Exactly what is it that you're smoking?
I certainly have the un-challengable right to not sleep with anyone I please. Full stop. I could not give a rat's ass about an anonymous poster "winning" or about the SP in question "losing". I can choose to no put my dick wherever I want to not put my dick, no matter who that upsets. Hobbying ain't some game.
And now, a brief play I've written about my future:
ring ring. Tracey: "Hello, this is OPG". Me: "Hi OPG, this is CapitalGuy, from TERB. May I please see Holly tonight." Tracey: "No, sorry Capital Guy, but you're banned". Me: "Oh, did I say CapitalGuy? Sorry, this is actually The Daulfin. I don't know why I said CapitalGuy". Tracey: "Oh well, then Mr. Daulfin, that's fine. Where would you like Holly to meet you? Oh hey wait a minute, I just checked my caller ID, and you're calling from the payphone at Elgin and Gladstone. It is you, CapitalGuy - no way can you see Holly. You're banned from any decent SP in Ottawa." Me: "Foiled again. Damn you, TheDaulfin, for spreading those rumours about me!!" The end.