Hold on.....Do you actually think she's only sleeping with you?There is a big difference between banging a girl for money when she is also baging 10 other guys and having an amazing day coupled with wild sex escapades with a civilian woman. I love both.
Don't open up too much about your personal life if you're worried about a scam. Keep your ID close and don't reveal your last name. By the sounds of it you're getting this uncertain feeling from somewhere. Ask yourself if you are trying to scam someone what would you do or what kind of questions would you ask, therefore, pay attention to those Q's. Please don't tell me you told her about the business or the company name? Mention what industry you're in but stay away from specifics. Also if you're having unprotected sex DONT shoot inside regardless what she say's or how hot the moment is.That would be fun. But it rarely works out that way. I have had ‘sugar babies’ before and it has worked extremely well. I normally have had 3-5 month relationships before one or both of us get tired with it. I am more concerned about a scam or extortion.
I am not super concerned about my private life. My wife does not want to get divorced and I have a super strong marriage contract. I am concerned about being held captive or some other wild French Canadian scam that I haven’t thought of. This girl is wild but fun. Form what she tells me, she has lived a hard life with drugs, booze, etc.
On a final note, keep this in mind......There's a good chance she's playing with others or she has a wondering eye that's ready and available for others. She felt comfortable with you. My guess she has been in this space before and she would feel comfortable with other married men. She won't be a mistress. What is she now then? Mistress in training?