I will say that the amount of harassment and verbal abuse that BBWs have to put up with is alarming. Imagine having a phone line that people think gives them 24-hour access to you. Now imagine you're a woman and you're overweight into the people that love overweight women they're grateful you exist but there's an overwhelming number of abusive men that can't see an overweight woman without having to attack her and everything about her and the people that choose to love her body. You can tell from her photos she's a BBW and for people that love BBWs She's Everything. For some reason people who don't love BBWs choose to go see this woman and are disappointed by their experience even though they knew going in she wasn't their type.
People think that we should stop offering our services but we provide a service to certain people. The same way skinny women are fetishized so are big women for some reason there's a lot of Shame around loving big women but the men who love big women love us unapologetically and are so grateful that we exist that we're not advertising for people that are just trying to see if they like it. We don't exist as an alternative to a skinny woman we exist in our own space and we don't have to apologize or make ourselves small for anybody there are so many people that devalue us because of our size and our weight and it's really annoying getting another person who could clearly see from our photos that we were a BBW and act like we're supposed to somehow change their mind about BBWs. That happens quite a bit for me like I do manage to change people's minds about BBWs which is cool... but I'm not going to lie and say I don't have to fight back rolling my eyes and sucking my teeth every time somebody says something ignorant.
Brown guys though that's my bread and butter
The Stereotype is true LOL. I should just up and move to Brampton or Mississauga.
I just wish that people knew that BBWs don't provide a service as an alternative to some skinny blonde woman. Like someone out there wants to die sucking a fart out of this lady's ass. We exist for those people not somebody who's on the fence who couldn't make an appointment with someone else.
