Feels so lonely

[SchlongConery]

maybe your money would be better spent on a therapist who is willing to work with your depression and dysphoria, because i think it goes without saying that transactional sex is not always the right answer to loneliness.

there are lots of therapists available at equal or less rates than in this industry, you should look into it. you have to learn how to be introspective and identify the things that are making you unhappy in your life and train your brain into knowing how to confront those feelings when they arise. also real connections between people only happen when people are willing to be vulnerable to one another, which this industry does not always facilitate for obvious reasons.

Great advice!

 

[SchlongConery]

Get a rescue dog

The love they give to you for saving them is unparalleled

Also great advice!

Having a dog has proven mental and physical health benefits, especially if you live alone.

Unlike a woman, their love is unconditional.

Imagine you locked your woman and your dog in the trunk of a car for an hour... which one would be happiest to see you when they got out?

 

[Insidious Von]

How long was your session? One hour session
is only for a brief introduction and quick sex. Start
with overnight appointment. Upgrade it to a weekend
trip or even a long vacation once you decide she
is the right choice of a SP.

Whoa there oil&gas, you're going to bankrupt the despondent lad. Like the above post, speed metal is cheaper.

 

[verboselypithy]

I feel the same from time to time. If you ever need a buddy to talk to and have coffee with, feel free to PM me.

 

[likwid]

So instead of paying $250-300 for an hour, I’m sure you could go out somewhere and try and have some fun. Hell go to a casino, and use your hooker money

 

[icespot]

Something is wrong, I am not sure what. The whole day I feel lonely even I am surrounded by people. I made a trip to ASB to see a lady, but I still feel like shit. I hate this feeling. I need some kinda connection bad. Suggestions?

You are not alone in how you feel. Probably 90% of the people here feel just like you, that is how we ended up here. One lonely day or night we went out looking for something to take that emptiness away and years later here we are.

I have always wonder why psychologist, Psychiatrist, churches etc are never open late when most people need them. Instead we have 24 hr. Casinos, strip clubs, bars, escorts, massage parlors etc. Always ready to welcome you.

However, what you are feeling is not necessarily bad if you give yourself a chance to get in touch with your true feelings.

What you are feeling is there to tell you, that you need to make changes in your life. The easiest way I learn to change was through a journal. Write down how you are feeling, write down how you like to feel, make a list of 4 to 6 tasks you like to accomplish tomorrow, and repeat.
Don't be hard on yourself if you don't do them all, as long as you do at least one.

Also, don't become a savior, which is a natural tendency. It's always easier to help someone else, than do the hard work we need to do in order to change.

My depression got so bad at one point I didn't think I make it through the day.

Now, I wish time would slow way down so I can enjoy every day longer. I know that one day it will be the last time I will see my loved ones, so I enjoy them as much as possible. Making as many memories as possible.

Last, but very important stop using all social media. Instead have more human interaction.....

 

[TrulyEiJin]

yeah hanging out with the wrong people can definitely increase feelings of loneliness. like 60% of the population annoys me in some way as i am really an ornery old grampa in disguise, so it takes a while to find the right people to keep in your life. but learning how to enjoy solitude is actually pretty healthy - esp when you do active things. the winter sucks for being active but going for walks outdoors, working out, and seeing the world around me and accepting the poeticism and beauty all around us in our lives always reinvigorates the meaningfulness of it all for me.

you could also try creating things; like i've maintained a photography hobby since my teens and going out and meeting subjects and shooting them is a good way to connect with other people, and putting out work or art into the world that will have even a small effect on people makes a difference.

Completely agree with Penelope here. Sometimes being around too many people could be draining. Taking the time to relax and spending time to get to know yourself is really a great idea.

I hope you feel better. Sending virtual hug.

 

[SchlongConery]

You are not alone in how you feel. Probably 90% of the people here feel just like you, that is how we ended up here. One lonely day or night we went out looking for something to take that emptiness away and years later here we are.

I have always wonder why psychologist, Psychiatrist, churches etc are never open late when most people need them. Instead we have 24 hr. Casinos, strip clubs, bars, escorts, massage parlors etc. Always ready to welcome you.

However, what you are feeling is not necessarily bad if you give yourself a chance to get in touch with your true feelings.

What you are feeling is there to tell you, that you need to make changes in your life. The easiest way I learn to change was through a journal. Write down how you are feeling, write down how you like to feel, make a list of 4 to 6 tasks you like to accomplish tomorrow, and repeat.
Don't be hard on yourself if you don't do them all, as long as you do at least one.

Also, don't become a savior, which is a natural tendency. It's always easier to help someone else, than do the hard work we need to do in order to change.

My depression got so bad at one point I didn't think I make it through the day.

Now, I wish time would slow way down so I can enjoy every day longer. I know that one day it will be the last time I will see my loved ones, so I enjoy them as much as possible. Making as many memories as possible.

Last, but very important stop using all social media. Instead have more human interaction.....

Excellent advice.

 

[danmand]

Imagine you locked your woman and your dog in the trunk of a car for an hour... which one would be happiest to see you when they got out?

Don't try this at home!

 

[Danny46709394]

I feel the same from time to time. If you ever need a buddy to talk to and have coffee with, feel free to PM me.

Thanks for the offer. I might actually take you up on that some day

 

[Danny46709394]

So instead of paying $250-300 for an hour, I’m sure you could go out somewhere and try and have some fun. Hell go to a casino, and use your hooker money

I actually did. But is just like seeing an sp, kept my mind busy for that few hours then I am back to feeling lonely again

 

[Danny46709394]

One hour. I need to find an sp that I truely like to do overnight/weekend. Is not easy knowing that they are nice to you because you are a paying customer

 

[malata]

How long was your session? One hour session
is only for a brief introduction and quick sex. Start
with overnight appointment. Upgrade it to a weekend
trip or even a long vacation once you decide she
is the right choice of a SP.

why stop there. get married in vegas