Facial hair/Stubble And Sensitive Women

[leanlean]

Has anyone been a with a woman who was very sensitive towards your stubble? I was with an escort and she always asked me to take it slow, at one point she pushed my face away when I was sucking on her nipples and another when I was eating her out, I asked her if everything was ok, and she said yes, just my hair hurt her a bit.

my solution seems to clean shave (a day or two before) and get a smooth face. The whole thing just puts me on alert because I don't want to to make her uncomfortable, and I don't want to feel like I'm walking on eggs, trying not to break them.

However, I just hate clean shave too, 1- doesn't suit me. 2- It makes me look much younger than my actual age.


Thoughts?

 

[explorerzip]

Just remember that there will be a time when you would kill to look younger than your actual age. I don't know why a clean shave would be a pain in the ass because you can use an electric razor. What's the matter with kids these days that don't want to shave!

There's only 2 solutions for you:

1. grow out your beard
2. shave it off

If neither of those are to your liking then see another girl that isn't as sensitive.

 

[rebel13]

I have had a beard for more years than I care to count - so far no SP has mentioned that my beard /facial hair was bothering her other than it tickles. Perhaps the reason for this non complaint status is consideration - I work in a business where my beard needs to be kept neatly trimmed. If i know that I will be visiting with any of my regulars I will not trim my beard until after the visit. Since i notice that when trimmed my beard is fairly coarse to to my thinking if I happen to rub my face. I can just imgaine how it would feel if I was visiting tender areas of my lady partner.

 

[DB123]

Has anyone been a with a woman who was very sensitive towards your stubble? I was with an escort and she always asked me to take it slow, at one point she pushed my face away when I was sucking on her nipples and another when I was eating her out, I asked her if everything was ok, and she said yes, just my hair hurt her a bit.

my solution seems to clean shave (a day or two before) and get a smooth face. The whole thing just puts me on alert because I don't want to to make her uncomfortable, and I don't want to feel like I'm walking on eggs, trying not to break them.

However, I just hate clean shave too, 1- doesn't suit me. 2- It makes me look much younger than my actual age.




Thoughts?

What I find works well is if you are seeing someone in particular who you know has made comments about your beard, let it grow a little longer (I'm assuming that you don't rock a homeless man/Santa beard) so it gets a bit softer. I've been told it doesn't irritate the skin the same way stubble does.

 

[Ridgeman08]

What women want... age old question. In my years on the planet I have learned, that they like the rugged look of a man with a few days growth, kinda like Chris Hemsworth... but when it comes to DATY, they want smooth as a baby's bum!

 

[Aardvark154]

Women tell me that stubble is an entirely different feel than a beard, certainly it seems that way when you have one.

 

[foxxxy lady]

Yes. Women don't like stubble rubbing against their skin. Goes for both SPs and civilians alike. Just think, would you like it if you were caressing a woman's legs and there was stubble? Or if you were going down on her and it felt like sandpaper rubbing against your lips? Women's skin is generally more sensitive than a man's, hence the reason why SPs ask for clients to be well-groomed, among other things.

its true stubble hurts when its is rubbed against a freshly shaved pussy, facial hair feel nice when it is a little longer and past the prickly stage.

coming fro an Sp and a civilian lol

xo amber

 

[Art Mann]

It's not a beard problem, it's a stubble problem

If you've got a beard like this, run your hand across your face and ask yourself why women don't want that sandpaper rubbing against their tender skin.

If you've got a real beard, one that's long enough for the hairs to become soft, you won't be getting any complaints from the ladies. Pretty sure this guy never does.

 

[Art Mann]

You beat me to the punchline, Miss Amber, while I was looking for the photos.

Be advised, gentlemen: Take the lady's word on this subject.

 

[Erin Tomcat]

Oh man, just pick one; shave it clean or grow it out. Some people have the benefit of soft hair but the first few days after a shave I find...rougher. There are few people whose stubble actually hurts but if it's abrasive in texture, I will look like I've got a raw, inflamed, pink beard of my own after a lot of kissing. Which looks dumb. So spare the lot of us please.

 

[leanlean]

thanks for the replies, I can't pull off a full beard like good old Sean Connery (he looks like my granpa btw), it's because I'm half Asian/White, but my facial hair does resemble the first picture in Art Mann's reply.

Guess I'll have to suck it up and shave it off and shave off 5 years and look like I'm in my mid twenties again.

 

[legmann]

Hmmm. Can be a bit tricky. Freshly-shaved looks a lot cleaner, but is very sharp for the first day or so after shaving (at least on me). A few days' stubble feels softer but obviously doesn't look as clean.
I either need to shave (close) before seeing an SP, or shave and wait at least a full day or two. Ideally.

 

[Art Mann]

Many men trying to grow a proper beard for the first time simply give up too soon.

If your beard looks like picture 1, leanlean, that's probably a 5-7 day old beard (unless you're so incredibly full of testosterone that's your 5 o'clock shadow).

So when your beard gets to the state of picture one, time to exercise some patience. Put the razor and trimmer away for about three weeks.

Your beard may not be as thick as Picture 2, but the facial hairs should be getting long enough to soften. Wait another month, then when you go for a haircut, tell the barber you want to keep the beard hairs longer, just make them look neater.

Wait another week and book an appointment with the SP from your OP and see if she reacts the same way.

Better yet, book additional appointments with Miss Amber and Miss Erin.

Never hurts to get consensus of opinion.

 

[katcalla]

I have an extremely sensitive skin and have refused makeouts and even made someone shave his stubble once because it literally scrapes my skin off.

 

[Lyra Hamilton]

Have you tired growing it long to the point where it gets soft? I find it that when men have the in between length is still prickly, but after a certain growth stage i actually enjoy it especially when being eaten ..... Oh and I've heard some men also use a bit of a conditioner or a leave in conditioner

I LOVE BEARDS! WHO EVER YOU ARE KEEP THE BEARD AND MAKE IT WORK

XO
Lyra Hamilton

 

[LadyTY2Uall]

A nice soft beard feels wonderful stroking against tender skin so you gentlemen with the beards have no worries. Stubble hurts, I have had my chin and lips rubbed raw from an aggressive kisser who had stubble. It hurts and looks like crap for a couple of days afterwords. I have also had my inner thighs rubbed raw as well as my girlie bits. Please shave, we don't care if you look like you are in your twenties as long as your face is soft against our skin. Same goes for shaving lower down. having a man with stubble grinding against us will leave us sore and whisker burned and we don't like it. Also an sp and a civvie.

 

[Twister]

If I go in the afternoon , I quickly run my razor to get rid of any stubble. But it goes both ways , ladies need to be on top of shaving too as pussy stubble can be rough too.

 

[Ridgeman08]

If I go in the afternoon , I quickly run my razor to get rid of any stubble. But it goes both ways , ladies need to be on top of shaving too as pussy stubble can be rough too.

EXCELLENT point Twister... and one I will +1 too.

I remember I had a date with an SP, i was as usual freshly shaved, and she had stubble! Talk about reverse razor burn! :Eek:

 

[leanlean]

longest time I went without shaving or trimming was around 2 weeks, if I pull i off, I'll probably have a beard similar to Keanu Reeves here:

http://www.theguardian.com/film/2008/dec/09/keanu-reeves-47-ronin

I'll grow it out in the meantime and see how it feels, not planning to see her again till sometime next month.

oh btw, Amber and Erin did come across my mind, but they are a bit tall for me (I'm 5'7), but that's another story.

 

[Sophia Sinclair]

If I go in the afternoon , I quickly run my razor to get rid of any stubble. But it goes both ways , ladies need to be on top of shaving too as pussy stubble can be rough too.

That's why I'm lasered down there and everywhere!

I agree with all the girls' postings above about stubble being very painful. It's true. Not only is the skin raw after, it could also lead to a couple of breakouts. Some gentlemen were sweet enough to bring their shaving kit to their appointment, and although a very close shave the morning of would have been sufficient, their consideration and thoughtfulness was surprising and very much appreciated!

Also, one gentleman had a long beard, it didn't hurt at all and we had quite a bit of fun playing Santa and Naughty Elf.

I too have had gents bring their own supplies, but also keep a man's razor on hand for just such occasions.