As title reads, I got caught yet again and now going through a separation. I don’t hobby much at all, maybe 1-2 times a year, it’s definitely not the main reason, the marriage as been garbage for years. How did you cope? Was it amicable ? Still communicating with ex? Not looking for advice on how to reconnect, guess I’m asking for tips to get through it.
Thanks
Get a good lawyer. Do your research on that lawyer. Pay for a couple consults from different lawyers to see which one is the best fit for you and what you want going forward.
Do not leave the material home and if you do, continue to pay half the mortgage, home insurance and property tax
If kids are involved, don’t wait to be ordered to pay support. Start paying now, have your lawyer calculate what your rate should be.
Start requesting access to your kids.
Document EVERYTHING. Meaning by text or email only for all communication going forward.
Do not bad mouth your ex, her family, etc in front of your kids, or anyone she knows for that matter.
Just a few things off the top of my head before my morning coffee.