Hey gents, I have a quandry. Today my SO found a piece of note with one of the incall address and buzz code that I wrote out in a hurry a while back. I am usually careful with this and distroy them immediately, but I guess I forgot once. She asked what this was and I pretended to not know what it was. She says playfully that she is going to go there and see. What is my next move? Thanks.
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is it in your writing? if so you are f@cked if he /she follows up on it....don't sweat it... or you are caught... move on... don't go out to play for a while..if your excuse is your golfing then go golfing...if it out with the boys playing pool then go play pool... if she catches you then be a man and deal with it...you made the choice to visit.. you knew the reason and risk you took.....good luck man ... hope it works out well.. and if you choose to continue then you know better than some, the risk and worries she /he will find out about your cheating....good luck... you just might need it.......
If she goes there the door just won't be answered. When the girls at the incall see a women on the security cam channel hitting their buzzer they will just ignore it. If she's tenacious and waits for someone to let her in and goes to the suite and knocks, they just won't answer. They dont want the hassle, and they don't want to deal with some irate SO. Just tell her its the address of your favorite crack dealer. What did you tell her it was?
Break down and confess that you saw an ad on craigslist or the buy and sell, and you went to that place to buy her this really special gift. Then pull out the special gift. It was going to be a surprise for you honey!
Why not tell her the truth? I took this route many moons ago. Decided that this hobby was part of me and that the lady was entitled to know. She could then take me or leave me, her choice. It has been quite a rush not having to lie or deceive. The only way to go. Anyway , women are ALWAYS ibsisting on honesty, so give it to them! My 2 cents.
if its a condo - you should have told her that you were looking to buy this place and had written down the address and the number of the seller.jin said:
now - you better give this place a heads up and tell them that a lady may be dropping by shortly and to not answer the door. Give them a description of how your SO looks like.
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great bear said:
Thats what Sheik tried and he's been wearing that lovely plaid skirt ever since.
You cannot change anything now such as your attitude in being defensive, or for sure do not tamper with the numbers/letters because that could bust you. You said that she was a little playful in her answer , and if you leave well alone-she probaly will not go there and check it out.
I would buy something for her special and keep it somewhere like your car, or your home hidden somewhere, and then if she goes there and comes back and questions you then you can pull out the wrapped gift that you purchased and say that you were saving it birthday/anniversary or whatever date.
Then you can say that you bought it on Craiglist or ebay or somewhere and you had to pick it up-but the address written down must have been the incorrect directions or suite number.
I would say to say this really casually and do not be defensive at all.
I would also warn the girl at that place but they probaly have their own procedeurs for this sort of stuff.
And no, this never happenned to me !!
Good luck
I would buy something for her special and keep it somewhere like your car, or your home hidden somewhere, and then if she goes there and comes back and questions you then you can pull out the wrapped gift that you purchased and say that you were saving it birthday/anniversary or whatever date.
Then you can say that you bought it on Craiglist or ebay or somewhere and you had to pick it up-but the address written down must have been the incorrect directions or suite number.
I would say to say this really casually and do not be defensive at all.
I would also warn the girl at that place but they probaly have their own procedeurs for this sort of stuff.
And no, this never happenned to me !!
Good luck
