Has anyone ever had a fuck buddy, and if so did either one of u ever get to attacked or had feels for this person.
How long did u have your fuck buddy for.
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How long did u have your fuck buddy for.
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sexy lady
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It can work
I had a Tutorial leader @ York who ended up a fuck buddy when we were both between relationships. Sex when you're 20 is oh so hot when you're doing a 25y/o.
We stayed friends for over 5 years, and always fell into the same patterns ... nothing was ever expected to emerge...nothing ever did.
For what it's worth, we were not at all each other's type, and started up after a blurry party landed us in a 3rd persons guestroom.
No regrets, no sad partings...always friendly.
I had a Tutorial leader @ York who ended up a fuck buddy when we were both between relationships. Sex when you're 20 is oh so hot when you're doing a 25y/o.
We stayed friends for over 5 years, and always fell into the same patterns ... nothing was ever expected to emerge...nothing ever did.
For what it's worth, we were not at all each other's type, and started up after a blurry party landed us in a 3rd persons guestroom.
No regrets, no sad partings...always friendly.
I have had a few the are a good no strings attached way to get what you both want without the hassle of a relationship. As long as both parties know that it doesn't go futher.
(by the way I'm looking for one of those too...lol)
(by the way I'm looking for one of those too...lol)
Unforunately what inevitably happens is one person gets very attached, and the relationship ends on a sour note. I have had this happen to me both ways and although you try and rationalize it, it doesn't help. This is especially true if you are with a mistress. She ends up falling in love and wanting what the wife has...
They are fun in the short term, but caveat emptor!
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They are fun in the short term, but caveat emptor!
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A mistress ISNT just a fuck buddy.
She's usually deriving benefits far in excess of just a "buddy"
He's usually emotionally invested.
She's usually deriving benefits far in excess of just a "buddy"
He's usually emotionally invested.
An ex-girl friend . It lasted for a year until I changed cities . It wasn't anything that really really got me going though . She wanted sex but wasn't all that adventuresome ( position or act wise ) so it was more like married sex ....lol ( after 10 years ) .
I've never really had one...but I've always wanted one
There were a few that I just wanted as FB's but their feelings got in the way. Go figure.
There were a few that I just wanted as FB's but their feelings got in the way. Go figure.
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It was great for the first three months; after that it started turning into a relationship. She freaked out - then all we did was argue. In the end, she wanted to remain friends but it was too weird for me, so I just stopped returning her calls. That was it.
It has worked for me.
Every situation is different but they can work. I had a good friend, we would hangout, go to the movies, dinner, cook, etc ... we were good buddies who had many mutual friends but no one ever seemed to catch on that we also had a physical relationship.
Everyone acknowledged our friendship but took it for granted that since we dated other people that we were just friends. Emotionally, that's all we ever were and neither of us ever developed "feelings" for each other beyond friendship.
I guess, we sort of both saw it as a game and as we both played by the rules, there was never a *****. Thinking back now as I type, I realize that while we were honest and good friends, that we never really opened up to each other. We never spoke, or wanted to reveal private thoughts or feelings and while very close in many ways, we were strangers in others.
I guess that it worked because we clicked on all levels except emotionally and neither of us ever wanted to explore that path.
Every situation is different but they can work. I had a good friend, we would hangout, go to the movies, dinner, cook, etc ... we were good buddies who had many mutual friends but no one ever seemed to catch on that we also had a physical relationship.
Everyone acknowledged our friendship but took it for granted that since we dated other people that we were just friends. Emotionally, that's all we ever were and neither of us ever developed "feelings" for each other beyond friendship.
I guess, we sort of both saw it as a game and as we both played by the rules, there was never a *****. Thinking back now as I type, I realize that while we were honest and good friends, that we never really opened up to each other. We never spoke, or wanted to reveal private thoughts or feelings and while very close in many ways, we were strangers in others.
I guess that it worked because we clicked on all levels except emotionally and neither of us ever wanted to explore that path.
Plenty of times at various points in my life. The ones that work the best for both parties are the long distance arrangements where you dont have the opportunity to get attached past the sex part of the relationship. Seeing someone locally on a regular basis inevitably does not work out, as one person or both gets tired of the arrangement or gets too attached.
Had a fuck buddy in Ottawa many years ago. Worked out great for a couple of years, but we eventually lost touch when I moved to Toronto...
I've had quite a few fuck buddies over the years. The last one I had actually is an SP you see reviewed alot here (it's not hard to figure out who). It lasted a year, and after a while I realized I wanted to be in a relationship, and we split ways. The funny part is she still calls me now and then to hook up, but I'm in a pretty solid relationship, so it's toned down to hanging out as friends (yes, men and women can be just friends, even if you're attracted to each other and if you've been intimate in the past).
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I have had two over the years, and in both cases it was great. No expectations or seriousness on either parties ( though one of them might have wanted more). Honesty is the best course of action here, the second one came to me and suggested it after I had honestly told her that I had no intention of getting serious with anyone. The first one which was over twenty years ago I still call and occasionally meet with, only the sex has stopped.
The moral of this story? be honest and not affraid of opening up. If they are going to become your buddy then they will understand you. If they don't, then it was never meant to be.
I have had two over the years, and in both cases it was great. No expectations or seriousness on either parties ( though one of them might have wanted more). Honesty is the best course of action here, the second one came to me and suggested it after I had honestly told her that I had no intention of getting serious with anyone. The first one which was over twenty years ago I still call and occasionally meet with, only the sex has stopped.
The moral of this story? be honest and not affraid of opening up. If they are going to become your buddy then they will understand you. If they don't, then it was never meant to be.
All hail the elusive fuck buddy!
I have a fabulous fuck buddy thing going on - it's been happening for a year now, he knows and supports my being an SP, and I know he sees other women. Thing is, we are emotionally attached - but not in a romantic way.
It's more a comrade-in-arms kind of thing - us against an often nasty world. We love each other in an I-got-your-back way rather than the "I love you (so now you owe me)" sense.
And the sex is insanely great
Only problem? He's in Asia now, teaching, and may be there for four years.
So I'm kinda auditioning a stand-in at the moment, with his support, because we know I could really damage my sexuality if I don't have somebody to be with once in a while who isn't a client.
He's an intelligent guy - he's looking out for me, but, naturally, himself as well. Maintaining our mad monkey sex thing means being practical, and me getting burnt out and depressed for lack of civilian nookitude is bad for us both in the long run.
I feel really, really lucky to have this - somehow we hit on exactly the right vibe, and our personalities and priorities clicked.
And guess what? I met him online through Nerve.com Personals.
I have a fabulous fuck buddy thing going on - it's been happening for a year now, he knows and supports my being an SP, and I know he sees other women. Thing is, we are emotionally attached - but not in a romantic way.
It's more a comrade-in-arms kind of thing - us against an often nasty world. We love each other in an I-got-your-back way rather than the "I love you (so now you owe me)" sense.
And the sex is insanely great
Only problem? He's in Asia now, teaching, and may be there for four years.
So I'm kinda auditioning a stand-in at the moment, with his support, because we know I could really damage my sexuality if I don't have somebody to be with once in a while who isn't a client.
He's an intelligent guy - he's looking out for me, but, naturally, himself as well. Maintaining our mad monkey sex thing means being practical, and me getting burnt out and depressed for lack of civilian nookitude is bad for us both in the long run.
I feel really, really lucky to have this - somehow we hit on exactly the right vibe, and our personalities and priorities clicked.
And guess what? I met him online through Nerve.com Personals.
Lil'Miss and I have had a few different FB's over the past six years we've been together. We're currently looking for a new one. Always a fun process.
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