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fuji

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So, my wife has this really hot friend, and there seems to be some attraction there. I am worried that if I hit on her too much, if she decides "no", that she will tell my wife. What's the right way to go about this to find out if she is interested or not without giving away too much in case she is not.

Half a joke thread, I doubt I would follow through, but the thought is there in my head.
 

calloway

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I would wait until this lady made the first move. But it doesn't really matter because in the end your wife will find out and she'll cut your penis off with a dull pairing knife.
 

Neverenuff$

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**sigh** Calloways right ,,,, Ignore him too .. tell us what happens !!
 

Jade4u

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My guess is if she is giving you hints that she is interested than she is one that cannot be trusted and prob. plays games like this with others. As they say play with fire and you're gonna get burned. Especially do not play that game when it is a wifes friend.
 

fuji

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stacey4u2luv said:
My guess is if she is giving you hints that she is interested than she is one that cannot be trusted and prob. plays games like this with others. As they say play with fire and you're gonna get burned. Especially do not play that game when it is a wifes friend.
Ya, she is very flirty whenever she comes over. So, there's a certain kind of woman who likes to pick up her friends husband/bf, makes her feel good. She is probably this type. Now, the real question is whether she would kiss and tell, because, she is really hot.
 

Jade4u

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If you like Country music here is a good song that sort of resembles the situation, but my guess is she would not tell in the beginning but play you for all she can get and one argument and you are discussed all over amongst everyone including your wife.

http://www.freewebs.com/toms/FoolsNeverLearn.html
 

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fuji said:
So, my wife has this really hot friend, and there seems to be some attraction there. I am worried that if I hit on her too much, if she decides "no", that she will tell my wife. What's the right way to go about this to find out if she is interested or not without giving away too much in case she is not.

Half a joke thread, I doubt I would follow through, but the thought is there in my head.

Go through with it and you will be known as "Dickless Fuji".
 

baci2004

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Keep in mind that when and if she comes on to you, your wife may be behind it.

You've got a safer bet going for the three-some.
 

frankcastle

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Damn Baci, your sig pic is incredible!

Fuji,

How could you be silly enough to try and mess around with your wife's friend. They are friends, they will talk..... you already made the mistake of getting married don't make it worse. :)
 

Latte

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After I split with my wife of 15 years, I've slept with 4 of her friends. They just came out of the woodwork. Or moths to a flame.
While we were married I slept with 2. Believe it or not that's not why we split. Go for it. Just be descrete and let her make the moves. In her mind your safe because you're already attatched and she doesn't have to worry about you getting weird on her. It's also a competative thing among women. Especially if they've been friends for a long time.
Be available but don't be foolish.
 

Latte

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Baci, I want my boots back, you can keep those fishnet gloves.
 

baci2004

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frankcastle said:
Damn Baci, your sig pic is incredible!.

I know! :D And if she thinks she's getting the boots back she's crazy
..... you already made the mistake of getting married don't make it worse.
Post of the year!!!
 

Latte

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Why I'm here

Baci turned me on to this forum. Said it was right up my alley. Never even imagined such a place exisited. Been a hobbyist for almost twenty years. I guess I just love sex with lots of different women. You won't know unless you try or as a great man once said its a numbers game. Ask twenty and chances are two will say yes. And if not there's always the cash route.
As for hanging out here, I've read some pretty funny things here and it's most useful to hear about girls I haven't seen yet.

Also about Baci, he's taller than you'd think from his picture.
 

hotnbothered

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fuji said:
So, my wife has this really hot friend, and there seems to be some attraction there. I am worried that if I hit on her too much, if she decides "no", that she will tell my wife. What's the right way to go about this to find out if she is interested or not without giving away too much in case she is not.

Half a joke thread, I doubt I would follow through, but the thought is there in my head.

that is really wrong. if your wife and her friend ever have a falling out, it may be brought up to your wife in spite. never do something with one of her friends or anyone she knows for that matter. it would be giving your wifes friend power to laugh behind her back and have something over her.

you sound like a real fucking prick buddy. just stick to seeing escorts. i'm sure you'd never be able to get it for free anyway.
 
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