Couple of thoughts.
Ceiling Cat knows about finding wires in walls! That Device he shows you is a common electrician’s tool. However, as somebody else has said, those wires will be enclosed conduit that is buried at least 2 inches deep in the concrete. So the buzz box might not pick up the signal.
Tapcon’s can hold a lot of weight in shear loading. The smallest Tapcon is 3/16 x1” and EACH fastener will hold 720lbs in 13 MPa concrete. I don’t think there is any part of a high-rise building that uses anything less than 30 MPa Concrete.
Have a look at this chart for actual specs. Take into account that they also have already included safety factor
Tapcon Concrete Screw technical specifications and information. Holding values, size range, Material Specifications and values.
www.confast.com
I would suggest using the 3/16“ x 1 1/2“ hex head Tapcon screws with a good drillbit. Don’t overtighten them.
They will absolutely hold anything he wants to hang off them.
last thing I’ll mention is for your friend to be very careful about drilling into structural walls in a condo. The Declaration always make it very clear that the structural walls do not belong to the owner, they are common element and are not supposed to drill / cut, etc.. I know of somebody who drilled a wall full of wire shelving with big long tapcons and the neighbour complained. After the owners belligerence (cluelessly) yipping about his rights and the subsequent lawyers letters, Engineer Reports and repairs..,it cost the guy over 10 grand!
The proper way to go about these projects is to get permission from the corporation before starting. That way, whatever you do has already been approved and it won’t come back to bite you in the ass.