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Bizzer

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Anyone have any recommendations on where/what to use for searching reliable providers in Dallas & Orlando?
 

krealtarron

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Twitter, Tryst, theeroticreview.com, Eros are all good options.
 
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Took a quick look at the recent TER reviews for you. For GFE, well reviewed ladies who won’t break the bank, here would be my picks.

Dallas



Orlando



Don’t wander off the reservation in those two cities. They are not sex-work friendly cities. In fact, they are two of the least sex work friendly cities in the U.S., unlike the much friendlier Austin, Texas and Miami, Florida.

Massage parlors are a current hot spot for law enforcement in Texas and Florida, and Texas law enforcement is running all kinds of sting ads on skipthegames. And violating prostitution laws in Texas can get you charged with a felony.

That having been said, if you see a well reviewed lady who screens, you will be fine and never have anything to worry about. Join TER or browse through ECCIE if you want more than the four I listed. But stay on the Reservation. You don’t want to get shot with an arrow.
 
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Took a quick look at the recent TER reviews for you. For GFE, well reviewed ladies who won’t break the bank, here would be my picks.

Dallas



Orlando



Don’t wander off the reservation in those two cities. They are not sex-work friendly cities. In fact, they are two of the least sex work friendly cities in the U.S., unlike the much friendlier Austin, Texas and Miami, Florida.

Massage parlors are a current hot spot for law enforcement in Texas and Florida, and Texas law enforcement is running all kinds of sting ads on skipthegames. And violating prostitution laws in Texas can get you charged with a felony.

That having been said, if you see a well reviewed lady who screens, you will be fine and never have anything to worry about. Join TER or browse through ECCIE if you want more than the four I listed. But stay on the Reservation. You don’t want to get shot with an arrow.
Great advice!
 
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Be careful you are not in Canada anymore.

It's in Orlando in 2015 or 2014 that I got on a false profile. It was not preferred411 but it was not a cheap add site either. Can't remember the name.

So basically the 'provider' was a fake profile made by LE... 'She' asked me where I was from and what I was doing in town. I answered that I was from canada attending an international conference.

'She' answered that I stumble on LE and that I should not be doing this. End of story. Got scared AF. Never ever did anything else in my numerous trip to the US since.
 
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Be careful you are not in Canada anymore.

It's in Orlando in 2015 or 2014 that I got on a false profile. It was not preferred411 but it was not a cheap add site either. Can't remember the name.

So basically the 'provider' was a fake profile made by LE... 'She' asked me where I was from and what I was doing in town. I answered that I was from canada attending an international conference.

'She' answered that I stumble on LE and that I should not be doing this. End of story. Got scared AF. Never ever did anything else in my numerous trip to the US since.
Yes, good advice.

All those ladies I linked to had multiple reviews on TER from reviewers with dozens of reviews. The first one from Dallas, who is probably the best one on the list, also has a significant ECCIE presence. That is the first area of Due Diligence. Has she been around a good while and has she been reviewed by a variety of reviewers who themselves have been around a good while.

The ladies themselves complain about the level of documentation they have to submit to have advertisements on Preferred 411 and Tryst. Those sites are going to make damn sure that law enforcement doesn’t place a fake ad, or worse that a minor does so.

To be safe in the U.S. the ladies screen the customers. Sometimes that is as simple as calls and texts from a real cell phone number, and for some of them, it is so intrusive that you think you are going to have to submit to them a reference letter from your mother. One of the reasons they don’t feel bad about that is that they feel they are subject to never ending screening themselves. And that adds to the high prices they charge.

It is how it works in the U.S. if you want to have no risk of problems with law enforcement. If you respond to an add from a lady with no historical, verifiable web presence, you take some real risks. Same with massage parlors and even strip joints. The Dallas police used to (and for all I know still do) watch the parking lot of strip joints to do solicitation citations when customers talk to the ladies in the parking lot at closing time. I think they all got dismissed, but it was a strong-arm scare tactic.

There are ways you do this, and ways you don’t. And it differs greatly from place to place. Austin Texas is much more live and let live, and the police there wouldn’t hassle customers as much.

Orlando is one of the worst places in the country. In the landline days, the hotels blocked the numbers for local escort services.

Fortunately, hotels don’t limit access to ladies coming up to rooms or make them register.

So if she isn’t a cop, and if you aren’t a cop, and you remember to shut the damn door to your hotel room when exchanging money and having sex, you are safe.

And it isn’t illegal in the U.S. to hire an escort for time and companionship. It is important to not discuss explicit details in emails and texts, just in case those ever came to light, which is unlikely. Explicit details are what reviews are for.
 
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I'd avoid. I keep hearing about stings and busts, and you don't wanna be caught with your pants down in those areas. They publish names and mug shots of those they arrest (regardless if they ever get convicted), and you will likely get deported and not be able to return to the US....
 

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I'd avoid. I keep hearing about stings and busts, and you don't wanna be caught with your pants down in those areas. They publish names and mug shots of those they arrest (regardless if they ever get convicted), and you will likely get deported and not be able to return to the US....
There certainly are a lot of busts and arrests, but they all follow a very established pattern. What is amazing is that an endless supply of guys walk right into the same traps that generate the stings and busts that you read about.

The focus of law enforcement in the U.S. is on the low-end scene, and is more oriented to pursuing Johns than sex workers, unless a deportation opportunity exists.

Law enforcement takes out a fake ad on a low-cost advertising site where an escort offers services at a rate in the $100 to $300 range. The texts back and forth get quite explicit in terms of sexual services, and when the John walks into the incall hotel, he is arrested for solicitation. Sometimes the dumb shit even brings items that the police officer requested during the text exchanges, such as marijuana.

A press conference occurs and the police publicize the details, with particular emphasis to how many guys with good jobs, especially teachers, they nabbed.

Other areas of focus are massage parlors and any incall with more than one lady present at a time. The police stake those places out, including the use of cameras to identify customers and what they drive.

What is safe are expensive escorts who screen their customers, and agencies (who also screen) in safer cities that don’t attack escort agencies.

When someone asks, I try to post about what is safe, and what isn’t.
 
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Detroit Area?
These are the two whose TER series of excellent GFE reviews interested me the most.



Neither gets all perfect reviews. Detroit isn’t the world‘s greatest hobby destination.

But I have always been amazed at how weak Windsor is. The top Canadian providers never tour there, either.

What is up with that?
 
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These are the two whose TER series of excellent GFE reviews interested me the most.



Neither gets all perfect reviews. Detroit isn’t the world‘s greatest hobby destination.

But I have always been amazed at how weak Windsor is. The top Canadian providers never tour there, either.

What is up with that?
Agree. Windsor and Detroit are the worst destinations to hobby. BTW any renowned ladies in Detroit other than two mentioned above?
 
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Agree. Windsor and Detroit are the worst dedtinatins to hobby. BTW any renowned ladies in Detroit other than two mentioned above?
I wouldn’t call them world-renowned, and none of the current ones have been reviewed, but over the years, the ladies from this Windsor group have consistently gotten very good reviews, with BBBJ generally the norm, and at Canadian prices that are much better than U.S. prices.

 

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Yes but if it is an established massage parlor like Body Sensations in Fort Worth, why would it be a problem ? They've been open for years. I visited once and met the lineup. One was very pretty. Is it just a body wash they do topless ?
 
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Yes but if it is an established massage parlor like Body Sensations in Fort Worth, why would it be a problem ? They've been open for years. I visited once and met the lineup. One was very pretty. Is it just a body wash they do topless ?
There is no realistic risk in that situation. But when we talk about the U.S. scene a person always has to be on the defensive. There are a number of posters who assert a greater law enforcement risk in the U.S. than exists in reality. There are two areas of risk. Answering an ad where you cannot ascertain that the lady is a legitimate sex worker. That might be a fake ad taken out by the police. The other area of risk is going to a massage parlor where there are Asian ladies who live at the facility. Law enforcement targets those places because they can publicize human trafficking.
 
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