No disrespect but isn’t
Ashley Madison based on the premise that both the man and woman are in relationships and are seeking a mutually agreed no strings attached fling
doesn’t include compensation?
Now I get that’s not the reality but I’m sure a lot of guys “low ball” because they aren’t interested in that sort of set up at all. That’s what SA and this site are for.
FWIW I had a friend who had a few hookups with married women through AM. His feedback was that because there is obviously a male gender imbalance of those who are interested in NSA sex on the side, his standards had to be much lower than if he were just using other dating apps. In other words if he could normally hook up with a “7” in the real world, he could only hope to get a “5” or maybe a “6” on AM. Unless of course $$$ was involved be it directly or promises of exorbitant dates.
Which brings me back to the first point, this site or even SA do the same thing without the facade AM puts up. If money is involved it completely destroys the thrill that AM is supposed to provide.