Does anyone on here ever have guilty feelings about what they do in this hobby? If so,how do you deal with them? How many people see a counselor?
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counsellor helped tremendously…. For this, and a bunch of other shit life had to offer.
nope. cant say I felt guilty or hurt anyone on purpose due to my hobby actions. It all really depends on your own personnel life. I think for some the hobby is good therapy.
Yes, been doing this for a while but still feel guilty almost every after session. Greatly decreases my neediness though which is why I keep coming back, and feels good of course.
Will see a therapist and discuss if this might be some form of coping, addiction, etc.
Will see a therapist and discuss if this might be some form of coping, addiction, etc.
I feel guilty about all the money I've spent.
Thanks for the replies and advice. I am looking into counseling. Any advice on how to choose a counselor?
At first I did. I thought God would punish me.
HE did punish me by sending me back in with another woman, I had take one for the team.
SP is my counselor. I really don't go to church but when I am travelling I walk into a church to say my confessions to the priest. I just hope the priest is not a woman, and worked in this line of work.
Ask your SP I am sure she must be seeing one.
SA is an alternative. Sex Anonymous.
I did during the height of the Covid Lockdowns....As it's the one vice I couldn't control myself. Other than that I could be a monk, not see anyone, social distance with a body suit on.
But other than that nah....As long as my partner is doing things willingly. The rest is societal condition which is misleading.
But other than that nah....As long as my partner is doing things willingly. The rest is societal condition which is misleading.
Curious Gents why one needs to seek help, this hobby is so rewarding and I truly enjoy it. I hobby once a month - maybe twice every qtr when the bonus comes in 
but other than that - I enjoy the physical aspects of this lifestyle not to mention the SP's are incredibly beautiful and down to earth (at least the ones I have seen), so why do we need to seek counselling? Lets enjoy and leave stress free and appreciate what these beautiful SP's do for us. I don't need help...wait - do I? Denial is clouded waiting for my June session 
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but other than that - I enjoy the physical aspects of this lifestyle not to mention the SP's are incredibly beautiful and down to earth (at least the ones I have seen), so why do we need to seek counselling? Lets enjoy and leave stress free and appreciate what these beautiful SP's do for us. I don't need help...wait - do I? Denial is clouded waiting for my June session ,