Reading Picard's threads I thought I'd finally post this.
After spending the better part of 25 years not having any female relationships, I've been both frustrated and confused by my utter lack of success with the female of the species. Not just sexually but overall, including relationships. Aside from less than a handfull of meetings that are barely considered dates. I've had absolutly no experience with females, and I've begun to think that it is affecting my attempts at meeting woman in the present. Not that I assume that all woman my age (26) have had sex but they've most likely been in 1 or 2 relationships. I often wonder if the fact that I've never been that I somehow don't know how to deal with woman, and/or, lack the sophistication (the kind that would be gained in the typical high school puppy love relationships) to successfully approach, talk, to and hook up with any particular woman.
I was extremely shy in my youth and slowly began coming out of my shell when I was 18, 19, and the growth in seems to come in spurts. I.e. specific situations where I'd do something I would never have done before, or have somthing happen to me, that would boost my self confidence to a new level. Anyway the point I'm trying to make is that I've been thinking maybe I should just 'give in' and visit an escort and at least have the sexual aspect taken care of. Maybe spending some time in this way would help me gain more confidence in dealing with woman on a day to day basis. What do you think about losing my proverbial 'cherry' (aside from playing a little 5 on 1) with an escort. At this point in my life I think that is my only option if I'm going to have any success in meeting woman in public.
I am by no means ugly. In fact I often do get complimented on my looks. Cleo of 4Play, for one, seemed to be quite enthusiastic (sic?) in complimenting me at the terb party on the 17'th. I intelligent as well. I just think that when speaking to woman that I'm interested in, that I lack the skills to converse with them and read body signals and such.
Sorry for the rambly, wordy post. Just need to get some thoughts put into words and sentances
After spending the better part of 25 years not having any female relationships, I've been both frustrated and confused by my utter lack of success with the female of the species. Not just sexually but overall, including relationships. Aside from less than a handfull of meetings that are barely considered dates. I've had absolutly no experience with females, and I've begun to think that it is affecting my attempts at meeting woman in the present. Not that I assume that all woman my age (26) have had sex but they've most likely been in 1 or 2 relationships. I often wonder if the fact that I've never been that I somehow don't know how to deal with woman, and/or, lack the sophistication (the kind that would be gained in the typical high school puppy love relationships) to successfully approach, talk, to and hook up with any particular woman.
I was extremely shy in my youth and slowly began coming out of my shell when I was 18, 19, and the growth in seems to come in spurts. I.e. specific situations where I'd do something I would never have done before, or have somthing happen to me, that would boost my self confidence to a new level. Anyway the point I'm trying to make is that I've been thinking maybe I should just 'give in' and visit an escort and at least have the sexual aspect taken care of. Maybe spending some time in this way would help me gain more confidence in dealing with woman on a day to day basis. What do you think about losing my proverbial 'cherry' (aside from playing a little 5 on 1) with an escort. At this point in my life I think that is my only option if I'm going to have any success in meeting woman in public.
I am by no means ugly. In fact I often do get complimented on my looks. Cleo of 4Play, for one, seemed to be quite enthusiastic (sic?) in complimenting me at the terb party on the 17'th. I intelligent as well. I just think that when speaking to woman that I'm interested in, that I lack the skills to converse with them and read body signals and such.
Sorry for the rambly, wordy post. Just need to get some thoughts put into words and sentances
