Well I met this guy about 4 months ago and I was honest with him about my profession . He said he thought that was really cool. So fast forward he invites me out for a few drinks and i thought i'll pay because I didn't know at the time if I was going to go home with him . So he says thank you thank you for such a lovely evening . I said it was my pleasure lets do it again sometime. So He asks me if I want to go to a steak house and I said sure I'll make reservations so we get there and the bill comes and he says he forgot his debit card . So I say no worries you can get next dinner. So a few days later he comes over and asks if he can use my computer and i said ok so he goes on a site with mens clothing and he says to me this outfit is only 459 dollars on sale . I said to him well buy it for yourself then and he says well my birthdays coming up in a week if you want to buy me something . I just laughed because hes just a friend with benefits . He is acting like he's a giggalo and quite frankly the fact that he's doing this I want nothing to do with him. I don't mind paying half of the bill for dinner even though the way my dad raised me is old school he and and all my guy friends say the man should foot the bill. It gets even better after not talking to him for 3 weeks he now calls me up asking if he can get a loan of 1000$ he says his car insurance won't be paid and he won't be able to drive if he doesn't pay it. hahaha i'm like seriously dude lose my number so i blocked him . But I know there are women out there that fall for this shit and end up paying for men just like how men think women use men for money and if i win the lottery and i feel like being a sugar momma to some hot 29 year old it would be ok if i won millions in the lottery