Ever had a SP come out of retirement to see you?
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I had an escort tell me at the end of the session that this was too much, and she was retiring right away. Oops, wrong question 
Don't over think it. You enjoy her company and she roleplays well. She likely has fond memories of the dinners, travel, limos, opera, upscale hotel and shopping. Keep it simple with no pressure, drama or expectations but a trip down memory lane.
I have re read your posting. What a paternalistic tone to take. She likely has her head on straight and can make her own decisions with respect to her involvement in the business.
I have re read your posting. What a paternalistic tone to take. She likely has her head on straight and can make her own decisions with respect to her involvement in the business.
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Maybe she needs the money. Maybe she's hit some turbulence in her committed relationship. Maybe she's just lonely.
You were more than a in/out client. You were playing make-believe beyond the boudoir. It could be any of the above.
Well guys and gals I decided to see her. She is still hot but after a few hours of talking it became clear I realized why she retired and I did not see her any more. Now I do not want to hurt her feelings but I do not think it is a good idea. I was fattered that she would reconsider seeing me but there just was no real connection. Even for a SP. It was a big mistake. Now I have to find a way out. I told her I am very busy for the next few months and I am. But I have to find a way to let her down easy. She is a nice lady. Any ideas out there?
Just say you are busy or tell her you won't be booking a session if she asks why she has not heard from you. This can't be your first time getting rid of a female that is in to you. It's so much easier in a pfp scenario. You might need to give your head a shake and get some perspective as you are making this more dramatic than it is. She mentioned wanting to see you again. If you do not book her for a session she will figure it out. No explanation needed.
These are working girls who likely don't have many clients that pay them to bring them shopping, take them in limos, drink champagne and hire opera singers for private dining. I get its part of the schtick for you to get immersed in the fantasy but come on. Ease up on the being flattered that she would want to reconnect.
These are working girls who likely don't have many clients that pay them to bring them shopping, take them in limos, drink champagne and hire opera singers for private dining. I get its part of the schtick for you to get immersed in the fantasy but come on. Ease up on the being flattered that she would want to reconnect.
Dude, this is a financial transaction, not a long time girlfriend. Just say you're busy and if things change up, you'll be in touch. Nothing else owed.
As long as it was a paid session, you can easily say no at any point like with any SP.
There is another thread for off the clock. Befriending an SP is more tricky and I would actually consider her a mistress at this point and that requires tact if you want to avoid a blow up.
There is another thread for off the clock. Befriending an SP is more tricky and I would actually consider her a mistress at this point and that requires tact if you want to avoid a blow up.
"I'm busy" is a blow off. And really, who is really that busy? We make time for what we value, no matter how busy we are.
I would just tell her that you very much enjoyed the time that you used to spend with her, but you're in a different place in life and looking for different things. You suspect that she is also, given your recent encounter. As a friend, you're happy for her and wish her well. If she wants to remain friends, that would be cool, and if not, wish her all the happiness life has to offer.
And i I would tell her this before she calls you again to ask for another date. Don't put her in a position to be rejected.
I would just tell her that you very much enjoyed the time that you used to spend with her, but you're in a different place in life and looking for different things. You suspect that she is also, given your recent encounter. As a friend, you're happy for her and wish her well. If she wants to remain friends, that would be cool, and if not, wish her all the happiness life has to offer.
And i I would tell her this before she calls you again to ask for another date. Don't put her in a position to be rejected.
My ATF was retired for about 3 years, and began Webcaming. We remained friends, and talked frequently. After I got married I told her that my new wife wanted to try a 3 some, so I brought the subject up to her. She said it sounded like fun, and we set something up. Fun was had by all. Still talk to her to this day, and the wife and her have grown into good friends.
What does it matter if she's hitting up her old clients or not? The question isn't why does she want to see you, the question is do YOU want to see her again. You know the answer.
I do believe, I am finally getting into this stage in my life, As long as there no other men involved.
Exactly. You need to take it for what it is; she may genuinely want to see you, or she may just need money quick and so is pouring on the charm. Either way, it's still a business transaction, and the only thing that matters is whether you will have a good time with her, regardless of her motivation.
That said, I will agree that much (if not all) of the fun of seeing any SP will be gone if you feel that her only motivation and reason for reaching out is money, and seeing you as an easy mark/pushover.
Just wanted to say thanks to all for your thoughts. I honestly have not had this happen before so it is kind of a strange for me to deal with. She is a nice lady but you help to put it perspective. Thanks
