Falling for

[speedyj]

Yes, and even though it did not end up working out I will likely never love anyone the way I loved him. He is prolly the one person I will never truly get over.

Hmmmm

 

[goalie000]

Wouldn't it be easier to have a relationship with someone who knows what you do or did for a living. Rather than having to lie to a boyfriend about it. Would you eventually tell said boyfriend about it or is it something to keep hidden "Until the Right Time." Wouldn't it be harder to be in a relationship and have to hide everything, or worry about him finding out.

 

[Master Muse]

SP Marries Client

One of the Legends in Nevada's houses in the Carson City area fell for and married a client. They've been marreid at least 5, more like 7 years and live in a smallish town in Northern California; standard tract house, no kids, just love. She was sought after by all but only went for him though she was married earlier in her life though (I don't think) in her SP career.

 

[tboy]

Wouldn't it be easier to have a relationship with someone who knows what you do or did for a living. Rather than having to lie to a boyfriend about it. Would you eventually tell said boyfriend about it or is it something to keep hidden "Until the Right Time." Wouldn't it be harder to be in a relationship and have to hide everything, or worry about him finding out.

I was thinking the same thing...I mean really, there are those of us out here who are only using the services of an sp because we don't have anyone else in our lives. While there are those that are in relationships or marriage, not all of us are.

I used to think that I could never be involved with someone in the biz but after hobbying, and meeting some wonderful ladies, some of whom we've both clicked so well that we look at each other and say 'what the hell was that'???

I also agree that one can't always choose where they meet a partner. I have found in my life that one should grab the oppurtunity when it knocks instead of looking for reasons not to.

Sure there are liars who hobby, but there are liars in every walk of life. If you worry about him possibly hobbying while with you, then you will never be able to meet ANY man without worrying about that because so many are hobbying these days. Nevermind hobbying, what about just cheating?

I say if you meet a client or an sp, who you are attracted to more than the act itself, I say go for it...life's too short not to.....