Help me out

[BrianK]

I'm going to ask for suggestions from all you TERB members. You guys here on the forumn come up with the quickest responses. You guys are like the ultimate hotline for help and I thank you!

Here goes... I'm an intern/student at a hospital. There are pretty strict guide lines there. Small enough that news travels quick, especially our area. There is a female intern of a different specialty. She came into our hospital I'd say 3 weeks ago. Her last day is this Friday. I will not be there Friday to say goodbye. Thing is... I don't want to say or am ready to say goodbye to her. As much as I don't want to say goodbye, I KNOW I am also NOT ready mentally to be in any relationship due to a break up I recently had. I have no idea if she even remotely has any interest in me anyways. But I do like her. I guess because I'm writing this "help me out", saying I don't want to say goodbye means I like her more than just being friends. I mean I don't mind being just friends with her, but... Yes I would love to fuck her. There you go. And I don't know if it is just an infatuation or more. Does she have a boyfriend? The answer is yes, but the guy lives and resides in London, England. When I started at this hospital, I've already been told that one can and will be let go without notice if advancements are made. The last thing I need or want is for news of me making any type of move to travel back to my boss, because as much as I get along with him, he will let me go. My boss also recommended me into this hospital, so I don't out of respect want to disappoint him. Do I say, fuck it and talk to her about it, or let it go and possibly never see her again?

 

[red]

tell her you can't be there her last day- but want tomake arrangements for lunch after she leaves. make your move at the lunch

 

[tboy]

tell her you can't be there her last day- but want tomake arrangements for lunch after she leaves. make your move at the lunch

Good one red.....smooth very smooth...

Also, make sure YOu get HER number...

 

[Meister]

All I can say is go for it. 15-20 years from now you will kick yourselves for not following through on opportunities. This is your chance to be with pretty women, make the most of it.

 

[MarkII]

Follow your instincts. Tell her you find her attractive and would love to have lunch or take her to dinner the week after she leaves. That way you're exempt from the Human Remains..oops Resources dept.

The previous poster is right. Never leave yourself wondering about the one that got away. If she says no..then you've really not lost as there was no relationship to begin with.

Besides she may just love the fact that someone is interested.

The other thing to consider is that many women will say "I've got a boyfriend who lives in.." because they don't want to be hit on all the time. She may well be single but normally doesn't mix work and pleasure.

Good luck!

M2

 

[Thousand]

Say good bye to her on Thursday isntead. Tell her "you are cool, we need to keep in touch", then ask for her e-mail. That's how I would do it to any body-guy/gal. It's very neutral and it's social.

Thousand

 

[Thousand]

Anothering, don't rush into it. If you rush into it, you would look desperate and mess up everything. Play the card right..slow at first...then speed up...then faster..and faster...and faster until the ultimate climax where she'll beg for your cock!

Beside, why make your move when you don't even really know her? Get to know her first. See if you still like her after spending some time together with her. During that time, let her prove to you that she is worthy of being your gf.

Thousand
Don't be a chump.

 

[PHNINE]

On Thursday before she leaves, pull her aside and tell this to her:

You know I got sick this morning,
A sea was storming up inside of me
I think I'm capsizing and the waves are rising
And when I get that feeling
I want sexual healing...

And makes me feel so fine, it's such a rush
And helps to release the mind, Lord- it's good for us
Sexual healing, is good for me
Sexual healing is something that's so so good for me

And it's so good for us and it's so good to me my baby, woohhh
Just grab a hold and take control
Of my body and mind soon we'll be making love
Honey, oh your so fine
You're my medicine...
Open up and let me in
Darling, I can't wait for you to operate...

I need some Sexual healing...

After this she'll be all over you...

Good Luck...

 

[BrianK]

On Thursday before she leaves, pull her aside and tell this to her:

You know I got sick this morning,
A sea was storming up inside of me
I think I'm capsizing and the waves are rising
And when I get that feeling
I want sexual healing...

And makes me feel so fine, it's such a rush
And helps to release the mind, Lord- it's good for us
Sexual healing, is good for me
Sexual healing is something that's so so good for me

And it's so good for us and it's so good to me my baby, woohhh
Just grab a hold and take control
Of my body and mind soon we'll be making love
Honey, oh your so fine
You're my medicine...
Open up and let me in
Darling, I can't wait for you to operate...

I need some Sexual healing...

After this she'll be all over you...

Good Luck...

Thanks, That'll work (I wish)!!!

 

[goodtime]

Just Friends

All I can say is go for it. 15-20 years from now you will kick yourselves for not following through on opportunities. This is your chance to be with pretty women, make the most of it.

The premise of the movie Just Friends. Be just friends or the Big Brother... Been in your shoe. Good luck.

BTW, once she leave the hospital, the no advancement rule no longer applies. They may have implemented this rule as the hospital was a serious pick-up scene with interns & pre-meds.