G-Spot questions

[zedzed77]

Okay don't laugh. This question is mostly for the females on this board, but any male advice would also help.

Recently I bailed on the escort scene because of my new girlfriend. Cute, petite (4'10" with c-size boobs), and of course likes sex. The only problem is that she has never had a g-spot orgasm. All her orgasms are clitoral ones and usually that gets accomplished with a little eating out down there.

We recently bought a book to help us out with this issue. It states that the G-spot is a patch of skin that feels spongy, almost like a walnut, the size of a quarter. After doing a little probing down there with my finger, I feel that I found the spot (feels all wrinkly down there) but when I try to stimulate it, it bothers her, like some sort of strange poking sensation. She also says it almost makes her want to pee, which means I am getting close, but it bothers her more than arouses her.

To deal with this, we then bought a vibrator from a nearby store designed to stimulate her g-spot, but I don't think that has worked, she ended up using the vibrator to stimulate another clitoral orgasm (hey it does have its uses). She doesn't mind the fact that she has never experienced a g-spot orgasm (probably due to her going for the clitoral ones instead), but I'd like to help her have one. Any ideas?

 

[21pro]

don't forget that some have stronger nerve endings around the clit area instead of in the g-spot. (particularly common with petite females)

 

[21pro]

Stop trying!!! You will only continue to encounter resistance.
I have an idea. Set aside a night of surprises. Things that she really loves doing and don't tell her. Give her the time of her life, then bring her home. Take a shower together and begin seducing her. Make sure you jerk off a couple times 24 hours before this encounter. Don't try to give her one and make sure she is totally relaxed and at peace. Make love to her like she is the first time you have ever made love. It will happen.
If that doesn;t work, just pick the tiny piece of ass up and pin her against the wall and tell her she aint gettin down till it's done.
I make no personal guarantee of results.

so.

1. stop trying.
2. try as hard as you can.
3. don't blame me if you fail.

 

[21pro]

no kidding

but, it is fun to try and figure it out.

 

[thirdtime]

The build up to a G-spot orgasm FEELS like she has to pee.
Tell her to go pee before you start and she knows she doesn't really have to pee.
The biggest hurdle is getting her to relax, go with the feeling and just let it progress and take place.
I taught one woman to have G-spot 'O's and she turned into a major squirter.

 

[Catherine]

stop....

Okay don't laugh. This question is mostly for the females on this board, but any male advice would also help.

Recently I bailed on the escort scene because of my new girlfriend. Cute, petite (4'10" with c-size boobs), and of course likes sex. The only problem is that she has never had a g-spot orgasm. All her orgasms are clitoral ones and usually that gets accomplished with a little eating out down there.

We recently bought a book to help us out with this issue. It states that the G-spot is a patch of skin that feels spongy, almost like a walnut, the size of a quarter. After doing a little probing down there with my finger, I feel that I found the spot (feels all wrinkly down there) but when I try to stimulate it, it bothers her, like some sort of strange poking sensation. She also says it almost makes her want to pee, which means I am getting close, but it bothers her more than arouses her.

To deal with this, we then bought a vibrator from a nearby store designed to stimulate her g-spot, but I don't think that has worked, she ended up using the vibrator to stimulate another clitoral orgasm (hey it does have its uses). She doesn't mind the fact that she has never experienced a g-spot orgasm (probably due to her going for the clitoral ones instead), but I'd like to help her have one. Any ideas?

About her sensation of going pee::
UR PROBING HER BLADDER... STOP IMMEDIATELY (unless u want her to have a bladder infection...)

Regarding HER orgasim/physical make-up:: The G-spot is actually an extention of the 'inner clitoris'... The 'hood' of the clitoris is only a fraction of the size of the actual clitoris (which can range between 2-6inches inside the womans 'private' area.) The spong-ie like area is actually located in the general area of the actual 'outer' clitoris (upward and deep) but every womans clitoris is different. Some women can't cum g-spotted-ly, but with some women it only enhances it (hence squirting). But if she squirms and says she wants to pee when ur doing what u are doing, then u are putting pressure on the wrong area! It's all about trial and error, just keep trying and don't forget about the tried and true... the 'head' of the clitoris will always bring pleasure!!!... JUST REMEMBER:::: THE 'G-SPOT' IS ONLY A CONTINUATION OF THE CLITORIS.... IT IS ONE AND THE SAME (OUTER CLIT/INNER CLIT) Some woman can only cum with their outer clit and some woman can do both... IT is COMPLETELY AN INDIVIDUAL experience...

kisses and cuddles

Kat
xoxoxox

 

[raven@mirage]

She has to find on herself first, it won't matter how much time you spend down there if she is not comfortable with finding it on her own she will never let you give her an orgasm.

but you know I am a female what would I know about giving myself a G-spot orgasm.

 

[goodtime]

what would I know about giving myself a G-spot orgasm.

Need help?

True, she has to relax & let you explore. Slight hook or curl finger usually do the trick. She usually give you the signal or get real juicy if you got the right spot. If in doubt after you spot it, get her to stimulate it with the toy.

Happy hunting.

 

[tboy]

Sorry Cat, but according to what I've read, and the forth paragraph down under the heading "existence of the g spot" your probing her bladder statement isn't necessarily true.

http://www.best-love-making-positions-techniques.com/g-spot-stimulation.html

and the third paragraph down:

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/advice/questions/guide-him-to-g-spot

and the second last paragraph:

http://www.minou.com/aboutsex/gspot.htm

I've seen quite a few demonstrations etc (no, NOT porns) and every one of them stated at the beginning, that is what it feels like (because as the above link says, it IS located directly beneath her bladder).....

So, it isn't necessarily a bad thing when she feels that......

Now, I'm not a doctor, but an infection is caused by bacteria not by touching. If that was the case then you could get a muscle infection by massaging someone's back. If you're getting a bladder infection while having sex it is most likely caused by lube or bodily fluids being forced up your urethra (which is a common occurance).

 

[skypilot]

I don't believe in Santa, the Easter Bunny, Laura Secord or the G-Spot.

 

[zedzed77]

Sorry Cat, but according to what I've read, and the forth paragraph down under the heading "existence of the g spot" your probing her bladder statement isn't necessarily true.

http://www.outwatercatalogs.com/2007_master/lg_display.cfm?page_number=638

What the heck does lighting accessories have to do with a G-spot?

 

[tboy]

What the heck does lighting accessories have to do with a G-spot?

oops, my bad, I guess I forgot to actually hit ctrl-c after highlighting the web address lol...DOH

 

[Lou Siffer]

... or maybe after some clitoral orgasms she will be more relaxed, satisfied and open (both mentally and physically). .

I have found this to be true with a couple of partners. The g-spot orgasm seemed to come naturally after good session of DATY with several clitoral Os.

 

[tboy]

I have found this to be true with a couple of partners. The g-spot orgasm seemed to come naturally after good session of DATY with several clitoral Os.

Holy shit, after all that I think it's my turn lol...

I mean, if she's having that much trouble, might I suggest one of these???

http://www.funnyinside.com/TongueDrill.shtml

 

[Adrenalin]

What’s the difference between the G-spot and a golf ball?



…Men will spend at least 10 minutes looking for a golf ball.

 

[anon1]

There was a link posted here a couple of months ago to an instructional video on giving a G-Stop orgasm.