How did you find a GF/Wife who was open to you seeing Escorts, Sugar Dating and going to stripclubs?

[TheQuestion]

Hey guys,
I have been thinking about this for awhile. At some point I might consider getting a Long Term GF/Wife but I wonder how can I find one who might be open to me going to stripclubs or Sugar date...etc.

I wonder how did you guys do it? It seems there's two possible either she is bisexual and wants to join in. Or she's asexual and has no interest in sex and doesn't mind you going to clubs...etc.

I'm still haven't figured it out so I would appreciate your insights.

 

[massman]

Suspect you are more likely to win the lottery.

 

[IM469]

Suspect you are more likely to win the lottery.

I'm guessing you find her after this occurs.

 

[onomatopoeia]

Step one is that you need to wear the pants in your relationship.

You might also try the direct approach, and invite your date to go to a strip bar with you. If she reacts as if you have a huge spider on your nose, you definitely know that she's not the one. There are, however, a LOT of women who would genuinely enjoy the experience.

Consider the following: VERY few civvie women would ever consider entering a strip bar alone, even if the dancers were male; but they would be fine with doing that, if they were with a pack of other drunken horny women.

The men's strip bar, like the Quebecois Tavern in days of old, or 'guys poker night' are places shrouded in mystery to most women. Being invited to enter, while safely under the protection of a male chaperone, could prove to be very tempting to her imagination. There are lots of things which women want to experience, but they deny themselves because of the reaction which they would receive from other women. This is why women go on vacation to the Caribbean alone - they want some Black dick, but they don't want the gossip about them that would follow, if they shop locally.

Many women would thoroughly enjoy a lap dance in a controlled, safe environment where they don't have to fend off the unwanted advances of single men who have this delusion that they are there for them.

If that goes well, build on it. If the evening tanks, it isn't necessarily the end of the relationship, but it wouldn't bode well for your other plans.

 

[Robert Mugabe]

Interesting "Cart before the Horse" approach. Start backwards. I like it!

 

[Ponderling]

My wife is a huge beauty pageant fan.
Also she does community theatre so has dancing and choreography experience
Sometimes when our schedules align we wil go the strip clubs together. We were married by 10 years the first time we went together.

We sit there and critique stage performances.
Hair - real colour etc. Good or bad selection of outfits, breasts real or memorex, do they move well, etc.
She sees stripping as a real world extenison of pageants in a way.

She goes out to see all sorts of plays and I see some of them with her.
Other times she is in a show and will be busy 2-3 weekends in a row after 6 weeks of 3 times a week rehearsals.
So I will tell her I am getting a itch to see the peelers on my own, I am since sick of sitting waiting for her gig to wrap.

She says no problem.
Best marriages are based on both being willing to communicate and not hide stuff.

I do limit my lurking to the SC's.

 

[onomatopoeia]

I'm good friends with a couple who met on a blind date around 1966. They both love camping. He has a couple of nights a week for guy stuff. That might be poker, pinball or any of a number of activities which don't interest her in the slightest. On those nights, she has a gossip fest with her female friends, or reads a book, or watches a movie he wouldn't like, or she takes a long bubble bath. Almost every other night, they're home together at their condo, if they're not away somewhere sleeping in their trailer, somewhere in the woods.

They are probably the happiest couple I have ever met, because they don't spend ALL of their free time together, and neither feels obliged to participate in things that only the other wants to do.

 

[anon1]

Here.

 

[DesRicardo]

From what I've seen and have slightly experienced personally (gf was ok with strip clubs), this is usually a red flag.

 

[StephenHKing]

Hey guys,
I have been thinking about this for awhile. At some point I might consider getting a Long Term GF/Wife but I wonder how can I find one who might be open to me going to stripclubs or Sugar date...etc.

I wonder how did you guys do it? It seems there's two possible either she is bisexual and wants to join in. Or she's asexual and has no interest in sex and doesn't mind you going to clubs...etc.

I'm still haven't figured it out so I would appreciate your insights.

You have to pay her more than she’d get for an alternative. I know of only one relationship like this - Miami friend openly fucks escorts etc and when I asked about his wife he just said “she has no choice.”

Which means prenup, limited allowance, and kids.

 

[massman]

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[massman]

I'm good friends with a couple who met on a blind date around 1966. They both love camping. He has a couple of nights a week for guy stuff. That might be poker, pinball or any of a number of activities which don't interest her in the slightest. On those nights, she has a gossip fest with her female friends, or reads a book, or watches a movie he wouldn't like, or she takes a long bubble bath. Almost every other night, they're home together at their condo, if they're not away somewhere sleeping in their trailer, somewhere in the woods.

They are probably the happiest couple I have ever met, because they don't spend ALL of their free time together, and neither feels obliged to participate in things that only the other wants to do.

“We hung out together every single moment
'Cause that's what we thought married people do”