Here is a start.Bingo.
BTW, as a super powerful mod, maybe you could have dug up all the old threads to prove the assertion.![]()
https://terb.cc/vbulletin/search.php?searchid=5196561
This topic has been not only done to death, it`s been dug up countless times since.
Summary of discussions to date, and answer to the op.
1. Many (most) guys here have some kind of SO.
2. Of course it is "cheating", if you have doubt, ask your wife. Most consider it not as bad as an affair that includes "emotional cheating" but again your SO may argue about this.
3. Most feel guilty in some way, but feel it is justified for a variety of reasons.(e.g. Complete lack of sex / intimacy/ attention at home, specific sexual needs that are ignored etc). We all must ultimately answer to our own moral compass- right or wrong.
And finally, some holier than thou type (unattached) will post shortly on how all of the attached guys are bastards, whi.e ignoring the fact that they too are engaged in an activity that much / most of mainstream society sees as wrong / immoral. And another (unattached) will come on posting that guys who cheat with escorts should man up and get a divorce.