How can I help an escort

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EliasTyler98

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I won’t go into specifics but a provider called earlier asking if I could see them so they can play to extend their hotel stay. When asked if they have a place to go after they told me they were homeless. I’m unable to make the time and do not feel comfortable prepaying as I’ve been screwed out of hundreds of dollars doing so. How can. We genuinely help her?
 

ButtMonkey

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If you feel comfortable, send her money, but I would advise against it.
I would bet that you will never get the expected service, or reach around for the value of that money.
Been there... done that...
Dont feel responsible for fixing every one of them... if she can afford a hotel stay, she likely could have budgeted her money better for an appartment, or something.
 
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NotADcotor

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I won’t go into specifics but a provider called earlier asking if I could see them so they can play to extend their hotel stay. When asked if they have a place to go after they told me they were homeless. I’m unable to make the time and do not feel comfortable prepaying as I’ve been screwed out of hundreds of dollars doing so. How can. We genuinely help her?
1: She isn't your friend or your girlfriend, not your circus not your monkeys, not your problem.
2: Homeless? Bullshit. Also she is an adult and an adult with a high paying job, see point 1.
3: She probably thinks you are a loser, most [not all] of them think their clients are losers. Why would you help someone who looks down on you.
4: That she is asking you for this, she definitely is one of the ones who thinks her clients are losers. She thinks you are a gullible mark, a mook and if you pay out, you will confirm this.
5: You are not the only one she is asking this of.
6: If you were in trouble, either temporary or otherwise would she return the favor... no she wouldn't. If you were strapped for cash would she do you for free on the promise of you paying later. No.

Hell I knew one guy, attractive, very successful with the ladies who considered it an honour to pay for a girls meal only because she is pretty. No expectations, just her parents had good genetics and here is some free food.
 

tbird73

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I won’t go into specifics but a provider called earlier asking if I could see them so they can play to extend their hotel stay. When asked if they have a place to go after they told me they were homeless. I’m unable to make the time and do not feel comfortable prepaying as I’ve been screwed out of hundreds of dollars doing so. How can. We genuinely help her?
Difficult question. Send her some money, if you want to give her a gift. Because that's what it will be. Or you could offer to bring her some food or supplies next time, or help pay for an ad (litecoin). An ad could be a big help (plus help with pictures, etc.) There are people that deserve to be helped, or even spoiled, but they are very rare. Also, if you help once, you may be expected to help regularly. Be very careful.
 

NotADcotor

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I was on a stripper's personal facebook, she told me to keep it chill because she didn't want her occupation going on there.
One time she posted a gofundme to help repair her bathroom. Some dude told her that adults take care of their own shit.
It was nice to see.
 

withpassion

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As has been mentioned, if you wish to do so, treat it as a gift with no expectation of any payback cuz that's what it will be.
 
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MarianneC

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From a girl's perspective... don't do it it's an obvious scam. You don't even need to feel charitable about this, you've already been burned like this in the past, as you said. Other girls have tried things like this on me in the past too, and I got burned, and then I got hardened. So it even happens between girls. So no need to feel sorry for her, no need to come to her rescue like a white knight.
 

Josephine Grey

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There are resources to help SW in needs. OIC has an emergency fund, if she is a member, and pretty sure if she calls Maggie's Toronto they can orient her to the proper place.


I saw some girls in the past that were pimped and when it was slow they were forced to do that. It's tricky. Stay out of it. The community will step up if she is really in need and really willing to help herself.
 

tbird73

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I won’t go into specifics but a provider called earlier asking if I could see them so they can play to extend their hotel stay. When asked if they have a place to go after they told me they were homeless. I’m unable to make the time and do not feel comfortable prepaying as I’ve been screwed out of hundreds of dollars doing so. How can. We genuinely help her?
You should probably ignore 97% of cases like this. But if you want to help, and she is a good provider, you could write an honest review. Without mentioning her situation. Then at least you did something.
 

Pinkpanther80

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I won’t go into specifics but a provider called earlier asking if I could see them so they can play to extend their hotel stay. When asked if they have a place to go after they told me they were homeless. I’m unable to make the time and do not feel comfortable prepaying as I’ve been screwed out of hundreds of dollars doing so. How can. We genuinely help her?
simple you don’t help!
I had an escort that use to text me and ask if I wanted to see her so I blocked her number. They offer a service for which I pay and I will be in contact and if they contact me, especially asking for money, they get thrown away quicker than the condom after a car call!
If you want to be an idiot though go right ahead!
 
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