gf problems

[baci2004]

just like to add in my 2 cents, though most people probably would not lke to read it.

You've wasted your time completely. 4.5 years and no sex? my god man, are you MAD? seriously, you've invested so much money in this little bitch and you're not getting your pay out... as if men are interested in anything more than sex with a woman... sheesh, my dude friends are better for companionship... and women are just cum dumpsters.

YOU'VE BEEN JIPPED!

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[goodtime]

Test drives

Had a GF like that insisted on no sex until marriage.

We all should test drive or live together before committing, unless you are prepare to accept incompatibility. Even after test drive, it's not guarantee, as people do change with time.

 

[Meister]

If you can't go home, lead your GF to the computer and show her your post, then think VERY VERY HARD before getting married.

What? Are you insane?

 

[Meister]

Getting married is one of the biggest decision you will make in your life. You will have to live with that decision for many years. Even after divorce it will stay with you, especially if you have kids.


So, if I were to get married (again), I would only marry someone who would wake me up at the 3 a.m. because she is so horny and can't wait.

 

[bkspoiler11]

Re: Test drives

Had a GF like that insisted on no sex until marriage.

We all should test drive or live together before committing, unless you are prepare to accept incompatibility. Even after test drive, it's not guarantee, as people do change with time.

I hope ya dumped her!!!

 

[Shades]

Sounds like she is in control all the way....

Do you like to be controlled? If not, look for an "equal" partner. A relationship to last has to be give and take on both sides.

 

[Lil'Miss]

Sounds like she is in control all the way....

Do you like to be controlled? If not, look for an "equal" partner. A relationship to last has to be give and take on both sides.

Control?? Because the girl has convictions and stays true to her faith? The fact that she respects her religion has no bearing on how sexual she will be post marriage. This is a discussion between the two people in the relationship. It probably wasn't the wisest decision to bring this up to a bunch of people who cheat on their wives/girlfriends but you guys don't have to tear this girl apart. Clover--If you want to stay with this girl and possibly marry her--delete this thread and go talk to her. Obviously there is something of value to 4 and a half years and I would think you wouldn't want her moral values trashed on this board.

Miss

 

[Cardinal Fang]

Spoken like a person totally in control of DenWa.

 

[Lil'Miss]

He's so whipped

 

[Low Rider]

That means you are really committed and really love her. Coming from a woman this is really great, you have respected her.

So shes willing to use toys with you and play in other ways which are not intercourse.. well, this is good because it means that she is open to the idea of sex, either that or she is doing it to please you. both are important. how does she feel about doing this with you? is she squeamish, is she into it? you said sometimes she wont talk about it. is that because you are asking for it, or is it because she doesn't like to talk about it.

I agree 110% with AF