Here I go again!!!!!!

[drrogers]

Friend with Benefits.

I've never had one - have you. Not sure I would want to try it - seems too complicated and would be too much like an affair - I my mind it would be tantamount to cheating -

If I pay a girl $1000 or $1500 a month for sex and she gets the money - is this and example of a friend with benefits or am I just having sex with a whore?

Okay, it's all yours now........

 

[hairyfucker]

personally i prefer the booty call over fwb. and pay for play is not fwb whereas fwb is mutual.

btw all three are cheating if you have a so that is not aware.

 

[Never Compromised]

I've had FWB and they can be a difficult tightwire to walk. Because it is a friend, there is going to be a certain amount of emotions involved, the problem is balancing the expectations on both sides.

They can be fun, and they are certainly less expensive than a regular GF.

 

[LateComer]

If I pay a girl $1000 or $1500 a month for sex and she gets the money - is this and example of a friend with benefits or am I just having sex with a whore?

quack quack

 

[wooly110]

I don't know if you'd call them FWB's, but, I've met a few women from chat lines and have had some long term friendship with benefits from them. Some single, some married. Never a problem with any of them. Scheduling interludes can be more difficult when they're married - trying to meet each other without either of you breaking your regular routine. Single girls could pose an issue if you're married, just because they have less to lose than you do. But, like I said, I've never had a problem with them.

I think one of the major differences (besides paying for it) with seeing as sp, is that, there might not be as much "conversation time" in between meetings, with the person, as you might have with a FWB. Unless ofcourse you really strike something special with an sp.

If you are having a relationship with someone, and you couldn't let your SO know, then, ya, it's cheating.

 

[red]

quack quack

this is covered by afflack?

 

[thirdtime]

If I pay a girl $1000 or $1500 a month for sex and she gets the money - is this and example of a friend with benefits or am I just having sex with a whore?

If you're paying them $1000 or $1500 a month for sex, where's the 'benefit'?
This isn't a friend with benefits, this is a business transaction.

 

[drrogers]

Depends how you look at it.

If you're paying them $1000 or $1500 a month for sex, where's the 'benefit'?
This isn't a friend with benefits, this is a business transaction.

I see what you are saying but it depends how you are looking at it - say you are paying her rent and leasing her a car.

She sees you whenever you want and are available, you see her when she wants and is available.

It's not just sex but also you have outings together and share a lot of what would be involved in a regular relationship but without any obligations.

Now, you could say she is a mistress or a kept woman - true but I like to think of it more of the needs of two people being met. It can end any time on either persons desire and there is none of the baggage that would go with a relationship.

I guess it just depends what colour glasses you are wearing when you look at it.

 

[tboy]

Dr R: you're kidding yourself. If you're paying her rent and leasing her a car, you're keeping a "mistress". EOS. Whether you use other terms to justify it or not, you're paying her for the relationship.

One big way to determine what it really is: Stop paying her rent and making the lease payments. If she stops seeing you, you have your answer.

BTW: those coloured glasses you're talking about? Your's are rose coloured....

 

[fuji]

I had a good friend that turned into FWB for about two years. Eventually I guess her jealous BF found out about it and the whole friendship came to an abrupt halt. I don't regret it, though, it was great while it lasted.

 

[goalie000]

Friend with Benefits.


If I pay a girl $1000 or $1500 a month for sex and she gets the money - is this and example of a friend with benefits or am I just having sex with a whore?

Okay, it's all yours now........

I think this is what the Ladies call "A Sugar Daddy"

 

[tboy]

So if you pay rent and lease a car for your wife, you're paying her for the relationship?

LOL in a way, yes! But that's a totally different scenario dude....

 

[thirdtime]

So if you pay rent and lease a car for your wife, you're paying her for the relationship?

You're paying for that relationship as soon as you say "I do."!!

Take away the car, tell her you want half the rent and living expenses, and see how long she wants to remain your wife.

 

[hairyfucker]

... - say you are paying her rent and leasing her a car... regular relationship but without any obligations...

are YOU obligated to pay the rent and the lease? in your explaination it appears that she is not obligated but how do you not be obligated in this situation?