fun thread! Does it happen that often when having a "hum-drum" experience with an SP?

[lynn_ha]

fun thread! Does it happen that often when having a "hum-drum" experience with an SP?

Does it happen that often when you have had a dismal, boring experience with an SP.............. or is it rare in this industry? Did you feel unwanted when you arrived and she just doesn't make any effort to make you feel welcome. That you might as well of stayed home and whacked yourself off instead & cheaper too? I can see why if you find someone who makes you feel really good inside you aren't going to leave this SP but maybe you should spread the word and share you experience with the other guys. Maybe the experience of trying to find a new SP is just not worth the effort and financial investment. It just might be that an SP with exceptional commutation skills and feeling warm & fuzzy towards their clients wins hands down of being the number 1 attribute over every other skill!

 

[shack]

I think that so many "fun threads" are becoming hum-drum.

Feel free to call me a humbug.

 

[Ridgeman08]

Who invited negative Nancy? ^^^^^ LoL

Fortunately for me, it's only happened once. It was very early on in my hobby experiences and from that day forward I adopted a strict research policy that has prevented any further humdrums from occurring!

 

[lynn_ha]

I think that so many "fun threads" are becoming hum-drum.

Feel free to call me a humbug.

I agree that not all threads can be light & cheerful, I do try and keep it around 95%.............. fun! I just fell it's a serious problem for guys when they don't get the respect & consideration from an SP who isn't concerned about decent service.

 

[Titalian]

A few times, but like Ridgeman early on in my career, Now a days I normally see regulars, that I can count on for a positive outcome, but if its a first time, research and contact are your friends.

 

[lynn_ha]

Who invited negative Nancy? ^^^^^ LoL

Fortunately for me, it's only happened once. It was very early on in my hobby experiences and from that day forward I adopted a strict research policy that has prevented any further humdrums from occurring!

hey Ridgeman08, maybe it wasn't a topic to bring up and left alone and ignored, I guess the guys who read this thread would rather not be reminded what a lousy time they had with someone who shouldn't have been in the "fun" business. It's unfortunate when it happens and there isn't much the guys can really do except right it off as a bad experience and try, try again!

 

[kherg007]

No need to apologise Lynn..it is a good question. But the gentlemen above have the most sage advice - research research research. The only two not fully excellent times were taking fliers earlier in my career, just like titalian and ridgeman experienced and for the same reasons. Other fliers I took were spontaneous recommendations from dahlia at my go -to agency (Naughty Nuru) where I went to book one lady, but she had left/couldn't come in/got sick so she'd make a recommendation - and they were all spot on and led to wonderful times.

 

[bolt.upright]

I do lots and lots of research and only see well-reviewed ladies. That didn't stop me from having a bad time once when the lady I saw would have been better to cancel me rather than see me when she was in no condition to work. I still see amazing reviews for her every day, and I just shake my head. What a waste of money that was--I would have had better luck closing my eyes and picking anyone on Backpage.

 

[Jiffypop69]

I've been with maybe 3 WELL REVIEWED ladies that I just did not click with for whatever reason, and I was beyond bored. That said, I can probably take 40, maybe 50% of the blame, considering expectations, and the digitally altered photos of said ladies, as well as my own attitude towards those initial disappointments.
So, even with research it can happen, but only in one of the cases was it really MOSTLY her fault.

 

[Titalian]

I do lots and lots of research and only see well-reviewed ladies. That didn't stop me from having a bad time once when the lady I saw would have been better to cancel me rather than see me when she was in no condition to work. I still see amazing reviews for her every day, and I just shake my head. What a waste of money that was--I would have had better luck closing my eyes and picking anyone on Backpage.

I've been with maybe 3 WELL REVIEWED ladies that I just did not click with for whatever reason, and I was beyond bored. That said, I can probably take 40, maybe 50% of the blame, considering expectations, and the digitally altered photos of said ladies, as well as my own attitude towards those initial disappointments.
So, even with research it can happen, but only in one of the cases was it really MOSTLY her fault.

Trust me the research process isn't foolproof. There are a number of other determining factors for a good encounter.
Communication comes to mind. Get a feel for the person and let her get a feel for you.
These processes are not perfect, but there all we have before the big meet.

 

[bazokajoe]

One of my most hoo-hum sessions was with a very well reviewed SP. Never will see her again.She just never lived up to the reviews I read here.I;m not a fan of tats and when she opened the door,I was shocked to see so many.She does a good job on her pics to hide them all.

 

[Hurricane Hank]

At least 10 times, maybe many more. Given that I had over 100 visits last year, and that 10 or more is in many years, I think you have to expect a few duds.