I don't get it....maybe if it happened naturally and I didn't have pay. You know , the way we used to do it before we got old, or married , or lazy, or all of the above?
I had it happen a few times in Montreal on Cresent.... not planned or arranged. I was actually taking the night off and relaxing on one occasion, and having a few drinks! No intentions on calling an sp for the evening. And for me I usually use agencies, vs indy.
At first it actually seemed like a friendly gesture of chit chat when she approached the bar and ordered a drink. This type of sp has an excellent ability to adapt socially! We literally chatted for about an hour about everything and nothing. Soon i was showing her pictures of my damn dogs on my phone, and a recent trip to Italy! By that time I was in the mood and she could sense it! Thats when the offer came about! It just brings about the entire element of picking up a girl at a bar... it helps create that fantasy, with an almost guarantee of sealing the deal!
Im not an old man (age is in my handle), Im fairly well off, and very social, and single. I live a life that doesn't make time for settling down yet! In my opinion, Im not half bad... and my accent usually gets me quite a bit of attention with the opposite sex! I just don't want a relationship right now... or for the last 5 years! LOL Thats why i do this. Not to mention... you can live out just about any fantasy that you have when you're in this hobby! Having two gorgeous dark skinned beauties pick me up the bar.... yup that hits home! Not as much as two asians... but its up there! LOL. But wigglee, I do know exactly what your saying... but its just a part of mixing the hobby a bit and having fun with fantasies.
I also think this appeals to some clients as it gives the client and the sp a chance to meet prior to an arrangement. Know what I mean? In Montreal they have VIP parties that clients and sp's (indy and agency) attend... and everyone mingles and drinks and gets to know each other. I would place money on it that these parties definitely help the business a whole lot! Even though nothing sexual really happens at the parties... that I know about! If Toronto had similar parties, I would attend just to meet the courtesans face to face, and have a chat.
I just find making the attempt at a bar (if you can find one that suits your interests), especially when you're from out of town, and staying at a hotel, never really works out to well! Not for me anyway! LOL