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DonQuixote said:
How many men have faced that scenario before and know
how to respond.
...know how to respond. I know what I'd do.
I'd tell her that her advances were not welcome, in the most polite way I could muster.
It isn't rocket science...first, didn't your dad / mom / big brother tell you you dance with the girl you brought to the party? Second...the reason they told you that was because if YOU were the "GF" in this situation, how would you feel?
Not only is it the gentlemanly thing to do...it is the decent thing. If a guy doesn't know that, he deserves no "break"...he is just an ass.
This isn't moral superiority...I'm not claiming we don't all (well, most of us...self included) cheat if / when the opportunity presents.
But I know
*I* have enough self control and respect for the person I am in a relationship with to not openly embarrass and humiliate them.
There are 3 billion women in the world dude...you don't HAVE to fuck any one in particular just because the opportunity presents itself. There are 3 billion others.
"Women play with us all the time."
Really, they aren't your enemy...they want to get fucked just as badly as you. And they aren't all in cahoots. You are both seeing conspiracies that don't exist AND playing victim.
Dignity...dignity my friend. If you keep it, it makes it pretty hard to get "played"