The genetic argument is bullshit. Genetics have not changed in the past fifty years but we have a lot more lard assess now.

 

[crazy_gurl]

I like nice people! Fat, skinny, black, brown, white!! Even green!
Its more about how they treat you then how they look to myself anyway?

 

[Fun_Guy]

The OP clearly has a bias. I would think escorts encounter all manner of people. Some they'll really like, (click with) some they might actually find attractive, and then others less so. From my reading and my time using services, I've seen that hygiene and respect are two huge factors. Sure it's great if the SP seems more genuinely into the act. However, if this is not the case, as long as you are very clean, and polite you should get what you were looking for. Overweight people or the obese know their situation. Many have a lot of issues with how they look. Going to an escort may already be a challenging position to put themselves in. Sometimes though this business isn't just a hobby of menus and ratings, its sometimes about servicing some deeper need...even if only briefly.

Anyone who has read my posts will know, I am in a wheelchair. This Thread could have just as easily been called "how do escorts handle disabled clients". There are tons of stigmas out there wether you're overweight, old, in a wheelchair etc. I know what goes through peoples mind when I identify my situation, I know what the stereotypes are and they sure aren't sexy. So, I go out of my way to be better than most would imagine. Cleaner, fresher, better groomed. I suspect it's the same with many larger clients. They know all to well what they're up against.

To the OP, get off your high horse and take a dose of humanity. People take many different journeys in life. Some have choices, others less, and some just get stuck. However all deserve to be treated with respect

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Well said.

I would add the following:

1. The OP's comments amounts to hate mongering and borders on being criminal. Tolerance of others and recognizing our differences is something we should all strive for, as difficult as it can be sometimes.

2. The OP's comments drive home a very important point that we should try to keep in mind: SPs, in their line of work, intereact with an incredible variety of clients in terms of physical attributes, some of whom we individually, may find repulsive as expressed by the OP. It takes a very special person, therefore, to be able to handle all that, never mind dealing with the psychological and attitudinal issues that clients may bring. For all of this, SPs deserve special appreciation IMHO.

 

[John Henry]

And yet, you're here. Why is that?

Always in the Groove...

Yes I'm here . I'm not the one that's degrading obese people . Just trying to make a point here.

 

[irishguy0323]

Actually I`m pretty sure there are assholes or jerks in wheelchairs too along with every other category. You can find disabled assholes, fat assholes, skinny assholes, old assholes, young assholes, stinky assholes etc. etc.

Agreed, I'm in no way implying a wheelchair makes you a great person. I was just making the case that anyone in such a minority knows the hurdles in perception they face. You can succumb and surrender to them or, combat them head on by trying to be better.

 

[irishguy0323]

I have people of all kind..I am not there to be attract physically(i do that on my own time )but i have found that the ones i usually don't like; are usually the arrogant(nothing to do with size) ones..I have met some very charming obese men..I have to admit that i am not a flexible woman but i can squat:wink: however the ones that has met me will agree that it is a workout as it take 2 to tango and i do request them to work a bit.

As for hygiene i have found that if hygiene is not up to part and i clean the area..Usually they don't get upset oppose to the skinny guy..
I had "what society would call normal guy" leaving shit mark on my bed..

As for gents with disability..I have seen sclerose,quadraplegic,blind,deaf,etc.Well they are welcome but i want to know first what is the condition..As if someone is in wheelchair i need to know if i have to lift,undress,etc as it take more time..They are more welcome as well as long as they are nice to me.I have way more patient with anyone with a certain disability if for example they don't control their muscles and the finger end up in different place of where it was intent to..Than i completly normal guys acting like a moron.

I have found way more a chore to see guys that has "little guy syndrome even though they aren't little",disrespectful gent that think they are above,or decent looking guy that think he should get a deal because he think "he is a treat for an escort".

I know the OP was probably bias but i am sure it is a question that a lot wonder as for any type of situations..
VJ

I have seen you a few years ago Victoria. I was a bit nervous because sometimes the more ELITE SP's make a bigger deal out of my situation. YOU were great though! Thank you

 

[FatOne]

I hate fat people. I won't lie. I could not imagine having sex with some fat hog, fat thighs and dripping lard sweat.
How the hell do escorts deal with fat guys?
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Seem to be a bit obsessed about it.

Here, enjoy.

[video]http://www.xvideos.com/video2281002/fat_guy_doing_a_brunette[/video]

If you see escorts, it's a certainty you are sharing partners with obese men.

Think about it moeman, just before you had sex with that escort, some 500 pound guy was probably on top of her thrusting away, covering her in fat guy sweat with the man boobs and gut sliding over to each side of her covering her like a blanket. Grunting away with a slice of pizza in one hand and a donut in another. Yeah, picture it, go ahead.

just so you know, most larger men are actually very clean. I've run into slim men who have worse hygiene. Generalizations ... fack they drive me batty.

Wouldn't the bolded part be one of those generalizations that drive you batty. Just sayin.

I believe gluttony or sloth is the sin not obesity. Time to give Se7en another watch

Gluttony and sloth are virtues, along with lust, greed, envy, pride and wrath. The first 3 make like worth living, the next 3 motivate us to get shit done and the last one is just a sensible reaction to the world around us. Do a video search on Bill Hicks and Freebird some time.

As opposed to the 7 deadly sins. Chastity, temperance, charity, diligence, patience, kindness, and humility.
Chastity, diligence and temperance take the fun out of life.
Charity and kindness leave you open to being a sucker
Humility and patience stop you from getting shit done.

And don't argue the point people, I am half joking.

Actually I`m pretty sure there are assholes or jerks in wheelchairs too along with every other category. You can find disabled assholes, fat assholes, skinny assholes, old assholes, young assholes, stinky assholes etc. etc.

I hear there are gay assholes, but they really know how to work it.

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Well said.

I would add the following:

1. The OP's comments amounts to hate mongering and borders on being criminal. Tolerance of others and recognizing our differences is something we should all strive for, as difficult as it can be sometimes.
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I am a fat bastard [but not 500 pounds] and I find this disturbing. It is OK to dislike something or someone and even be sickened by it. The key is to move on and leave the people who sicken you alone as much as possible.



I would think the one thing that would be worse than doing some fat guy is doing some fat guy after he has lost a lot of weight. That lose skin looks much worse and the surgery results I've seen pics of don't exactly improve things much visually. There is a story about of Newfoundland of some poor fuck who did everything right and lost about 150 pounds and is now thin. MCP won't pay to get rid of the loose skin. It is disgusting to look at and it is causing him problems. Go figure, buddy did everything right and now this. Look about to what I say about wrath.

 

[ogibowt]

I'm certainly not obese but there are many who are genetically and for you to lump them all in as unkempt, lazy, donut munching slobs is highly ignorant. Maybe you should just worry about yourself instead of pre-judging people.

i agree with what this guy says, but its ironic coming from a poster that prejudges liberals on a constant basis on this board,,,

 

[simon482]

i wonder if the OP would not see a girl knowing she had bagged a fat guy.

 

[TROOPS]

I don't have a problem with obese people.

But for fuck sakes.............stop making your kids obese by introducing to them the same diet as you.

Nothing worse than seeing an obese husband and wife pushing around a stroller with super overweight 3yrold..eating greasy french fries off his stroller tray. And their 10 yr old daughter looks like she's 160lbs.

its the kids, i worry about.

The only time i don't like obese people is when they sit beside me on the plane. Other than that, i have no problems with them.

 

[nlt76]

I book early mornings. Never have to worry about following a left handed guy. Gross.

 

[Dmac1701x]

i agree with what this guy says, but its ironic coming from a poster that prejudges liberals on a constant basis on this board,,,

Ahhh but liberals choose their affiliation and are therefore easy to pre-judge, and mock...and perhaps scorn. Lol!

 

[ogibowt]

Ahhh but liberals choose their affiliation and are therefore easy to pre-judge, and mock...and perhaps scorn. Lol!

lol, thats how i feel about righties...

 

[moeman123]

Seem to be a bit obsessed about it.

Here, enjoy.

[video]http://www.xvideos.com/video2281002/fat_guy_doing_a_brunette[/video]



Think about it moeman, just before you had sex with that escort, some 500 pound guy was probably on top of her thrusting away, covering her in fat guy sweat with the man boobs and gut sliding over to each side of her covering her like a blanket. Grunting away with a slice of pizza in one hand and a donut in another. Yeah, picture it, go ahead.



Wouldn't the bolded part be one of those generalizations that drive you batty. Just sayin.



Gluttony and sloth are virtues, along with lust, greed, envy, pride and wrath. The first 3 make like worth living, the next 3 motivate us to get shit done and the last one is just a sensible reaction to the world around us. Do a video search on Bill Hicks and Freebird some time.

As opposed to the 7 deadly sins. Chastity, temperance, charity, diligence, patience, kindness, and humility.
Chastity, diligence and temperance take the fun out of life.
Charity and kindness leave you open to being a sucker
Humility and patience stop you from getting shit done.

And don't argue the point people, I am half joking.



I hear there are gay assholes, but they really know how to work it.



I am a fat bastard [but not 500 pounds] and I find this disturbing. It is OK to dislike something or someone and even be sickened by it. The key is to move on and leave the people who sicken you alone as much as possible.



I would think the one thing that would be worse than doing some fat guy is doing some fat guy after he has lost a lot of weight. That lose skin looks much worse and the surgery results I've seen pics of don't exactly improve things much visually. There is a story about of Newfoundland of some poor fuck who did everything right and lost about 150 pounds and is now thin. MCP won't pay to get rid of the loose skin. It is disgusting to look at and it is causing him problems. Go figure, buddy did everything right and now this. Look about to what I say about wrath.

You're not Jolly at all for a fat guy.

And that vid..barfffffffffffffffffffff... the girl could harldy keep her food in. Stomach turning. If I ever get above 20% BF I would just commit suicide.

 

[moeman123]

i wonder if the OP would not see a girl knowing she had bagged a fat guy.

The escorts I see don't see fat guys. They are very selective and only see clean cut white men. You know the girls I am talking about.
You can't pay them enough to have some 400 pound walrus smelling like feces humping them. Some women still have their self respect.

 

[calloway]

Is there no such thing as an obese clean cut white guy? Please post the names of "your" girls so I can take them off my TDL... even though I'm only 200lbs.

There are SP's and clients of all shapes and sizes... it's their choice.

The escorts I see don't see fat guys. They are very selective and only see clean cut white men. You know the girls I am talking about.
You can't pay them enough to have some 400 pound walrus smelling like feces humping them. Some women still have their self respect.

 

[Buick Mackane]

You can't pay them enough to have some 400 pound walrus smelling like feces humping them.

Gotta agree, the escorts on here who say they enjoy smelly fat men humping them are liars!

 

[JohnHenry]

Yes I'm here . I'm not the one that's degrading obese people . Just trying to make a point here.

The view expressed by "John Henry" are not necessarily mine.

 

[Keebler Elf]

The escorts I see don't see fat guys. They are very selective and only see clean cut white men. You know the girls I am talking about.
You can't pay them enough to have some 400 pound walrus smelling like feces humping them. Some women still have their self respect.

You're naive.

 

[simon482]

The escorts I see don't see fat guys. They are very selective and only see clean cut white men. You know the girls I am talking about.
You can't pay them enough to have some 400 pound walrus smelling like feces humping them. Some women still have their self respect.

do you also believe them when they tell you that yours is bigger? and i don't know the girls you are talking about, i don't partake in this "hobby".