Assuming you're a single male, which would you prefer?? For the purposes of this poll, you can only pick one.
Girlfriend or Escort??
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S.C. Joe said:Who cares, as long as shes good looking and likes to put out, its good enough for me
Ok, fair enough. But, just out of curiousity, which do you think would cost more in the long run?? (think cost per fuck analysis)
Amazon_woman said:
No, not at all - I just wonder about it. Also the fact that with a GF, you're not shelling out big bucks every time you do it, yet it could end up being mundane (same old, same old). On the other hand, with an SP, you pay to play, so to speak yet you have the option of variety. I realize each has its pros and cons. I for one can never seemingly make up my mind as to which one I want.
GF of course, how many years do you think you can use escorting for? Do you think an escort will go with you when your 60? If you keep escorting you'll never find a wife....
don't tempt me i'm in the mood to do itdrlove said:
if i was a guy i would pick the gf with option to invite other girls in to spice it up once in a while
i did offer this to a guy i was interested in going out with and he said i'll have to think about it!!
i was thinking to my self wtf are you a tard when will you ever get that offer againAlso, another thing to consider is that you will probably get laid more frequently with a GF. With an SP, it all depends on your financial situation.
drlove said:
Thats a trick question. Really, at first the G.F. is cheaper, right, you can hang out together, go share meals, see a movie, go ice skating, etc. Fun stuff to kill time, you can't spend your whole life in bed doing it
even if you think you can.But then what happens, if you are like many guys you get "hook" on her. You "need" her and nobody else is good enough. So you get married, then have kids, then comes the big bills. Even if you break up, you are stuck with child support, lawyer fees.
With escorts you don't spend enough time with them to "fell" for them. Not like if shes with you all the time.
I do know one thing, if I would have gotten married, had kids, I be working 2 jobs now and still have no extra cash to spend going on holiday trips alone. Maybe I still be married and loving it-who knows, but either way it cost $$$$.
drlove said:
I think your cost per fuck question would be a seperate poll . The question of monogamy isn't so much a financial question as a measure of an individuals compromise quotient relative to their ability to embrace life without a Significant Other . If you have to have a partner then you are willing to compromise your lifestyle to the extent demanded by your mate . If you are self sufficient and are content to not have to compromise then you stay single .
Married sex is definitely more expensive than escort sex when you adjust for socio economic variation . The Bay street lawyer can afford the $500 roll in the hay weekly whereas the factory worker may only be able to afford the $100 lady bi weekly but in both cases they are still financially better off than supporting a wife . Another bonus with escorts is there is no "Honey Do List" (LOL)
This might get out of hand but theres many other things that could happen.
Many wifes WORK, that means 2 paychecks. Means more money to spend, you can buy stuff like big screen TV's instead of an over night visit with an escort.
As for having to do things. Well thats life, you still need to take the trash out, mow the grass, etc. Unless you decide to join the homeless guys, theres always things to do.
But with a wife you are stuck with her. She gains weight, gets older, she still your wife.
Escorts however come and go. You can do a 20 year old for say for 20 years, ha ha. But yeah each year you need a diff. escort.
If you are lucky enough to find somebody you really love and they love you, then maybe its worth it. If not escorting is the way to go.
But its not for everybody, just like marriage.
Many wifes WORK, that means 2 paychecks. Means more money to spend, you can buy stuff like big screen TV's instead of an over night visit with an escort.
As for having to do things. Well thats life, you still need to take the trash out, mow the grass, etc. Unless you decide to join the homeless guys, theres always things to do.
But with a wife you are stuck with her. She gains weight, gets older, she still your wife.
Escorts however come and go. You can do a 20 year old for say for 20 years, ha ha. But yeah each year you need a diff. escort.
If you are lucky enough to find somebody you really love and they love you, then maybe its worth it. If not escorting is the way to go.
But its not for everybody, just like marriage.
The Bandit said:
1. Until I die, until the little blue pill doesnt work anymore, or until I forget what to do with a hard-on.
2. Yes. That's what making an ungodly amount of money each year with no dependents is for.
The Bandit said:
The best reason ever for voting "escort" in this poll.
Some guys want or need a wife to look after them and some even want kids.
What ever YOU want, is the way to go. Theres no wrong answer.
With a wife you be more "normal" and like everybody else. Then again, you might be one of those guy's who wished they never did get married.
It is true thou, once you are very old, its sure nice to have a loving wife, I guess. What about if you get sick, a good wife will still love you, help take care of you.
An escort would walk out on you, after the "time" is up.
What ever YOU want, is the way to go. Theres no wrong answer.
With a wife you be more "normal" and like everybody else. Then again, you might be one of those guy's who wished they never did get married.
It is true thou, once you are very old, its sure nice to have a loving wife, I guess. What about if you get sick, a good wife will still love you, help take care of you.
An escort would walk out on you, after the "time" is up.
Exactly who....
...are you people marrying that you feel you have to "support a wife"? I mean, do you go LOOKING for the laziest, dumbest woman you can find and ask her if you can take care f her for the rest of her life?
Or are you saying you'd continue to live like a dumb ass college kid on Kraft mac and Cheese and in a studio apartment if you never got married?? That marriage forces you to "grow up" against your will?
I'm not championing marriage here (how the fuck could I? I've screwed up two of them), but the whole SPs are cheaper than GFs myth is a lie some of you guys tell yourself to justify your actions. If you are out of 3 bills every time you screw your GF, it is because you are a fucking sucker....and you've hooked up with an SP of a different sort.
Just be a man and say "I prefer to fuck around, so SPs are better". Or, be honest with yourself and say "I'm a dweeb and I can't get a GF". But economic justification for hobbying is just lying to yourself...never good...as it begets poor life decision making (like the guys who end up loaning their SPs thousands of dollars because they fail to truly understand and accept the nature of the relationship).
smylee52 said:
...are you people marrying that you feel you have to "support a wife"? I mean, do you go LOOKING for the laziest, dumbest woman you can find and ask her if you can take care f her for the rest of her life?
Or are you saying you'd continue to live like a dumb ass college kid on Kraft mac and Cheese and in a studio apartment if you never got married?? That marriage forces you to "grow up" against your will?
I'm not championing marriage here (how the fuck could I? I've screwed up two of them), but the whole SPs are cheaper than GFs myth is a lie some of you guys tell yourself to justify your actions. If you are out of 3 bills every time you screw your GF, it is because you are a fucking sucker....and you've hooked up with an SP of a different sort.
Just be a man and say "I prefer to fuck around, so SPs are better". Or, be honest with yourself and say "I'm a dweeb and I can't get a GF". But economic justification for hobbying is just lying to yourself...never good...as it begets poor life decision making (like the guys who end up loaning their SPs thousands of dollars because they fail to truly understand and accept the nature of the relationship).
MLAM said:
I quite clearly stated monogamy is not a financial decision but you took part of the post out of context to make it look like I was saying money is the only consideration . Not good to twist people's words or take them out of context to provide a plalform for your rant .
