Just want to make sure I understand this; In financial domination a guys gives a woman money just for the privilege of giving her money?
FinDom…Please Explain.
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I thought that was called 'marriage' ?
I want to be financially dominated by a woman then....
It's a mental illness.
What is findom? A submissive man explains financial domination
‘Findom is merely another form of escapism for people who struggle with everyday life in this bizarre cash- and self-obsessed modern society,’ he says
www.independent.co.uk
It’s your opinion that it is a mental illness but it is not.It's a mental illness.
What is findom? A submissive man explains financial domination
‘Findom is merely another form of escapism for people who struggle with everyday life in this bizarre cash- and self-obsessed modern society,’ he says
At one point and even still, people thought men going to escorts was/is a mental illness too.
For the OP, this article explains it as it is, not as the “mental illness” Redbag is trying to portray it as.
Personally, I can’t do it. I can’t just take money from people.
People been here is mental illness, in one form or another.It's a mental illness.
What is findom? A submissive man explains financial domination
‘Findom is merely another form of escapism for people who struggle with everyday life in this bizarre cash- and self-obsessed modern society,’ he says
Looking at a cell phone at nothing or just swiping every 2 seconds at nothing is also M.I.
No. Those are not mental illness either.
You can just stick the sticker of Mental Illness on everything you don’t like or agree with.
Staring at your phone and swiping apps, seriously - you are calling that mental illness????
That is an insult to those who truly struggle with real mental illness. Just sayin’
The problem is, it's become a bit of lexicon without any real definition. This is how it started.
Before the internet was really popular, guys seeking domination/fetish providers would financially compensate SW's for providing said service in the traditional way this profession works. Those women were called "Dominatrix" or "Pro's". As the internet grew and and technology increased (online platforms, everyone has a smart phone/camera..etc), many non pro women started to dabble in this world for financial gain calling themselves "findoms". At the beginning, most of these "findoms" were as I mentioned, civilians trying to make money via the internet by pretending to be a dominatrix but only willing to provide the most mild stuff. They would be willing to send you a pic of their feet, perhaps on an email and in that email they would also have humiliating content for you to read. I.E, "Your a worthless piece of shit, and from now on your going worship the ground I walk on, and your going to worship my feet"...blah..blah..blah... That still holds true today. Then more civilian women saw this, and stretched even further by saying they would just take your money and control all your money. Even creating things like "cash meet ups". Some of the most ridiculous shit ever. Then what started happening was because so many younger geneation girls starting using this term on all the platforms, even the real doms starting adapting this term calling themselves "findoms". If there was no internet, there would be no such thing as "findom".
@Jenesis
I see your point I was about to edit or delete my post but here is the thing....
If you buy a newspaper. And just flip the pages with OUT reading anything or maybe just the title of the reports. What would that be called?
Of course I was thinking of this and came to the conclusion that after reading the newspaper I realise it was just the same old news. I guess I was looking for something new, like a natural disaster or wild gun fight or court room trial. I guess I became to sanitized to some news.
But here is the KICKER, from August to October I was riding the city bus to work. I noticed people where just swiping articles and video within 2 seconds on their cells. And also at work during lunch hour. There are a bunch ethnic groups in my job site that I notice they don't talk much anymore and watch something in full, but some groups of people don't watch it in full.
Switching TV channels during commercials.
So boredom?
Let me know.
I see your point I was about to edit or delete my post but here is the thing....
If you buy a newspaper. And just flip the pages with OUT reading anything or maybe just the title of the reports. What would that be called?
Of course I was thinking of this and came to the conclusion that after reading the newspaper I realise it was just the same old news. I guess I was looking for something new, like a natural disaster or wild gun fight or court room trial. I guess I became to sanitized to some news.
But here is the KICKER, from August to October I was riding the city bus to work. I noticed people where just swiping articles and video within 2 seconds on their cells. And also at work during lunch hour. There are a bunch ethnic groups in my job site that I notice they don't talk much anymore and watch something in full, but some groups of people don't watch it in full.
Switching TV channels during commercials.
So boredom?
Let me know.
It wouldn't surprise me if by the end of the year people will be walking the streets with their hands out waiting for money, not saying anything or begging.
I take your points and will reword my opinion I posted above. The acts themselves, like bdsm, aren't mental illness- they're behaviours because of one form or another. They're releases stemming from an underlying root cause.
You make a great point about how the internet gave a platforms to existing conditions. If there was no internet there would be no they/them and all the other gender pronouns. Before the internet it was gender identity disorder.
People that live and work downtown Toronto have seen this for a few years now already. One that lots of people will know who I'm talking about is the middle aged black guy that looks like a zombie that will just stand right on the lane divider line on Shurbourne or Richmond with his shaky hand out as cars drive by. Right in the middle of busy multi lane streets.
Off topic, but have you ever seen the singing man who walks right in the middle of the road at major intersections like Yonge and Dundas?
The problem is, they screwed the market. Because there's so many of them, SP's (mostly the dom ones) are literally charging for "unblock fees" and shit. They literally expect you to give money just to contact them before you even get into negotiations. You look at their profiles on twitter or other platforms and it will say "no tribute, no response". So you can't engage with them thanks to all the simps..lol. The wishlist kills me...lol. Here's a perfect example. Wants 50 bucks just to start the convo.
They are fishing. As long as some men respond they will continue. Some escorts feel it's a privilege they are giving to us, even if you pay. Just move on these girls are most probably really not worth it anyway.
I do move. The second I see anything about initial tributes it's automatic click to next. Same thing if I see anything about deposits.
Flipping through a paper or a book is called "scanning headlines" or "skimming." I used to do it all the time in school. You'd see people doing this on public transit, doctor's offices, restaurants, airports, etc. We just do it with screens today.
The thing with social media is that most of it is just a few seconds long. Those apps are designed to keep your attention and keep scrolling.
I wouldn't say that these behaviors are mental illnesses. On the other hand, I think they have probably caused a lot of harm that we're not fully aware of.
Pretending he's holding a microphone with one hand and covering his ear with the other. I used to see him all the time although I haven't now for a long time.
