Yes LL, we have been to Xtabi on Friday nights. I did not mean male-male in terms of two guys hooking up, I meant more of the MFM thing where the husband wants to be a little submissive to the extra guy. We are not into MFM, if a Terbite was, Xtabi might not be such a bad choice. I just assumed Terbites would mostly be into women and not want an extra guy around.