Has this ever happened to you??

[Eagleeyes]

Assuming your nephew is over 18 leave them both alone.

Your his uncle, not his guardian. Why is it any business of yours who he dates? Why would it be wrong for him to date an escort? How do you know she hasn't told him? Why is it any business of yours if she's told him? They're both adults. Let them take this thing at their own speed and leave them both alone - but given the situation I really do mean LEAVE HER ALONE especially. I wonder if thinking about telling is has less to do with "saving" him from her and more to do with saving yourself from the potential discomfort of seeing her at family events. Well, tough on you - don't ruin his relationship over your guilt.

Escorts actually do have real lives. And feelings. They meet guys in "civilian life." They date. Sometimes they fall in love. Sometimes they get married.

After reading numerous post by Stedon, I conclude he is wise like Yoda.

 

[lagaffe]

That reminds me of an escort I was seeing regularly about 10 years ago. A stunning and very bright girl, doing her phD in a field related to International Studies. About 3 years later, I met her in a very senior meeting with officials of the government, where she was now working! She was more beautiful than ever! I felt a quite awkward when I realized she recognized me, but she greeted me like an old friend, kiss on the cheek, asking me how I'd been. Wow! Beautiful and smart! Powerful cocktail! Made me melt! Unfortunately, I never saw her again and she does not escort anymore.... shit!

 

[Born2Star]

Big deal.

Just leave it alone. The only downside for the OP is probably he won’t see her again. There’re many fine ladies out there.

Other than that what does it matter between her and the nephew? She’s a real person and can fall in love with someone. Keeping a secret from the nephew? C’mon I’ve seen much bigger uglier lies / cover up from people.

It’s just a job. People do it for diff reasons don’t pre-judge.

I’ve been friend of several SP/MPA and getting to know the people they hang with and seeing people from Facebook for example. I then realize they’re all real people, have family, have people they love and care. Just like us.