Expectations

[bushido_99]

Hey all.

I have noticed that since partaking in this hobby lol I now have difficulty balancing expectations with the reality of what's offered by what seems to be the majority these days.
When I first started I think I was a little spoiled with the services I could get for the cost etc..
Now it's trying to find a diamond in the rough lol and the cost is way higher for way fewer services.

Is anyone else having this issue or am I just being picky?

 

[ShanOtt]

Hey all.

I have noticed that since partaking in this hobby lol I now have difficulty balancing expectations with the reality of what's offered by what seems to be the majority these days.
When I first started I think I was a little spoiled with the services I could get for the cost etc..
Now it's trying to find a diamond in the rough lol and the cost is way higher for way fewer services.

Is anyone else having this issue or am I just being picky?

Generally the cost is just higher because all costs have gone up. I don’t think there’s an issue of the cost going up and service going down.
Unless perhaps you’re seeing MAs or lower end SPs who are trying to make up for the difference in pricing by upcharging their other services.

Most of the ladies I’ve seen over the last 3 years have increased their rates but services are the same. The only thing I can see paying extra for is PSE Greek or fetish stuff. But that’s always been pretty standard.

Reading up on that thread on those lobbying in the 90s I’d say we’re pretty lucky in how things are now. Sounds like that standard used to be no kissing, no bbbj, daty, dato or anything other than just a quick mechanical fuck.

Try adjusting your budget for inflation and see if it leads to a better return on investment

 

[B00blover]

Hey all.

I have noticed that since partaking in this hobby lol I now have difficulty balancing expectations with the reality of what's offered by what seems to be the majority these days.
When I first started I think I was a little spoiled with the services I could get for the cost etc..
Now it's trying to find a diamond in the rough lol and the cost is way higher for way fewer services.

Is anyone else having this issue or am I just being picky?

Your perception of getting less for more is a valid one and one I, and many others share. It's the main reason why I'm so infrequent with my visits. I really only go if I can't hold it in any longer and aren't banging the wife or FWB.

I'd rather go buy some clothes or something lol.

 

[dankdaddy]

I mostly stick to Asian places, not the best service but I have no interest dropping 500 plus on high end women. And the 200 to 300 women the service most of the time isn't any better than the Asian places anyway.

 

[haplessinquiry]

I've pretty much now stick with regulars exclusively. They keep the prices stable for me, and I know what I can get from them. For those too young to have regulars, or too restless to have tried having a regular, just see a few girls that you have known good chemistry with, and just see them exclusively. They will keep their prices stable, or may even give you a discount eventually just to keep you as their customer.

𐑲 𐑣𐑨𐑝 𐑐𐑮𐑦𐑑𐑰 𐑥𐑳𐑗 𐑯𐑬 𐑕𐑑𐑦𐑒 𐑢𐑦𐑞 𐑮𐑧𐑜𐑘𐑩𐑤𐑼𐑟 𐑦𐑒𐑕𐑒𐑤𐑵𐑕𐑦𐑝𐑤𐑰. 𐑞𐑱 𐑒𐑰𐑐 𐑞 𐑐𐑮𐑲𐑕𐑦𐑟 𐑕𐑑𐑱𐑚𐑩𐑤 𐑓𐑸 𐑥𐑰, 𐑯 𐑲 𐑯𐑴 𐑢𐑭𐑑 𐑲 𐑒𐑨𐑯 𐑜𐑧𐑑 𐑓𐑼𐑥 𐑞𐑩𐑥. 𐑓𐑸 𐑞𐑴𐑟 𐑑𐑵 𐑘𐑩𐑙 𐑑 𐑣𐑨𐑝 𐑮𐑧𐑜𐑘𐑩𐑤𐑼𐑟, 𐑹 𐑑𐑵 𐑮𐑧𐑕𐑑𐑤𐑩𐑕 𐑑 𐑣𐑨𐑝 𐑑𐑮𐑲𐑛 𐑣𐑨𐑝𐑦𐑙 𐑱 𐑮𐑱𐑜𐑘𐑩𐑤𐑼, 𐑡𐑩𐑕𐑑 𐑕𐑰 𐑱 𐑓𐑿 𐑜𐑻𐑤𐑟 𐑞𐑨𐑑 𐑿 𐑣𐑨𐑝 𐑯𐑴𐑯 𐑜𐑦𐑛 𐑒𐑧𐑥𐑦𐑕𐑑𐑮𐑰 𐑢𐑦𐑞, 𐑯 𐑡𐑩𐑕𐑑 𐑕𐑰 𐑞𐑩𐑥 𐑦𐑒𐑕𐑒𐑤𐑵𐑕𐑦𐑝𐑤𐑰. 𐑞𐑱 𐑢𐑦𐑤 𐑒𐑰𐑐 𐑞𐑱𐑮 𐑐𐑮𐑲𐑕𐑦𐑟 𐑕𐑑𐑱𐑚𐑩𐑤, 𐑹 𐑥𐑱 𐑰𐑝𐑦𐑯 𐑜𐑦𐑝 𐑿 𐑱 𐑛𐑦𐑕𐑒𐑨𐑫𐑯𐑑 𐑰𐑝𐑧𐑯𐑖𐑩𐑤𐑰 𐑡𐑩𐑕𐑑 𐑑 𐑒𐑰𐑐 𐑿 𐑨𐑟 𐑞𐑱𐑮 𐑒𐑳𐑕𐑑𐑩𐑥𐑼.

 

[ShanOtt]

I've pretty much now stick with regulars exclusively. They keep the prices stable for me, and I know what I can get from them. For those too young to have regulars, or too restless to have tried having a regular, just see a few girls that you have known good chemistry with, and just see them exclusively. They will keep their prices stable, or may even give you a discount eventually just to keep you as their customer.

100% agree.
except, don’t expect a discount. That may not always be the case.
One of my regulars just raised her rates slightly and I was hoping she’d “grandfather” me in but unfortunately that wasn’t the case.

 

[William St]

Hey all.

I have noticed that since partaking in this hobby lol I now have difficulty balancing expectations with the reality of what's offered by what seems to be the majority these days.
When I first started I think I was a little spoiled with the services I could get for the cost etc..
Now it's trying to find a diamond in the rough lol and the cost is way higher for way fewer services.

Is anyone else having this issue or am I just being picky?

Everyone...all the time. The best thing is to find 2 or 3 you feel comfortable with and enjoy their service. Then stick with them.

 

[honeybear69]

I don't tend to see anyone multiple times normally, but there have been a couple that I am going to recently due to service level and comfort level I had. But again.....I try to go for quality when booking so the cost keeps visits infrequent on my end.....yes I read all the reviews, message some terbites that have seen them and have reviews, message the ladies a few times to confirm different types of service. So more leg work, but everyone is different now what they include or don't, allow or restrict. So far all my work has paid off.....just my 10 cents.
HB69.....was here??!?!?

 

[bukka]

I've never really had any bad experience because I usually have got communication before booking and asked about service provided

I don't do fat or old chicks for free so neither would I pay for fat chicks either

For the most part I usually get what's expected

If I show up And it's False Advertisement/ catfish am out right away

But have seen lots of reviews about lots of disappointment catfish and bad service

For me if am catfished there's no need to continue simple because I make it that I like slim medium ladies

 

[bukka]

In terms of expectations I heard about lot of disappointment with SP. But I can't blame the SP because if guys keep getting catffish and bad service and still paying their hard earned money even though it maybe different guys but regardless the SP's keep getting clients for the bad service so there's no need to change or do better for the SP that's not needs do better

 

[faveone]

Generally the cost is just higher because all costs have gone up. I don’t think there’s an issue of the cost going up and service going down.
Unless perhaps you’re seeing MAs or lower end SPs who are trying to make up for the difference in pricing by upcharging their other services.

Most of the ladies I’ve seen over the last 3 years have increased their rates but services are the same. The only thing I can see paying extra for is PSE Greek or fetish stuff. But that’s always been pretty standard.

Reading up on that thread on those lobbying in the 90s I’d say we’re pretty lucky in how things are now. Sounds like that standard used to be no kissing, no bbbj, daty, dato or anything other than just a quick mechanical fuck.

Try adjusting your budget for inflation and see if it leads to a better return on investment

Having been hobbying for over 25 years I can tell you that there were many girls (independents and agency) who did bbbj, dato, rim and lots more back in the 90's. Greek was more of a specialty thing back then and almost always required an upcharge

 

[B00blover]

Having been hobbying for over 25 years I can tell you that there were many girls (independents and agency) who did bbbj, dato, rim and lots more back in the 90's. Greek was more of a specialty thing back then and almost always required an upcharge

I can't go quite as far back, just a decade or so, but yeah, back then a SP not kissing and not offering bbbj was practically unheard of ime