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netcheesemo

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what the hell do you guys think about, or do, to get yourself to not cum so fast?

its frustrating and embarrassing as hell. i am either too nervious to get hard - they have to work at it a bit (and my flaccid penis is about the sice of an African American hamster), then once its hard, or most times at about 80%, i feel like im gonna let one go. I have to ask her to do a little more teasing, until i calm down. if its at an SP, then its game over. i either slow down the pumps, switch positions, or just finish and get it over with.

i read reviews about the guys pounding the shit out of these girls, making them cum, making them make noise. How can i perform like that?
 

Pencap

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Here's "my training regimen" :): A week or so before my session, I jerk myself off until I am close to cumming. Then I stop and wait a minute or two. I repeat this process over and over for about 30 minutes. Do this for about a week or until you get a good idea about it feels like before you cum. If you really want to become a porno king, try this for another few days afterward with lube.
 

Yoga Face

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Tantric massage involves breathing in order to control ejaculation

In essence when you feel you are going to come you do deep breathing and eventually you will have it under control

There are several tantra girls in the reviews


Also try the Mens Clinic which is run by an MD who specializes in such issues and is located at Eglinton and Yonge

http://www.mensclinic.com/
 

Pencap

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LMAO...that is crazy! You actually prepare for a session a week in advance???
Yeah, I guess that's me. I also prepare like this when I start seeing someone new and things seem to be going well. I feel more pressure when it is with a non-sp.
 

Bear669

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Lots of good advice above...

what the hell do you guys think about, or do, to get yourself to not cum so fast?

its frustrating and embarrassing as hell. i am either too nervious to get hard - they have to work at it a bit (and my flaccid penis is about the sice of an African American hamster), then once its hard, or most times at about 80%, i feel like im gonna let one go. I have to ask her to do a little more teasing, until i calm down. if its at an SP, then its game over. i either slow down the pumps, switch positions, or just finish and get it over with.

i read reviews about the guys pounding the shit out of these girls, making them cum, making them make noise. How can i perform like that?
...Are you circumcised?
 

genintoronto

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Here's "my training regimen" :): A week or so before my session, I jerk myself off until I am close to cumming. Then I stop and wait a minute or two. I repeat this process over and over for about 30 minutes. Do this for about a week or until you get a good idea about it feels like before you cum. If you really want to become a porno king, try this for another few days afterward with lube.
This is actually a very good idea. Getting to know your own body and reactions to different kinds of stimulation, and learning how to control and enhance those sensations is the key to good sex with a partner.

Including more tease and "foreplay" (god, I hate that word) into your sex play is also a good idea. As I've said before, and contrary to popular belief, there's more to sex than penis-in-vagina.

Using a blindfold can help too (actually, it can also help for those who have trouble cumming with a partner). Basically, by being blindfolded, you are better able to focus on your other senses, which makes it easier to "control" those other senses. It's basically the opposite idea of thinking about your grandma: instead of trying to re-focus your attention on something else to stop you from cumming, you want to focus your attention on those sensations, embrace them, make one with them. It sounds counter-intuitive, but the idea is to learn to control those sensations rather than just let them control you.
 

bishop

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It might be a bit of a blessing. I have the quick cumming problem, but i found I can recharge and get a 2nd shot before 30 mins is over. I mostly visit MPs and they are mostly pretty good about giving me a 2nd shot in 30 mins, 40% of the time I pay an extra $20, the other %60 is no extra charge.

You might want to get 45 min or 60 min session and see if you can get a 2nd shot in.
 

nominis

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why don't you try a 45 or 60 min session, ask your MP to give a Happy beginning right off the top then relax with a nice massage and by the halfway mark you'll be ready again but, calmer and with more stamina ... just a thought
 
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