Girlfriend's Orgasms too strong - advice
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I have doubts that any cunt has the clenching power to injure or cause discomfort to a dick. I use to know a girl from Dundee ( google it ) that I use to butt boff. When I came in her ass she would clench to give me more pleasure. I asked her once to clench as hard as possible, it was quite pleasant and not at all painful.
Sigh* Fiona, where are you?
Sigh* Fiona, where are you?
He reminds me of the idiot who took the wrong on-ramp to the highway and then was shocked at how many people were driving the wrong way.
First Sleazure, Afterhours and now you make me LMAO. Oh Christ, lol.
Seriously though, I've faced this with certain women (even mature women) who on intense orgasm, contract so tight that unless you are at your hardest, you're gonna find that thrusting won't be as deep or hindered, if not painful.
As someone else suggested, try to build or preserve your libido, and perhaps supplements to ensure the hardest state which might be what you need.
Also as someone alluded to, try not to pound the hell out of her pussy. Use sensual or tantric rhythms that minimizes stimulation, although even shallow but quick thrusting that particularly stimulates her lips or vaginal opening can drive her insane.
Seriously though, I've faced this with certain women (even mature women) who on intense orgasm, contract so tight that unless you are at your hardest, you're gonna find that thrusting won't be as deep or hindered, if not painful.
As someone else suggested, try to build or preserve your libido, and perhaps supplements to ensure the hardest state which might be what you need.
Also as someone alluded to, try not to pound the hell out of her pussy. Use sensual or tantric rhythms that minimizes stimulation, although even shallow but quick thrusting that particularly stimulates her lips or vaginal opening can drive her insane.
are you really still hobbying with a girlfriend like that????? sounds like men are never happy with what they have
Thanks for the responses. I knew I would get many WTF? type reactions from men who would love to be in my position, but trust me, my girlfriends orgasms are so strong, sex really doesn't feel very good. In terms of her technique or skill level, she is excellent in her application. She takes instruction well and is open to new things as long as she doesn't perceive them to be unhealthy or disrespectful toward her. I was hoping that among the many joke filled reactions, I would get a few suggestions that would help. One terb member pm-ed me and suggested she take muscle relaxants. I passed this suggestion on to her, but she just looked at me as if it didn't make sense to her. Now that I am thinking about it, as she likes to drink beer to relax, I might ask her to drink a can or two of beer next time to see if that helps.
What I have come to realize is that most problems in life aren't so easy to solve. I don't want to break up with her because I don't want to ever end a relationship over the issue of sex. She is gentle and decent and for that I am grateful. She doesn't care about how much money I make and really only wants me to be kind to her and make an effort to build a happy life with her.
I am not hobbying anymore - I am in Japan right now, not Canada. I could hobby in Japan, but without trying to sound like a bullshitter, I don't think I would enjoy sex with very many japanese women. Before my experience with my current Japanese girlfriend, I always fantasized about making love to a Japanese lady. But, after spending time here, I now fully appreciate the oft said slogan 'I'm huge in Japan'. Everthing here is small - the apartments, the food portions, the cars, the roadways, and most unfortunately, the women. I am only 5'10" tall and I just clear the doorway when I walk in to many places. And as one might expect, Japanese ladies really are smaller down there. No, I am not suggesting I am hung like King Kong, but really, every women is 5'0 tall and likely has an appropriate vaginal capacity to match.
As for my girlfriend and I, we haven't had sex for 8 days and just today, she mentioned to me that she is going to be having her period in 2 days. I know she said that to me because she wants to have sex before it arrives. I am trying to avoid doing such. I know I can't avoid having sex with her forever, but I HATE when women orgasm too strongly while I am inside. About the last 1/6th of my penis - toward the tip - looks much narrower than before as a result of our last sexual session. The last time we had sex, she had one on-going orgasm that seemed to last over one minute. Usually I pull out when she produces such an effect, but I feel guilty when I do this because I know it makes her self-conscious during sex. Anyways, this time I stayed in despite the discomfort and I think I paid for it with a now compacted penis.
I asked her if either her ex-husband or previous boyfriends ever commented on her strong orgasms, but she said they didn't. Also, I suggested she use a dildo larger than myself to stretch her vagina or at least to give me a break when I am sore and want to go more than a few days without sex. She refused though, because she considers dildos to be 'dirty'. I have also suggested we try anal sex, but she adamantly refuses to do this as well for fear of unhealthy complications which might result. As for oral sex, I don't climax during oral sex and can only finish vaginally. Well, let me correct that - I can climax if I am watching porn while she performs oral on me, but given her personality, she has hinted to me that she doesn't like the fact that I have to watch porn while we are showing affection to one another.
Anyways, I don't know what to do. She told me that sex with me is a 10/10 and so I am very happy to hear that, but if I continue to feel pain and therefore avoid sex with her in the future, I don't think our relationship can last.
Oh, I almost forgot, I did suggest having an open relationship with her whereby we see other people at the same time as we remain together, as long as we practice safe sex with the other person. She was not happy with this, and given the fact that most japanese women think Westerners are 'playboys' infected with too many STI's to begin with, I knew even when I suggested such a thing, her reaction would not be positive.
So, moral of the story here is that those of you who fantasize about Nozomi Sasaki or Aki Hoshino etc. are probably barking up the wrong tree. Well, if I only had the problem of a girlfriend with a tiny vagina, that wouldn't be much a problem at all - I could just go in 3/4 of the way and stop. Sure, I would lose the 'bucking' impact and the pleasure derived from it, but I could live with that. But, regarding all you guys' fantasies about multi-orgasmic women, the moral I want to impart to you is that it is not as great as you think. I would rather, at least sexually speaking, be with the women who doesn't orgasm as opposed to the one who does and too strongly at that.
What I have come to realize is that most problems in life aren't so easy to solve. I don't want to break up with her because I don't want to ever end a relationship over the issue of sex. She is gentle and decent and for that I am grateful. She doesn't care about how much money I make and really only wants me to be kind to her and make an effort to build a happy life with her.
I am not hobbying anymore - I am in Japan right now, not Canada. I could hobby in Japan, but without trying to sound like a bullshitter, I don't think I would enjoy sex with very many japanese women. Before my experience with my current Japanese girlfriend, I always fantasized about making love to a Japanese lady. But, after spending time here, I now fully appreciate the oft said slogan 'I'm huge in Japan'. Everthing here is small - the apartments, the food portions, the cars, the roadways, and most unfortunately, the women. I am only 5'10" tall and I just clear the doorway when I walk in to many places. And as one might expect, Japanese ladies really are smaller down there. No, I am not suggesting I am hung like King Kong, but really, every women is 5'0 tall and likely has an appropriate vaginal capacity to match.
As for my girlfriend and I, we haven't had sex for 8 days and just today, she mentioned to me that she is going to be having her period in 2 days. I know she said that to me because she wants to have sex before it arrives. I am trying to avoid doing such. I know I can't avoid having sex with her forever, but I HATE when women orgasm too strongly while I am inside. About the last 1/6th of my penis - toward the tip - looks much narrower than before as a result of our last sexual session. The last time we had sex, she had one on-going orgasm that seemed to last over one minute. Usually I pull out when she produces such an effect, but I feel guilty when I do this because I know it makes her self-conscious during sex. Anyways, this time I stayed in despite the discomfort and I think I paid for it with a now compacted penis.
I asked her if either her ex-husband or previous boyfriends ever commented on her strong orgasms, but she said they didn't. Also, I suggested she use a dildo larger than myself to stretch her vagina or at least to give me a break when I am sore and want to go more than a few days without sex. She refused though, because she considers dildos to be 'dirty'. I have also suggested we try anal sex, but she adamantly refuses to do this as well for fear of unhealthy complications which might result. As for oral sex, I don't climax during oral sex and can only finish vaginally. Well, let me correct that - I can climax if I am watching porn while she performs oral on me, but given her personality, she has hinted to me that she doesn't like the fact that I have to watch porn while we are showing affection to one another.
Anyways, I don't know what to do. She told me that sex with me is a 10/10 and so I am very happy to hear that, but if I continue to feel pain and therefore avoid sex with her in the future, I don't think our relationship can last.
Oh, I almost forgot, I did suggest having an open relationship with her whereby we see other people at the same time as we remain together, as long as we practice safe sex with the other person. She was not happy with this, and given the fact that most japanese women think Westerners are 'playboys' infected with too many STI's to begin with, I knew even when I suggested such a thing, her reaction would not be positive.
So, moral of the story here is that those of you who fantasize about Nozomi Sasaki or Aki Hoshino etc. are probably barking up the wrong tree. Well, if I only had the problem of a girlfriend with a tiny vagina, that wouldn't be much a problem at all - I could just go in 3/4 of the way and stop. Sure, I would lose the 'bucking' impact and the pleasure derived from it, but I could live with that. But, regarding all you guys' fantasies about multi-orgasmic women, the moral I want to impart to you is that it is not as great as you think. I would rather, at least sexually speaking, be with the women who doesn't orgasm as opposed to the one who does and too strongly at that.
