Hot or average girl

jackal2006

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Is it better to be with a hot girl or with an average or below average looking girl?

I have a friend that married a below average looking girl and I respect that. I'm no beaut myself so I can see how superficial Toronto is.

Have you guys ever dated someone that you knew was not physically hot but you loved their personality and the person they were ?
 

jackal2006

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@LT56 I used to believe that too. But living here I no longer have faith in people. Even women are superficial now. You could be a decent person with good values but they still don't give you a chance. I wish I were wrong but given what I see out there not sure.
 

wigglee

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If you like being harassed and dissed by jealous jerks and would be playas, go for the hot babe.
 

rhuarc29

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In terms of marriage, probably the average-looking girl. Looks fade, and those who are hot when young often tend to have issues that you can't overlook once those good looks are gone. It's a failing of men that we can overlook them to begin with.

When I was 22, I dated a stunning 28-year-old. Tall, brunette, busty, and spunky...was fucking awesome! After I graduated though, we drifted apart, though still kept in touch. And with that separation I began to remember the parts that weren't so awesome. The selfishness, the lack of substance, etc. Eventually she bagged a rich banker guy (a friend of mine). Fast forward to now and she makes him miserable as hell. She's desperately trying to cling to her youth, and has had several rather poor cosmetic procedures performed in that pursuit. Her spunk is gone, replaced by bitterness and envy. When I last saw her four months ago she was drunk and actually tried to make-out with me and give me a handjob, rambling about how great we were together and how she missed that. I got the fuck out of there.

Obviously that one instance is anecdotal. But the general rule holds: beauty is mildly, negatively correlated with character. That goes for both men and women, though I believe the correlation is stronger in women because of historical standards surrounding beauty. For men I think the correlation is between power and character.
 

Caspertheghost

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Have dated numerous models, actresses, athletes and normal “girls next door” in my life. By far I preferred the girls next door. You might call them “average” but I wouldn’t. Level headed, intelligent, sexy, humble and way more fun. The models and most of the actresses were focused on themselves. The athletes were focused on performance most of the time. But the normal women were focused on a healthy relationship.

That said, getting blowjobs from and fucking women that I could also see on TV or in a magazine shoot did have its good moments ;) ha ha ha
 

studentjohn

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Have dated numerous models, actresses, athletes and normal “girls next door” in my life. By far I preferred the girls next door. You might call them “average” but I wouldn’t. Level headed, intelligent, sexy, humble and way more fun. The models and most of the actresses were focused on themselves. The athletes were focused on performance most of the time. But the normal women were focused on a healthy relationship.

That said, getting blowjobs from and fucking women that I could also see on TV or in a magazine shoot did have its good moments ;) ha ha ha
Bahahha almost spit out my water
 

Insidious Von

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A woman's looks and personality merge by the time they hit 40. So if you can't tolerate her shit at 25......
 

apoptygma

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The uglies have to work harder in bed, I find.
A hottie will be average in bed.
An uggo can rock your world.
 

Aardvark154

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As I presume all of us know the better you know someone the more attractive they appear to you.

The expression "beauty is in the eye of the beholder" dates to the Third Century B.C. in Greece.

In our hearts I believe all of us know it is a mix but your personality trumps your physical appearance.
 

yermama

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I thought most people here would say that you are not supposed to marry at all if you want to be happy?
 

rogerdodger

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I've dated many good looking women since the 70's and never really had any problems meeting them - at least until I hit 55. At that age I still kept meeting them but their "hotness" started to decline probably with my looks as I got older. Overall I dated about 50 or so with a dozen truly hot, drop dead gorgeous centerfold types , in Toronto, Vancouver and LA. 4 of them were featured as models in magazines and TV and had failed acting tryouts.Most were either way too high maintenance or way too bitchy or whiny or demanding and the sex was at best ordinary. I then met my wife who was about a an 8 out of 10 but had a normal personality and outlook on life and I truly lucked out brother.
 

Phil C. McNasty

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See my sig.

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