Girlfriend too horny!

[Dave - WebGuy]

Sorry guys, it's the truth. Finally found a keeper, and I cannot keep up. Think about it. Opposite problem. She wants to, you don't. Tell her I am not in the mood? Tell her I have a headache?
No way, after 20 years of hearing this with my wife.
Let her have her way with me. Pull it out of my pants, suck it, lick it, it's going to respond, and it does.
She will not give me a break. I would like to clear my head, think about naughty things, get ready, and get with stupid crazy sex with her. She does not give me a chance!

What ever you do don't start avoiding her or come up with excuses... Be Honest about it with her.

I've done the whole "do it to get it over with" idea, which makes me feel bad in the end cause I'm not putting any real efort into it.

Some suggestions...
a) Talk to her about it, hopefully some time when the issue of actually performing is imminent. You don't want to bring it up right when she's coming on to you.

b) Try engaging in some foreplay, take charge a little rather than go with the flow. That may lessen the urge on her part.

c) If you need the time to get into it.... call ahead, engage in some mental foreplay ahead of time to be at least horny when she gets started.

just my 2 cents worth though....

Dave

 

[Cobster]

Some escorts services are hiring, why not put her to good use and she'll get boned and make some extra cash for the family

 

[WhaWhaWha]

I had a gf like that. I didn't want to disappoint so I got her into toys. Lots and lots of assistance. Said I was saving the real thing for the end. Gave me time to regain my strength. Also failing that lots and lots of DATY. I never get tired of that.

 

[4leafclover]

Thanks, A guy can only fuck so much! Not the first date thing, first week thing, first month thing. I'm talken about the 4th month thing. Girl backoff!!! I'm getting to know you. At first you have to make an impression. I did, screwed her 8 times one day. I beat her last boyfriends record by 3. Make her come 5 times while screwing her, did that. Now what? It's like I have a responsibility to screw her when I see her. I can see it in her eyes. What have I created for myself? I have told her that sometimes i'm not horny. She does not seem to care. Goes at me like it was the first time! My buddy needs a break once in a while. Right now he is getting the shit kicked out of him whether he likes it or not.
What can I do???

 

[incognito]

Thanks, A guy can only fuck so much! Not the first date thing, first week thing, first month thing. I'm talken about the 4th month thing. Girl backoff!!! I'm getting to know you. At first you have to make an impression. I did, screwed her 8 times one day. I beat her last boyfriends record by 3. Make her come 5 times while screwing her, did that. Now what? It's like I have a responsibility to screw her when I see her. I can see it in her eyes. What have I created for myself? I have told her that sometimes i'm not horny. She does not seem to care. Goes at me like it was the first time! My buddy needs a break once in a while. Right now he is getting the shit kicked out of him whether he likes it or not.
What can I do???

Lots and lots of ice.

 

[GlavaMan]

Or... 4LC can cum on her toes & LCG can lick it off!

 

[GlavaMan]

I thought you would like it! Maybe you could suggest the colour of nail polish to be used.

 

[Bababooie]

We can help

Hey 4leaf, don't be afreaid to ask your friends here to help you out if you get too ragged, LOL.

 

[GlavaMan]

A color that will make 4LC's cum stand out of course! Guess that would be black!

PS - Glava, remember the time I sucked on Lexi's toes at Treasures? Do you engage in some toesucking yourself these days?

Yes, I remember. You licked the big toe all over & then deep throated it. Bright red polish on perfectly manicured toes. Yummm

Sandle season is on it's way. It's toe jam buffet time.

 

[lickrolaine]

the Midas story,lol

There was this guy a long time ago,midas,i think,lol.Be carefull what you wish for,lol.If you need help i suggest you get on board,pun intended,and ask for help,if not here try ontariocouples.com,they will assist you,and her in ways that will even surprise her,lol.Remember,she is not costing you a dime right now,other then 6 bucks or so a week for k-y,so again,be carefull what you wish for,lol.I spent 6 grand last year to get action,lol,and you complain cause it is to much and free,mmmmmmm
lickrolaine

 

[james t kirk]

I am so glad to read that I am not the only guy who has this problem.

Sometimes, you just need a break. When I was 19 or 20, I would have never dreamed that to be the case, but it can be.

It's the law of diminishing returns frankly, only on a sexual level. If all you do is screw all the time, it looses its thrill. I had a GF once who just always wanted it. Like every day. In the morning, in the evening. And fucking vigourously too. There were time when she would literally fuck the life out of me. Sometimes, I would be ruined for a day or two. Just the idea of screwing again was enough to make me run for cover. I remember one time going to see a movie and she started to grab my cock in the theater (after we had a quicky before we left to see the damn movie) Mr. Happy just was NOT responding, and I was thinking come one buddy, come on, don't let me down. But he was not having any part of it. He had gone in that morning, then again before the movie and was out of commission. This girl actually got slightly miffed that i wasn't getting a chub in the theatre by her undoing my fly and grabbing me. I was sitting there thinking, can't you just watch the fucking movie.

 

[365724]

jealous of you guys

I seconded with Lee Cum Gay. Just think you guys are showing off.

 

[Not So Much]

Hmmmm...

....A guy can only fuck so much! ....Girl backoff!!! I'm getting to know you.....screwed her 8 times one day..... I beat her last boyfriends record by 3. Make her come 5 times while screwing her, did that.... Now what? It's like I have a responsibility to screw her when I see her. I can see it in her eyes. What have I created for myself? I have told her that sometimes i'm not horny. She does not seem to care. Goes at me like it was the first time! My buddy needs a break once in a while. Right now he is getting the shit kicked out of him whether he likes it or not.
What can I do???

I wasn't aware that Bobbi had a BF !

OK does anyone else wish to kill 4leafclover?

Where does the line start ?

 

[james t kirk]

OK 4LC and James, where da fuck do you find these women?!?!?!

Found the one in question on Lava life.

I have had some pretty good experiences on lava life meeting very horny chicks. It's work, but it work to keep up with and not easy. It's not a guaranteed score at all, but if you score, odds are she will be very sexual.

I have a theory that the women on lavalife are actively seeking male partners - long term or otherwise, and Women who actively seek males are far hornier than their "sit back and wait" counterparts. These women are horomonially driven to partner up with males and actually get off their asses and move towards that goal.

 

[Dorm201]

I had this problem a few months ago as well. My girlfriend just went to town on me all the time and I was literally exhausted from all the sex all the time, to the point where I was worried that I wouldn't be able to get off and it'd hurt her feelings. It's been an issue with a few of my past girlfriends, and I think it has to do with the type of women that some guys attract. What worked for me was showing intimacy, and doing all the cuddling and stuff like that which shows genuine feelings. That slowed her down enough that I managed to get some sleep at night. It seems she's slowed down a bit, probably as she's getting out of her wilder early 20's now.

I don't know about you guys, but it seems like the cafe is the equivalent of what bars used to be. I get chatted up more often by women there than anywhere else, damn teenagers are getting more and more bold, for a few months I'd have one coming to ask me what book I was reading once or twice a week (I read in the Second Cup alot... it's really relaxing).