Hope @ALO, Formerly Brass and Paradise

[randall_stevens]

a friend of mine went through the same thing.... loaned money to a provider, and never got it back.... BUT.....

It was way worse, he showed me the text messages of the conversation, and SHE sent him threats that she will send someone to go visit him.

Nothing happened, but it's not right to be sending threats to people that were kind enough to LOAN you money.

Very sorry that it happened to you, my buddy learned his lesson, and it sounds like you have as well.

 

[TJnumbers]

Its amusing how theres only one sp on here commenting and very telling how loud the silence is from the lady(s) in question. Pretty worrysome when you start learning the dark shit and when it includes allegedly more moral organizations encouraging drug use.

 

[IsaMassage]

perhaps the ladies are afraid I am not.. I know I have been a victim just like guys have been.., so no fear... I am ok with it nothing t hide anymore

 

[blondefan]

Its amusing how theres only one sp on here commenting and very telling how loud the silence is from the lady(s) in question. Pretty worrysome when you start learning the dark shit and when it includes allegedly more moral organizations encouraging drug use.

i'm not saying this stuff doesn't happen i'm sure it does but not all ladies frequent these boards and just like there are a ton of hobbyists lurking most of the ladies that read these boards do not post anything. I would imagine posting in this thread and the general negativity within it is something most would want to stay away from.

I would never loan money to an MA/SP/Stripper, etc. You just have to be smart about it. If you do decide to give anything extra whether it be cash or gifts its a tip. If you are giving extra for an extra service I would expect it to be just for that session (and agreed upon ahead of time). If somehow it turns into the same kind of extras for future sessions is up to the provider but shouldn't be expected.

 

[Jabba]

This is quite an old discussion on this forum but the moral of the story still holds water.
I'm not without sympathy for the OP, and the experience is a harsh lesson in human nature. There's always two sides to a story - it will be interesting to hear the other side.

To all those who have a soft spot for their play companions (including me) - when it comes to loans, consider following the sound advice of the membership here.