Finding compatible companionship for the disabled

[littleboyblue]

Just throwing an idea out there that might help some of the disabled hobbyists such as myself.

Finding a compatible provider is very hit and miss if you're a disabled hobbyist. Many ladies are not comfortable seeing a disabled person for various reasons. It's in the best interest of both parties to respect the wishes of the ladies. Well here's a possible resource to make the search easier.

A list of providers that are comfortable seeing disabled clients. The list could be operated by the Mods to avoid conflicts. This list would be voluntary and the providers would decide if their names were added or removed from the list. Providers would simply pm a Mod using their board handle or if they didn't have their own handle and worked for an agency, using the agencies handle.

Obviously this wouldn't guarantee an appointment, there are a great variety of disabilities and personal chemistry would also still be a factor. What this list would do is greatly increase the chances of a disabled hobbyist finding a compatible provider while decreasing the amount of rejection normally involved in the search.

If this list only had a few names it could still be very effective, and if the disabled membership equals even one percent of the terb membership, it could help a lot of people.

Good idea, bad idea, or just wishful thinking?

 

[1HandInMyPocket]

For disabled people, I think it might make it easier for people like you. But can you not always discuss that with the provider over the phone?

 

[freshbreath]

I'm sure there are many SPs that would like to see you without any problems
I agree with 1hand, the best course of action would just be to phone who you're interested in seeing and briefly mention your physical situation

 

[littleboyblue]

That is what I currently do guys and my average is 80% failure. I've even found entire agency lineups without any takers.

 

[freshbreath]

wow, I'm sorry that's the situation here
everyone deserves some lovin', hopefully you'll find an SP that's happy to serve your needs

 

[Gentle Ben]

There is at least a handful of disabled folks on TERB, if there was some way for you to link up with each other , might be an idea anyway

 

[freshbreath]

It's in the best interest of both parties to respect the wishes of the ladies.

the ironic/sad thing is that while you really seem to want the lady to be comfortable as well, a lot of able-bodied hobbyists continue to act mentally disabled

 

[scouser1]

I am a disabled person myself and have never found my disability to be an issue with an SP or MPA, i just figure my money is just as good as the guy whose legs work hehhehe

but seriously I just tell them before we start what i am comfortable with or the majority of times they enquire as to what i can and cannot do and then we let the games begin

 

[hunter001]

They was a disabled guy that was posted in here that was using honeygirls if that helps.

Cheers.

 

[Berlin]

Good idea, bad idea, or just wishful thinking?

Good idea, LBB. I sure hope everything will work out for you and others " mongers " with diabilities. Basically, we 're all the same ... bunch of horny bastards

Maybe except bear, he's too hairy and eats rabbits.

 

[MindJohn]

Geez, this thread causes me to have less regard for SP's all over (**that doesn't mean "all" SP's).

It is one thing if someone was once raped or attacked by someone of a certain race or whatever, and she doesn't see people of that race as a result (a subject debated at TERB many times), but I fail to see any reason why just about any SP shouldn't be able to conduct herself with enough personal maturity (and compassion, too, if that is what it takes) to see a disabled man in a for-pay situation.

Many of us probably want to live in a world where the most physically stunning women might even date (in private life) someone who might happen to be disabled, but that is mostly wishful thinking.

When pay is involved, and when the client is respectful and sincere (not to mention somewhat less physically threatening than the random client), then why aren't SP's willing to at least show up at the door and assess the situation before freaking out about it?

And yeah, yeah, I have in the past used the defense that just like in real life, the decision about who a woman will date or fuck does and should be hers to make. I just don't understand what may as well be called a "phobia" about paid escorts not wishing to date disabled clients.

I'd like to hear from various SP's what their stance is on this topic.

 

[luv4lust]

i've already sent lbb a pm everyone needs a lil luv

 

[MarkII]

I would think a more mature SP would be able to accomodate his needs.

A younger woman is more often out for turnover etc..call it what you will.

Life isn't always fair and this a good reminder.

M2

 

[EssenceofJasmin]

hi all reading your posts about disabled.. i had a client a long time ago that was paralized from the waist down.. he was in a wheel chair and was a sweet heart.. we talked on the phone he asked if it was ok he used a strap-on to do me .. i that hey thats cool..he even let me pick the size..lol.. well i went med didnt want to give him a swelled head..lol.. but we had an honestly great time.. he just needed compassion and companionship...an a friendly face to make him comfortable... but then again.. i have worked with disabled ppl for a long time everyone needs compassion.. dont know how many times i can say that... anyways.. just my thoughts.. thanks.. *sincityadultentertainment@ya hoo dot com....