FMTY/TMTY what is it and what to know

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FMTY/TMTY aka having a companion travel long distance to see you.

Please be respectful, if this topic isn’t for you, just go back to the lounge section and pick another thread. There’s no need to debate whether it’s a good idea or not, this thread is for information purposes only.

What is it and what to know?

What is it?
FMTY/TMTY in their long form fly me to you and train me to you are simply a way from meeting a provider from another city that doesn’t tour. Touring is expensive especially post pandemic and many of us have decided it simply wasn’t worth it. With social media and fansites like OnlyFans, it’s easy to have access to providers that aren’t based in your city. What happens when you have a big crush on one of them? You either travel to her, if possible, you hope that you’ll have a work conference in her hometown or for the more adventurous, you ask her to come to you.

How does it work?
Many companions have their FMTY/TMTY rates on their website or ads, if they don’t, simply ask. You would usually have to send a deposit or cover the cost of the flight or train ticket. How do I know I’m not going to get scammed you may ask? As per usual, make sure the person you want to meet is legit and not a known scammer.

What to know?
It’s fair to assume that if you have never met before, the provider might not be comfortable staying at your place so might want to book a hotel room or Airbnb. Always ask before to make sure each party is not going to have bad surprises. You might have to cover the costs of transportation from the airport to where you’ll be staying.

In conclusion, this can be a fun and exciting way to meet or rediscover your favourite companion who doesn’t live in your city. While it may seem like an expensive alternative, you might find a loophole by sponsoring her tour instead. I’ll cover that in another thread if there’s genuine interest.

Once again, I am asking you to be respectful
 

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Take the last train to Clarksville
And I'll meet you at the station
You can be here by 4:30
'Cause I've made your reservation
Don't be slow
Oh, no, no, no
Oh, no, no, no
 

xix

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So pretty much this is an overnight thing, 8 hours booking?
Unless it is for four hours booking then you send the lady to a hotel next to the Petticoat Junction station for her to leave the next day.

I rather meet her half way at the hotel. So would I book two rooms at the hotel if we only date for four hours?
 

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I know you want to keep this respectful Lena but I don't think that the members of this board will ever go in for something like that.
 
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So pretty much this is an overnight thing, 8 hours booking?
I am based in Montreal and someone in Ottawa wanted to see me so I took the train and spent 3 hours with him. I thought it was a bit of a long ride so I took the occasion to visit family in Gatineau after our date.

If the distance isn’t too big, it can be shorter date. If it was someone in Vancouver I would probably not accept a 3 hours date, it doesn’t make sense.
 

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I know you want to keep this respectful Lena but I don't think that the members of this board will ever go in for something like that.
After my “Ask us anything” thread, I naively have faith in the users. While some cannot help but being total jerks, majority of the members have been very respectful.
 

xix

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Well 3 hours ride, and if you had two appoints or three and pass by family that would be okay.
Other if it was me I would say 8 hours booking, stay over night and see if other people book 2 -3 hours for next day, if no booking cancel. I would rather have 3 -4 booked session for what you did.
You only learn from experience if you analyze it.
 

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Well 3 hours ride, and if you had two appoints or three and pass by family that would be okay.
Other if it was me I would say 8 hours booking, stay over night and see if other people book 2 -3 hours for next day, if no booking cancel. I would rather have 3 -4 booked session for what you did.
You only learn from experience if you analyze it.
Everyone handles their business as they please. I’m not interested in high volumes which is the reason I’m not working in an agency. So seeing someone for 3 hours and then hanging out with my cousins is perfect.

8 hours is a like a dinner date and then some, that’s a sweet date.
 
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I would think you'd only do this w a lady you've met before and have a good rapport.
You would also build in some "down time" for the lady.
 
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I would think you'd only do this w a lady you've met before and have a good rapport.
You would also build in some "down time" for the lady.
Yes definitely better with someone you’ve seen before or at least chatted with
 

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FMTY/TMTY aka having a companion travel long distance to see you.

Please be respectful, if this topic isn’t for you, just go back to the lounge section and pick another thread. There’s no need to debate whether it’s a good idea or not, this thread is for information purposes only.

What is it and what to know?

What is it?
FMTY/TMTY in their long form fly me to you and train me to you are simply a way from meeting a provider from another city that doesn’t tour. Touring is expensive especially post pandemic and many of us have decided it simply wasn’t worth it. With social media and fansites like OnlyFans, it’s easy to have access to providers that aren’t based in your city. What happens when you have a big crush on one of them? You either travel to her, if possible, you hope that you’ll have a work conference in her hometown or for the more adventurous, you ask her to come to you.

How does it work?
Many companions have their FMTY/TMTY rates on their website or ads, if they don’t, simply ask. You would usually have to send a deposit or cover the cost of the flight or train ticket. How do I know I’m not going to get scammed you may ask? As per usual, make sure the person you want to meet is legit and not a known scammer.

What to know?
It’s fair to assume that if you have never met before, the provider might not be comfortable staying at your place so might want to book a hotel room or Airbnb. Always ask before to make sure each party is not going to have bad surprises. You might have to cover the costs of transportation from the airport to where you’ll be staying.

In conclusion, this can be a fun and exciting way to meet or rediscover your favourite companion who doesn’t live in your city. While it may seem like an expensive alternative, you might find a loophole by sponsoring her tour instead. I’ll cover that in another thread if there’s genuine interest.

Once again, I am asking you to be respectful

In a different era I've done both of these. I have traveled To provider iN europe .. Nothing special for her ... Just one part of a vacation for me. As for girls coming to me.. I only had a type of girl that doesn't even exist anymore. For lack better term hybrid girls.. Girls experimenting with the biz up For the adventure at all. Half date half provider. Much cheaper but we everyone great.

Did the sponsor once.
 
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kherg007

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Never did a fmty. However once discovered a Canadian sp in SE Asia (now retired Sinthia) about an 8 min taxi ride away. So she popped by my hotel for the greatest of outcalls that I did review. The irony was she was traveling with friends who didn't know she was in the biz. Thus had to make an excuse to get away lol.
 
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FMTY always intrigued me but the idea of paying for the SP’s time, along with her hotel and flight just reeks of simping of the highest degree. Just easier to make an excuse to visit her at her city and go to her incall Imho.

I appreciate your threads and posts 👍
 
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escortsxxx

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FMTY always intrigued me but the idea of paying for the SP’s time, along with her hotel and flight just reeks of simping of the highest degree. Just easier to make an excuse to visit her at her city and go to her incall Imho.

I appreciate your threads and posts 👍


Yeah I don't see myself ever paying for the flight directly. I can see myself ageeing 21 long or many long How many short appointments in advance. Perhaps with exception Are girls who are on my to do list Most of them are not sps. Another exception Would be the sps that i have history with.

The greatest problem with these things If they don't happen kind of naturally they create a lot of pressure. If SP Really wants to visit Your city where you have to be then great.
 

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Interesting, I read that this FMTY happens quite a bit. There is definitely a sub-set of a market for this. I assume quite small though.
 

LC18

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Interesting, I read that this FMTY happens quite a bit. There is definitely a sub-set of a market for this. I assume quite small though.
Yes it’s very rare personally, I’ve only had 4 since 2019.
 

John_Jacob

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Yes it’s very rare personally, I’ve only had 4 since 2019.
I'd say one a year is pretty impressive though. I assume that it's mostly people who have seen you (or generic providers) first. I assume it's significantly more common in the $1,000/hr market though. At that level, it's all different right?
 

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I'd say one a year is pretty impressive though. I assume that it's mostly people who have seen you (or generic providers) first. I assume it's significantly more common in the $1,000/hr market though. At that level, it's all different right?
3 were the same man who had never met me before and the other one was someone who had met me before.
 
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