Recently I was turned away at the door by a girl at a reputable agency for the 1st time after 15 years. Ouch.......She said that she knows me in her personal life but I feel like that's just an excuse. Is that the reason the girl give when she think that you are unattractive?
Have you ever been turned away at the door?
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yes; once and im actually a pretty good looking guy ( young too). Anyway i got the same excuse as you. It was with an indian girl but i think she just did not feel comfortable when she saw me.
If first time in 15 yrs I believe her presuming there was a peep hole for her to see you
Yep she looked in the peep hole and decided not to open the door and I texted the agency after waiting in front of the door for a while and that's the reason I got. I was also freaked out at 1st about her knowing about my personal life but I went over the pics a million times to pick up if I know this girl, I don't think I know her
If this was the first time in 15 years why don't you believe her simple explanation?
In the massage spa industry many girls have told me they work in a specific location that is far from where they live, to minimize the chances of a client inadvertently booking them or just "walking in" who is related to them or otherwise knows them in their personal life.
In the massage spa industry many girls have told me they work in a specific location that is far from where they live, to minimize the chances of a client inadvertently booking them or just "walking in" who is related to them or otherwise knows them in their personal life.
I was turned down at door by SP few years ago, she was wearing robe and told me she was not feeling well and was heading home. I booked days ahead, confirmed in the morning, was given room number, but was stopped short at door. I tried to book following week, originally was booked, then booking agent tells me “Sorry SP is not able to see you” I ask why and was told “SP does not want to see you” I was blacklisted. Booking agent was really cool explaining maybe SP knows me from civi life, or mix up with someone else, or got a bad vibe. No worries, went with another SP from agency and had an amazing time and even gave SP great review.
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For whatever reason (she is not attracted to you; she knows you personally or is a friend of someone that knows you, etc...) it is better for her to not open the door. While being left in front of an unanswered door is not pleasant, it is less awkward to face someone you know or being told to leave once she sees you, IMHO.
she did not want to see you, what ever the reason. She did you a favour, she would hardly have been into it thinking OMG I wish I was not doing this with him
not personally, but its the lady's right to refuse... she may well know you...
I was seeing a lady and looking around for a hotel and the best deal with at this one particular hotel. The lady said no to the hotel (so I found another one). I didn't realize this until later that that hotel was near her home. She didn't want anyone seeing her "working" at that hotel. I didn't clue in until recently when I had a similar experience with another lady. We had met a hotel, and were ready to leave and she didn't want to leave at the same time because she lived no too far from that hotel and was worried someone would see us together. In other hotels we have left together, and walked to the subway together.
I was seeing a lady and looking around for a hotel and the best deal with at this one particular hotel. The lady said no to the hotel (so I found another one). I didn't realize this until later that that hotel was near her home. She didn't want anyone seeing her "working" at that hotel. I didn't clue in until recently when I had a similar experience with another lady. We had met a hotel, and were ready to leave and she didn't want to leave at the same time because she lived no too far from that hotel and was worried someone would see us together. In other hotels we have left together, and walked to the subway together.
It's better to turn someone away instead of having a session with zero chemistry, those are no fun at all.
The lady knows you in personal life.even worse, could be someone very close to you. There is a disturbing trend across the industry, where some of these girls are downright cheating on their partners/bfs/fiances for fun. I have had my session cancelled with this sp thrice in the last 2 weeks . I think she recognized me by my phone number.she was supposed to marry one of my friends in the next few months. Guess what the guy found out and parted ways. The sad part is most of these cheaters are doing it for fun, not for money or any form of necessity and are always in two minds. Some of these escorts are professionals with good lifestyles
I have the same policy. If I know someone, I won't see them. It makes things weird. If I ever have a boyfriend and he find out I have to cut off that friendship due to jealousy. Also, if she does this privately and no one know she might want to protect her privacy. She could have a part time job and you go into her work. There are so many different ways you could know this person. She is likely trying to keep her job a secret or has had some bad experiences. Some guys think your job is an excuse to bother you at work, at home or on social media. I've had several people contacting me thinking they would get some kind of discount because we went to high school together or went on a date once. Also, in the past a friend of mine was blackmailed by someone that recognized her. He threatened to go into her work and tell her boss and her coworkers about her escorting. I helped her figure out who he was based on the very small amount of information I had about him. She blackmailed him the same way he did to her and he apologized and explained that he was angry that she refused his sexual advances when she was employed at that company and he was a client. People are f*cking nuts. Believe me when I tell you that her keeping her personal information a secret is so important. The man I was talking about could have ruined my friend's career and for what?! Because she didn't want to have sex with him and she didn't want to lose her job.
