Hobbying....

[Noir@heart]

I know it is called this for a reason, but i would like to know how many people in your circle know what you do. Friends, siblings, spouses, co-workers or do you only share here online with other like minded people.

Thanks for the time.

 

[eldoguy]

Two, one of them one terb, other an sp!

 

[Cycleguy007]

I'm pretty much a SC guy, so maybe I don't "fully" qualify as a "hobbyist"... but, yes certain trusting individuals are aware.

My wife often comes to the SC with me, and we are currently researching getting an SP for her to play with as well. Yes, she is bisexual... but this part only a very few select individuals are aware of.

Aside from that, a number of our friends know we go to SC's on occasion and some have even came with us.

As for Terbies... there are a few that know my real first name. ;-)

 

[Delta-Wye]

I know it is called this for a reason, but i would like to know how many people in your circle know what you do. Friends, siblings, spouses, co-workers or do you only share here online with other like minded people.

Thanks for the time.

No one in " real life " only 3 sps know my terb handle and face. Only 1 special lady knows everything and she is one of the 3 sps .

 

[moresex4me]

No one knows outside of here, no one knows my real name, some SP's know my handle as I met/and or talked with them first on Terb, but again, I don't talk about hobbying with anyone outside of SP's and on Terb.

 

[wet_suit_one]

One friend only. And all you losers here!

 

[artj]

Nooooo body!

 

[snowleopard]

I'm pretty much a SC guy, so maybe I don't "fully" qualify as a "hobbyist"... but, yes certain trusting individuals are aware.

Please, please ... don't start a poll asking what constitutes a 'Real' hobbyist.

Me? I too live a double-life. In one: I'm a mild-mannered, law-abiding, proper citizen ... in the other: a sex-maniac hobbyist.

Indeed, I think that's what appeals to me about it ... the rush of the mysterious clandestine nature of it all. My very own secret life ... Looking for Ms. Goodfuck, so to speak ... the never-ending search for the perfect 'O'.

 

[TracedInAir]

nobody but I think some people must think I'm doing something, becuase ever since I started going to MPA'S, I haven't gone a single date! lol

 

[kz65]

Nope never discuss this hobby with anyone...

 

[Noir@heart]

Excuse my ignorance but is it hobbying if you are single (unattached)...i would think it would be more like dating but actually knowing what you want having that goal satisfied and moving on.

I tell everybody who will listen .My co-workers cant wait for monday morning when I have a new adventure to tell and they are depressed when I dont .I think they are living vicariously through me because their married lives are so dull.

 

[JohnC]

I know it is called this for a reason, but i would like to know how many people in your circle know what you do. Friends, siblings, spouses, co-workers or do you only share here online with other like minded people.

Thanks for the time.

Nobody!!

Apart from one terb member that is!!

 

[ROGER O. THORNHILL]

One Who Lives Well, Lives Unnoticed

There is one guy I've talked about it with but not about TERB, just the hobbying aspect.

He's not selective at all and has no sense of finesse. I would never want to introduce him to some of the lovely, sweet girls that are on my regular timetable of appointments. I would be loath to think of this potential scenario.

A guy like this is of the mentality that since he is being provided for a certain service in return for his $ contribution, the girl then is nothing more than a lowly paid employee. No better than a lackey or a destitute servant.
He's not concerned with some kind of chemistry. An actual enjoyment of mutual company.

I, for one, have no problems with burning music CD's, picking up a book I see or even nice lingerie once I have developed a repoire with a certain young lady I know I'll be seeing regularly. I've even been told by agencies: "XXXX won't be on for a few days, but she mentioned that if YOU call, she'll be happy to see you". I find that very flattering. It is the best case scenario in terms of YMMV, in my opinion.

Alas, most don't see it this way. So, after this guy I mentioned, I don't share my experiences anymore. I date a lot in the "real world" as well so I can afford to be very selective about who I "hobby" with and who I share my tales with as well.

Bene qui latuit, bene vixit!

 

[rama putri]

3 people - all of them who were SPs.

 

[Cycleguy007]

Please, please ... don't start a poll asking what constitutes a 'Real' hobbyist.

OK... I won't.

 

[woodee]

No one knows about my hobbying except the few Sp's and MPA's I see occasionally.
I am not married and do not have a current girl friend

 

[herames]

its know among my siblings...but we talk about in a humorous manner.
"I'm am not an animal"
the elephant man http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DL2nEDCe0Hw

 

[Bear669]

Several folks

I know it is called this for a reason, but i would like to know how many people in your circle know what you do. Friends, siblings, spouses, co-workers or do you only share here online with other like minded people.

Thanks for the time.

My business partner & his wife
3 other old pals from my industry
My brother
An old fuck buddy I have known for 30 years
I think one of my sisters strongly suspects

I am a PROUD Punter!

 

[johnhenrygalt]

The only one who knows is my wife.

 

[HG Hunter]

Only people I've met through the hobby.
I've become close to a few girls with whom I exchange e-mails and one former MPA in Montreal who I still speak with almost weekly.
There is also a dozen or so guys from the Montreal Massage forum who get together for lunch and a few drinks periodically. When I lived there, I was part of that group. Mostly we just used our online handles and no real names are used.
I have also become fairly well acquainted with a couple of spa owners.

Other than these people, nobody else knows about this part of my life.