Giving gifts to an sp. Why are we doing it?
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Completely wrong.
You can call her what you like: Fuck Buddy, FWB, Regular, Favorite.
The truth is this: she's a person, a human being that I share time and thoughts with. We have dinner, see movies, hang out together, she cooks for me, I take her to events and I truly enjoy the pleasure of her company.
Most of the time we have sex but not always. There isn't always a 'donation' involved either.
I wish nothing but the best for her and her life whether I'm a part of it or not.
A little gift at Christmas time from me to her is the least of it.
Very well said Don. I couldn't have said it better myself. My current #1 ATF in TO is also special in the same way although a donation is always required. It was a little different with with my ex-in KW but alas she retired.
I would also like to ad that we all try to give 'according to our means" and how close we feel the connection that we have with our favourite Sp.
Also married men with joint accounts are a little more restricted than say single, separated and divorced men for obvious reasons. Lol! :Eek:
I already enjoyed the joy of 'giving' to my lovely, classy and sensual Asian ATF with 'little gifts' when I saw her last week. Little gifts that I know she appreciates and with 'something a little bit more' to make her feel like the 'special' person that she has become in my life.
Like you, I feel that "she's a person, a human being that I share time and thoughts with and I truly enjoy the pleasure of her company." She's not only my lover but my friend who I love alot and respect as a person.
I wish her all the best for the New Year. Good health, good fortune and much happiness.
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Back 2 years ago when I was working my one and only client took me to the Eaton's Centre and told me to pick whatever I wanted for my birthday.
I felt like he was a prince charming and was laying the kingdom at my feet.
Sadly I found out that he had done this multiple times with whatever SP or woman he was involved with at the time. It sort of ruined the it for me and I gave my present back to him.
I guess what I am saying is a small thoughtful token is touching. Part of the routine feels cheap and meaningless.
I felt like he was a prince charming and was laying the kingdom at my feet.
Sadly I found out that he had done this multiple times with whatever SP or woman he was involved with at the time. It sort of ruined the it for me and I gave my present back to him.
I guess what I am saying is a small thoughtful token is touching. Part of the routine feels cheap and meaningless.
Ewwww, afterhours is doing bare back greek, and in a dirty bum!
Very inexpensive, but practical gifts have always been greatly appreciated by Escorts I've seen. As an example, I saw Julie St. Clair at her Mississauga incall in November. Since I don't know my way around town, I was going to take a taxi from the subway station, but I arrived early enough that I could take a bus. I gave her the $2 route map that I bought to help me find my way to the proper bus stop. She can use it to direct other guys who want to get there by public transit.
I often bring a set of the Chinese balls that have little sounding plates inside them. They're great for massage. I buy a set that's designed for hands smaller than my own, and leave them behind after the session. They cost about $6 with the tax, and they're more useful than a flower.
I often bring a set of the Chinese balls that have little sounding plates inside them. They're great for massage. I buy a set that's designed for hands smaller than my own, and leave them behind after the session. They cost about $6 with the tax, and they're more useful than a flower.
flowers most likely ... stockings ... very likely ....
if she is a repeat .. lingerie possibly .. once i know her size/taste
I have even purchased high heels for one special woman
chocolates .. never! any SP that I see spends a lot of time and energy keeping herself in great shape ... not likely she would appreciate chocolate
if she is a repeat .. lingerie possibly .. once i know her size/taste
I have even purchased high heels for one special woman
chocolates .. never! any SP that I see spends a lot of time and energy keeping herself in great shape ... not likely she would appreciate chocolate
I think flowers are lovely but agree that something a bit less conspicuous is better. Plants are great. Gift cards are nice, especially if you go with something personal. (ie: last session the provider mentioned she loves camping, you get her a gift card at Mountain Equipment Co-Op...) Itunes gift cards, an eaton centre gift card, Victoria Secrets gift card. A bottle of wine or chocolates.
I think some of the men here are a bit too cynical. A lot of providers really genuinely appreciate sweet gestures by clients. DEAL WITH IT!
I think some of the men here are a bit too cynical. A lot of providers really genuinely appreciate sweet gestures by clients. DEAL WITH IT!
If that's what you expect and want out of your relationship with an SP, that's exactly what you'll get.
Ask the guys who are looking for more, and they'll tell you otherwise.
As Alona says, gifts can be a part of, or lead to, a more amicable relationship. Exchange of personal numbers, coffee dates, more frequent chatting/texting/facebooking....
