Ever feel guilty about the hobby?

[funkygroove]

I feel guilty right up to the moment I hand over the money to the MP/SP, but I just can't seem to hold back, turn around and head home. Sometimes I wonder if it's because I love spending money or doing things that I'm not supposed to.

 

[LSLarry]

sometimes i feel guilty for the money thing.. but i am single and young... and do alright ($$$).

I see an SP every 2 months IF!! and i mean IF! nothing else is going on..like imnot dating anyone or i havent been laid...

I love the SP's... because they know what they are doing.... they are hot... and the sex is usually amazing..


regular girls.. usually suck letys be honest .. they dont know how to please... a man .. most of them anyways..

ls

 

[Musketeer]

sometimes i feel guilty for the money thing.. but i am single and young... and do alright ($$$).

I see an SP every 2 months IF!! and i mean IF! nothing else is going on..like imnot dating anyone or i havent been laid...

I love the SP's... because they know what they are doing.... they are hot... and the sex is usually amazing..


regular girls.. usually suck letys be honest .. they dont know how to please... a man .. most of them anyways..

ls

Regular girls just need to be taught. That's why I love being a teacher. Lol!

 

[kz65]

Guilty...No.

LadyXavery sums it up nicely, however i do go through the butterflies in the stomach just before the appointment....I just view it as part of the thrill of hobbying. College Days I dind't have the balls to approach the "hot girls" fear of rejection etc....plus I wasn't the fittest guy either.

this hobby is a nice outlet to fulfill many fantasies...Shauna was WOW!!! with my "younger guy..MILF experience". TERB is great at fulfilling just about any desires you may have

 

[dorf]

I've lurked for a while and have only posted once but I figured what better place to ask the question thats been plaguing the back of my mind for a while. Have any of you felt or feel gulity about the hobby? Whether it be for spending the money for the services, doing it without significant others knowing (basically behind peoples backs, which is really the only way to do it) or for anything else?

Although I haven't posted about my experiences, I have seen quite a few attendents at massage parlours and a few sp's in the area over the last few years. For me, the issue is it's difficult for me to meet women due to my lifestyle and lets just say, I'm not the best at meeting women either, so I turned to the hobby for my "needs". It's not something I can afford to participate in regularily..in fact, it's been quite while now, but if I could, I probably would. But the issue I have is that I feel bad about turning to the hobby because I have difficulty getting some action in a more "natural" environment, even though I'm young and alright in the looks department. There's the stereotype out there, and forgive me for stepping on anyones toes, that only older, unattractive people should pay for services because others should be able to get satisfied without paying and I'm finding that to be completely untrue. Sometimes though, I can't help but put myself in the category that says I shouldn't have to pay and should be able to find lots on my own. I guess that's where the guilt comes in for me. Does any of this make any sense? Just seeing if anyone shared similar feelings or thoughts about the hobby in general.

On the side though, this is a great site and I enjoy logging on regularily to see what the regulars and others have to say about things. Keep it up, it's great!

I think if anyone ever should feel guilt about this hobby, it should be only toward his or her loved ones. That's to say, morally speaking, we should be one woman man or one man woman. But in this society, who can be that special anymore?

Sometime ago, I read somewhere saying that male is made to have multiple sex partners physiologically...... Nevertheless, I think this hobby is still much better than you really going out finding someone that's so special to share the love of your wife or girlfriend, since no stringes are attached what so ever when you're play this hobby. Once you pay and get out of the door, it is OVER! Of course, it could be hundreds or thousands of OVERs

To have this hobby once in a while, it's actually healthy. Once my buddy told me that his friend's wife's having some rare medical conditions that prohibited her having regular sex with him. But they were still loving each other. So, his friend's family doctor finally suggested him to start this hobby to keep the marriage alive. Ironic enough!

If anyone feels guilt when you pay the money to the pleasure provider, then you just feel sorry about your money or your big EGO!....oh, ya, I could've done it for free......Man! please, LOL!

 

[new2game]

Dugath...give your head a shake..

I wish I could afford to see SP's, thats and I am still getting into shape. After seeing Erins pics.. I am like wow.. I really wanna see her (and should have about a year ago lol).. but I would feel too self concious about myself.. so more working out for me

...it's a business transaction..and as much as it's been tried many times here, and on other boards to be made into something else..at the end of the day..that's what it is...and as in any business transaction...sometimes familiarity and mutal respect can make things go smoother...but as far as your physical shape???...the only shape that counts to any SP/MP is what financial shape you are in...the shape of your wallet...can you pay the freight??...if you can....stop wasting time and go for it..

N2G

 

[funkygroove]

...it's a business transaction..and as much as it's been tried many times here, and on other boards to be made into something else..at the end of the day..that's what it is...and as in any business transaction...sometimes familiarity and mutal respect can make things go smoother...but as far as your physical shape???...the only shape that counts to any SP/MP is what financial shape you are in...the shape of your wallet...can you pay the freight??...if you can....stop wasting time and go for it..

N2G

exactly, It doesn't matter how well the lady treats you, you're just another customer, and in the end it's all about the money.

 

[Choron]

No guilt here...hahaha

 

[Musketeer]

exactly, It doesn't matter how well the lady treats you, you're just another customer, and in the end it's all about the money.

That's a 'truism,' alright. That's why they are in business.

Some ladies are merely better business women than others. The more successful ones build up good business practices and exercise good public relations in order to keep their clients happy.

That's what makes some ladies more successful than others. But in the end it's really all about the money.

 

[STASH]

None

 

[rexreflex]

Guilty?

For me, it's just not enough money! I enjoy it, no strings and both get what they hope for! You're right, it's weird, stomach churns, but I think the plumbing is a bit backed up. For some reason, it doesn't churn after!