How client’s age IMPACTS an escort, as seen in some Ads

[Jenesis]

Came across some ads specifying “ Clients 30/35 or above only”. While I understand it is an escorts’ personal choice, still as a newbie I am curious to know
1)what are the characteristic differences of clients above and below these age limits from an escorts’ perspective?
2) Is there such a HUGE difference in clients’ BEHAVIOUR towards the companion, during these sessions, from the perspective of “WELL KNOWN MEMBERs” who hobbied in their 20’s versus 30’s?

For me - I don’t want to see people who remind me of my kids first of all.

Second - many in their 20s are time wasters playing games or looking for instruction etc and that is not something I’m interested it.

Third - while doing incalls at my home a) I don’t want to run into my kids friends and b) I can’t explain random 20 something kids coming to my house if it ever came up

 

[Vera.Reis]

Heard from ladies that older guys are:

- More respectful/polite
- Bigger wallets
- More appreciative of the experience
- More worldly, hence better conversationalists
- Less volatile, more relaxed
- More reliable (booking, punctual, etc.)
- Understand how a women is "wired" because they learned sex through actual contact with actual women. Too many younger guys learn sex through porn. Porn is about what looks arousing, not what IS arousing. (E.g., few women in real life enjoy getting cum on their face, slapped, choked, spit on, etc - certainly not from a stranger).

I'd like to add to "certainly not from a stranger" part.

Most sex workers are acutely aware that we are at higher risk of being physically harmed, so if a client chokes me, I'm going to freak out because I don't know if he's just being rough or trying to kill me.

 

[Spacealien2]

I'd like to add to "certainly not from a stranger" part.

Most sex workers are acutely aware that we are at higher risk of being physically harmed, so if a client chokes me, I'm going to freak out because I don't know if he's just being rough or trying to kill me.

I hope you guys have some form of close-combat skills and self defense tools.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I hope you guys have some form of close-combat skills and self defense tools.

Yes because God forbid your aim would be taken at the men who harm us, it must be our responsibility to learn self defense.

The world would be better served by teaching men to not hurt women.

 

[Spacealien2]

I myself am a black belt in Ameri-Do-Te

 

[Willie Layer]

I’m in my 50’s and have heard from many of the SPs I’ve been with that the older guys are more chill, less worried about their performance or appearance, easy going for how the session flows and of course less likely to haggle or short change the session. Most of them tell me they date older men in their personal lives and can’t stand guys their own age because they lost tolerance for immature behaviour.

 

[Vera.Reis]

I myself am a black belt in Ameri-Do-Te

I'm sure that's going to make providers so comfortable to see you.

 

[Jenesis]

Yes because God forbid your aim would be taken at the men who harm us, it must be our responsibility to learn self defense.

The world would be better served by teaching men to not hurt women.

Exactly. Perfect example what is wrong with the thinking of some men and sadly it is their opinions that are still the predominant ones in society.

 

[KDK13]

Yes because God forbid your aim would be taken at the men who harm us, it must be our responsibility to learn self defense.

The world would be better served by teaching men to not hurt women.

In fact, I've instructed a few faves on some techniques (mainly Krav stuff, other safety things) that hopefully they'll never need. I think it takes admirable courage by the ladies to do this job. Much respect.

 

[Spacealien2]

My sensei was ex- US ranger. Tough as nails.

He opened a martial art dojo. Kobra Kai he called it. His motto:

STRIKE FIRST
STRIKE HARD
NO MERCY!

 

[Vera.Reis]

In fact, I've instructed a few faves on some techniques (mainly Krav stuff, other safety things) that hopefully they'll never need. I think it takes admirable courage by the ladies to do this job. Much respect.

Taking initiative, we love to see it.

I personally am an ex rugby player, wrestler and did crossfit for a long time.

I don't think I'll ever need to use my skills however.. I have a theory that most men with the intent of doing harm aren't likely to come after a woman of my size. Those men are cowards and want to exert dominance over someone so I believe they are more likely to go after someone who looks like they can be easily over powered and doesn't look like they can fight back. This isn't to say it can't happen, but I think it is unlikely that it would be premeditated.

 

[Jenesis]

Taking initiative, we love to see it.

I personally am an ex rugby player, wrestler and did crossfit for a long time.

I don't think I'll ever need to use my skills however.. I have a theory that most men with the intent of doing harm aren't likely to come after a woman of my size. Those men are cowards and want to exert dominance over someone so I believe they are more likely to go after someone who looks like they can be easily over powered and doesn't look like they can fight back. This isn't to say it can't happen, but I think it is unlikely that it would be premeditated.

The plus of plus size. LOL. I agree.

I have some training, I have tools at my disposal, I have things hidden, including my money in case of robbery. But bottom line, if a guy is intent on hurting me, killing me, raping or robbing me, he will most likely be able to. I just won’t be making it easy for him. And hopefully it is just hard enough for him to think it is not worth it and leave.

Then, thanks to screening, I follow up with police and charges.

 

[Darts]

Usually, young males are like a "bull in a China shop". Very little finesse. Sorry, young males but I think that is usually (not always) true.

 

[Bagilson]

Yes because God forbid your aim would be taken at the men who harm us, it must be our responsibility to learn self defense.

The world would be better served by teaching men to not hurt women.

Rather a sexist viewpoint. You only want men trained not to hurt women, but you don't care if they hurt other men.

Either way, your position amounts to a nothing-burger from a practical standpoint. Society goes to great lengths to teach people not to hurt other people. For a small minority, that teaching never takes hold. That small minority usually ends up in the legal fringes of society. When you are in a business where you deal with the legal fringes of society (i.e. drug dealer, cop, prostitute or customer of prostitutes) you are exposing yourself to an unavoidable increase in risk. It's like skydiving or SCUBA diving; know the risk and have some safety measures in place to mitigate it. If something bad happens, and you didn't have plans to mitigate it, you'll have my sympathies but ultimately, from a pragmatic standpoint, you'll also have some of the blame.

 

[Vera.Reis]

Rather a sexist viewpoint. You only want men trained not to hurt women, but you don't care if they hurt other men.

Either way, your position amounts to a nothing-burger from a practical standpoint. Society goes to great lengths to teach people not to hurt other people. For a small minority, that teaching never takes hold. That small minority usually ends up in the legal fringes of society. When you are in a business where you deal with the legal fringes of society (i.e. drug dealer, cop, prostitute or customer of prostitutes) you are exposing yourself to an unavoidable increase in risk. It's like skydiving or SCUBA diving; know the risk and have some safety measures in place to mitigate it. If something bad happens, and you didn't have plans to mitigate it, you'll have my sympathies but ultimately, from a pragmatic standpoint, you'll also have some of the blame.

Mmmm victim blaming and a lack of understanding of gender based violence. So sexy.

 

[Jenesis]

Rather a sexist viewpoint. You only want men trained not to hurt women, but you don't care if they hurt other men.

Either way, your position amounts to a nothing-burger from a practical standpoint. Society goes to great lengths to teach people not to hurt other people. For a small minority, that teaching never takes hold. That small minority usually ends up in the legal fringes of society. When you are in a business where you deal with the legal fringes of society (i.e. drug dealer, cop, prostitute or customer of prostitutes) you are exposing yourself to an unavoidable increase in risk. It's like skydiving or SCUBA diving; know the risk and have some safety measures in place to mitigate it. If something bad happens, and you didn't have plans to mitigate it, you'll have my sympathies but ultimately, from a pragmatic standpoint, you'll also have some of the blame.

Oh come on now sweetie. You know that by discussing violence with women does not mean we are excluding violence with men.

What is being said is the onus should be on perpetrator to NOT commit the offence as oppose to the victim needing to learn to avoid the offence.

Since this context is talking about violence between a man and woman and as the woman as the victim because she is a sex worker, that is the reason only one gender of victims is discussed.

But it can be said that clients need to be taught to be respectful and non-violent over sex workers needing to be trained to avoid and defend. Since there are male sex workers as well. Again though, usually seen by other men. There is a much higher demand for rent boys over heterosexual only male escorts.

 

[Hippopotamus]

Over the years I've had many girls tell me that in general older men are their favourite clients - that they tend to be more gentle, more interested in mutual pleasure rather than just their own pleasure and less demanding in terms of services. But you really do need the girls to chime on that. I would think that some girls (especially say those in the early-mid 20's) might find the age difference with older guys a bit weird. Generational differences probably make it hard sometimes to really make a connection.

Nicely written. & Precisely explained.

 

[Hippopotamus]

As someone who just turned 30, really young guys make me feel weird, I already prefer older men in my personal life, so guys under 25 who look young make me awkward. But sometimes a young guy will go through the book process in a very mature and respectful manner and I will see them. However, most of the clients who have been aggressive with me and did wild shit like bite my vagina, were under 25, probably closer to 20. I'm happy to go multiple rounds, what I'm not happy to do is have someone manhandle me (pull my hair, spank me HARD, bite me?!?!?!) without asking first. To me, the rougher stuff requires a build up, you can't just fuck me like this is a brazzers scene without any discussion about it or a warm up.

Older clients (30+) usually 1. book more time so we can actually get to know each other a little and build chemistry 2. have some idea where the clit, and enjoy giving pleasure 3. can actually hold a conversation 4. are hot as fuck.

You have raised very valid points from a companions’ perspective. It makes sense and provides deeper insights as to why!

 

[Hippopotamus]

To give you some honest answer, at least for me, you do not have sex the same way in your 20's as you will in your 40, 50 or 60's...

When your older...

First of all when you have sex you always have this tough in your mind that it may very well be the last time

Second you are not as judgemental to little imperfection on the girl's body. You just lick, fuck, suck right trough it. I mean most of us have not seen our own abs since 22 years

Third we do not give a shit about our own performance. We are way past that time. Our complete lack of ego makes the girl comfortable.

And lastly most of us older dudes have more money. Which can make girl wet easier then a big douche bag penis haha

I can’t resist but appreciate your funny yet honest and insightful explanation. Seems like u r into ZEN philosophy in ur approach to this hobby.

 

[Hippopotamus]

Heard from ladies that older guys are:

- More respectful/polite
- Bigger wallets
- More appreciative of the experience
- More worldly, hence better conversationalists
- Less volatile, more relaxed
- More reliable (booking, punctual, etc.)
- Understand how a women is "wired" because they learned sex through actual contact with actual women. Too many younger guys learn sex through porn. Porn is about what looks arousing, not what IS arousing. (E.g., few women in real life enjoy getting cum on their face, slapped, choked, spit on, etc - certainly not from a stranger).

Your last point added a very significant dimension as to why! Makes a lot of sense.