Have I done something wrong?

DavidO

Easily confused member
Aug 21, 2001
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In the past month or so, I've emailed a few EC advertisers, and I've never received any reply.

I'm always polite and discreet in my emails, usually to the effect of "I'd like to visit you for an incall on $DAY at around $TIME" or "Are you available mornings or early afternoons?" Never anything explicit, noe of that.

And yet, no response, nada.

Have I got oh somebody's bad list, is it because I use a Gmail addy, or is there something else going on that I don't know about?
 
In my best Seinfeld-esque voice

Did you say
1. "I'd like to visit you for an incall on $DAY at around $TIME" or
2. "I'd like to visit you for an incall on $DAY at around $TIME"
 
Try please allow me to introduce myself. I'm a man of wealth and taste. :p
Kidding... (slightly) Did you indeed read thier web pages and included all the answers to the questions they may have asked you to supply? If you only ask for a date on such and such a date chances are they may be booked already for that time and rarely does a man e mail asking to schedule for a time without knowing an sp's hours. JMHO it does sound like you have not done your homework when you contact these ladies. Sp's do not like having to point things out to men that are in thier web pages, chances are they figure you do not know so chances are you do not know what services are offered either and chances are they do not want to discuss that type of stuff over the phone as some men will call later and then want this info too. Hence, you have given the impression that this could be you. I cannot begin to tell you how many time men will call to ask these questions giving the impression that they also may want to just engage in erotic talk or just to ask this stuff to get off etc...
 
My advice would be to not be so direct and business like. You're not setting up a doctor's appointment. Take the time to introduce yourself, complement the SP on how good she looks in her pics, why you are attracted to her (eg. you like mature women, blonde women, smart women), etc. Then ask if she is available to get together around the date and time that you are interested in.

In other words, pretend like you are asking her out on a date. Some SPs have told me that they will ignore one-liner emails that simply ask for a date/time and maybe menu items.

B88
 
bucky88 said:
My advice would be to not be so direct and business like. You're not setting up a doctor's appointment. Take the time to introduce yourself, complement the SP on how good she looks in her pics, why you are attracted to her (eg. you like mature women, blonde women, smart women), etc. Then ask if she is available to get together around the date and time that you are interested in.

In other words, pretend like you are asking her out on a date. Some SPs have told me that they will ignore one-liner emails that simply ask for a date/time and maybe menu items.

B88
Sorry, but that's a load of crap. If they want to be paid more than a doctor in many cases and they certainly are NOT your girlfriend, then they should be more direct and business like. THIS IS A BUSINESS PEOPLE. Respect yes, but having to jump through hoops for an APPOINTMENT, not a DATE is CRAP.
 
Just pick up the phone and call them. Whats the problem...
 
WhaWhaWha said:
Did you say
1. "I'd like to visit you for an incall on $DAY at around $TIME" or
2. "I'd like to visit you for an incall on $DAY at around $TIME"

My nomination for best response.
 
ec = escort(my guess)


To DavidO keep trying, it will happen. They probably get more then one email per day.
 
I have seen complaints from several TERBIES here about one well known SP.

Compliant number 1: She never answers her phone and never calls back.
Compliant number 2: She never replies to emails.