High-end escort, what makes them one?

[DELETDrileydaniels]

I have been wondering what makes a high-end escort probably because of what I am seeing the media I am starting to wonder what makes a high-end escort.

Is it their rates, incall décor or location, how they dress? or what about them having proffesional photos or well done websites. I struggle with keeping up with the illusion of being “high-end” if those things are what makes an escort high-end if I were to add up that cost of what it takes to be high end on a regular basis it would definitely put me in the poor house.

 

[canada-man]

it's just a label nothing more

 

[asterwald]

It's usually their looks, if they have a look that appeals to a wide variety of clientele then they will be in demand more.

 

[Stoo]

it's just a label nothing more

I'm not sure I agree with you CM. I have only partaken of self-proclaimed "high end" ladies twice. Their rates were certainly higher although not a lot higher. (I am not talking about the $2500/hour lady... Unless she comes with free TV, that ain't happening...) I think it was perhaps in the way they carried themselves, the way they dressed and the way they could hold an intelligent conversation. And they were seriously hot. Both were outcalls, so the surroundings weren't a factor. Both held post-graduate degrees they said, (and I believed them), and they seemed tuned-in to world events etc. They were both independent, and held regular full-time jobs. I think they did the job because they genuinely enjoyed it, not because they needed to. There was a certain air of exclusivity because they only saw a very small number of clients.

Were they worth the difference in rate? Well, I felt that the money was well spent. But, I have also had the pleasure of seeing some very, very nice ladies who met all of the same criterion above, but charged regular rates, and the sessions were almost as enjoyable.

In my mind (which is admittedly, an odd spot at times) an agency girl can't be "high end" because there is to me, the perception that they see a number of guys a day, and so the exclusivity is gone. I suppose part of it might be because when I called a "high-end" girl, it was because I had planned on a "high-end" night... dinner, drinks, sack time.

Riley, we have never met, but chatted on here, and my impression is that you are "one" of them in every way, other than "rate"... Just the way you communicate makes me want to meet you... One of these days!

Then there are the ladies I have met, who were just clueless about most things, and were clearly working in the business because they had no other choice. They might have been 19, with two kids, no partner and somewhat desperate I suppose. While I'd have nothing in common with these girls, it can still be a decent session, but definitely "lower-end"...

Does that help?

 

[Damondean]

!.Looks
2. Well spoken. Can carry on a conversation on many subjects.
3. Dress: elegant
4. Makeup: sexy buit not trashy
5. Sexual skills
6. If incall, a nicely furnished place.
7. Manners. Knows the rules in a restaurant or in private.
8 That special "je ne sais quoi."

 

[djk]

!.Looks
2. Well spoken. Can carry on a conversation on many subjects.
3. Dress: elegant
4. Makeup: sexy buit not trashy
5. Sexual skills
6. If incall, a nicely furnished place.
7. Manners. Knows the rules in a restaurant or in private.
8 That special "je ne sais quoi."

This. Exactly on the money.

 

[Stoo]

That special "je ne sais quoi."

Exactly...

 

[Hyena]

That.

 

[dj1470]

The fact that THEY think so.
Remember, even the prettiest pig in the pen is still a pig.

 

[Stoo]

Remember, even the prettiest pig in the pen is still a pig.

I'm trying to interpret this as something other than the ignorant comment it comes across as. Am I missing something...?

 

[SinnamonFairbanks]

I agree with Stoo. I was told by someone who was trying to start me out in the industry as a high end escort, that an education is important but intelligence and the ability to carry on a conversation about various topics is important. Like if you were meeting with a business man it would make sense to know what his interests are so you could talk about stocks or the economy or business in general and know what your talking about.

And I also agree with Stoo, that these girls don't do it all the time and they likely have other kinds of employment.

I was always more interested in massage. I couldn't dance, I hated escorting... and massage is a hobby. I'll stick to my Niche. I don't make anywhere near what a normal escort makes or high end one. But Riley, don't ever let them get you down. You'll never be considered low end, maybe "working class" lol. You have to work a lot harder than those ladies but your probably better for it. You've made connections and established a sort of business. It's the indies who know what it takes to do what they do. When Prostitution is legalized you'll have the upper hand.

I really don't think looks have anything to do with it. I have seen some gorgeous escorts. Some not so nice. But I remember readind an article about some high end escort with ties to some politician and it showed pics of said escort. She was really nothing to look at. A bone rack with a funny nose. lol. It's hard to believe she was making that much money, but she is probably very smart. I don't think it's looks so much, or overall sex appeal... but the fact that they are paying to have time with someone they would pursue in regular life as a gf. If it was about the sex.. they would just get any escort... or several fro that price. geezus

 

[Stoo]

... but the fact that they are paying to have time with someone they would pursue in regular life as a gf. If it was about the sex.. they would just get any escort... or several for that price. geezus

Well put... Not withstanding, the two ladies in question were close to half my age, (and they were what would be called "mature" around here... 29/30) I really enjoyed just spending time with them. Getting laid was just a bonus. Perhaps this feeling was exaggerated because I was away from home and looking for "companionship" as much as anything.

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

Riley, we have never met, but chatted on here, and my impression is that you are "one" of them in every way, other than "rate"... Just the way you communicate makes me want to meet you... One of these days!

This doesn't help much since I am still not sure I fit with the image of high-end, yup I am probably more working-class but also not sure I want to keep being in that class either. "rate" is definitely one of them i think it should be higher but there are alot of self doubt around why it's not possible plus other challenges as well. I think by time prostitution laws change and its more legal then it is now I will be long retired and into a new career path and with that new career path there will be no time to see clients or even long time regulars.

I have definitely come into this industry with different life experience then those who were college educated first then coming to this industry I have travelled a different path that way but I guess I will always be working-class escort and never a high-end one. it's also nice to know I will never be considered low-end too since I have worked extremely hard to seperate myself from others.

 

[Dougal Short]

If the reason you asked about this was because you are pondering a rate increase (as opposed to general interest) you might consider chatting with the Lovely Laura in Hamilton. She has been a favorite "higher end" girl of mine for a while... very pretty, stylish, clever. Even though she has a slightly restrictive menu (a YMMV thing) she is great fun to spend time with. I had her to a three-hour incall a while back...

In Hamilton, the going rate is about $180. Laura was at $200, and worth every penny. Just a few weeks ago, she increased her rate to $300. There is a thread in the Hamilton section about it, with much conjecture and speculation. A much as I love the woman, I will have trouble justifying $300 to see her, and chatting with some her other regulars by PM, they feel the same way.

I can only speculate as to her reasons why she feels a 50% increase is sustainable, but if it works, good for her. It makes me sad though...

http://www.thelovelylaura.com/#!

 

[bucky88]

If you have two equally attractive and skilled SPs, what can make one high-end (i.e. $400 plus per hour) or the other standard (ie. $250-300 per hour)? Its a simple matter of marketing. Why are people willing to pay more for Godiva chocolates versus Laura Secord's? It's not just that the chocolate may be better. Let's look at the 4Ps of marketing:

1. Product

- physical attractiveness​

- personality​

- know how to carry herself in and out of bed​

- elegantly dressed​

- intelligence​

2. Price

- high price to convey perception of high quality and exclusivity​

- based on the half truth of "you get what you pay for"​

- for example, if BMW cut their prices in half and every second person had one, would you still want one??​

3. Promotion

- classy, sophisticated website and web ads​

- focus on the high end overall experience instead of an itemized menu​

- never offer low rate promotions, but instead offer more creative experiences​

4. Place

- luxury condo or 5-star hotel​

All of this may sound easy and straightforward, but I think it would be very difficult to execute properly.

B88

 

[DELETDrileydaniels]

If you have two equally attractive and skilled SPs, what can make one high-end (i.e. $400 plus per hour) or the other standard (ie. $250-300 per hour)? Its a simple matter of marketing. Why are people willing to pay more for Godiva chocolates versus Laura Secord's? It's not just that the chocolate may be better. Let's look at the 4Ps of marketing:

1. Product

- physical attractiveness​

- personality​

- know how to carry herself in and out of bed​

- elegantly dressed​

- intelligence​

2. Price

- high price to convey perception of high quality and exclusivity​

- based on the half truth of "you get what you pay for"​

- for example, if BMW cut their prices in half and every second person had one, would you still want one??​

3. Promotion

- classy, sophisticated website and web ads​

- focus on the high end overall experience instead of an itemized menu​

- never offer low rate promotions, but instead offer more creative experiences​

4. Place

- luxury condo or 5-star hotel​

All of this may sound easy and straightforward, but I think it would be very difficult to execute properly.

B88

Yup I can handle 3 out 4 most of the time. sometimes the wardrobe department kills the budget along with advertising. but if your not able to hit those targets are you still considered high-end?

 

[bucky88]

Yup I can handle 3 out 4 most of the time. sometimes the wardrobe department kills the budget along with advertising. but if your not able to hit those targets are you still considered high-end?

You need the whole package to justify the high price. A relatively significant investment of time and money is needed.

 

[ez$$]

The most important thing:- a steady stable of clients willing to pay those prices.

I'm sure most ladies don't start out "high-class"...they simply determine at some point that they got enough "high-rollers" to determine becoming more exclusive....

Personally, i don't see any difference...already know what type of woman she is.....the rest is just bickering about price...

 

[MrJake]

!.Looks
2. Well spoken. Can carry on a conversation on many subjects.
3. Dress: elegant
4. Makeup: sexy buit not trashy
5. Sexual skills
6. If incall, a nicely furnished place.
7. Manners. Knows the rules in a restaurant or in private.
8 That special "je ne sais quoi."

The issue I see with this list is High-end/Elite escort title is a self described title. To me it doesn't mean that much, you call yourself a high-end/elite escort because you believe you are one, not because you've reached any kind of standard.

I believe to each his/her own and I judge no one, but honestly, I'm not a fan of that kind of advertising, it makes me feel like the lady thinks I should feel lucky to see her, she's "Elite", now many would say of course that's the idea, it's not my kind of thing.

 

[Hyena]

Dj1470 you must be cribbing go's notes. Watch that or you will be put on ignore by everybody here.