Ettiquettes for SPs

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saliksalik

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Hello,

I have been reading excellent rules and etiquettes for clients in various TERB section.

I came across this very interesting list of SP etiquettes at SWAG, Sex Workers Assistance Guide, as advertised at TERB as a banner:

http://www.sex-work.org/

One can reach the Tips for Sex Workers from a Client by clicking the link:
http://www.sex-work.org/
and going to : Good Service ---- Etiquette

Some excerpts:

Do not take phone calls during my session.

Another way to turn me into an one time client. Your time is exclusively mine during that session for the entire time of the session. That's why they invented voicemail - use it.

4. Do not false advertise on your site - either in words or in photos.

Have you ever noticed that many times whatever feature the SP is not showing in her pictures, is the feature that will turn you off (with the exception of SPs who hide their face for privacy reasons which is fine). No pictures of the stomach = saggy or flabby stomach area. No pictures of the boobs = A cup or very droopy boobs. Also do not say you are a B or a C cup when you are an A cup at best. Do not say you are GFE and MSOG when you have a list of rules longer than the constitution that ruin any GFE hopes and dampen my desire to have MSOGs. Whatever your rules are or whatever less than perfect features you have, be open about them. Some guy will like or not mind saggy stomachs or droopy boobs, but don't surprise me when it's time to get busy.

6. Do not bait and switch me.

If I schedule incall, do not call me at the last minute and ask if we can do outcall instead at your outcall rate. If I schedule incall at incall rates, that is what I want. Even if I can make outcall work at the last minute, I am paying the incall rate, not the bait and switch outcall rate.

7. Do not offer incall in a non-discreet or messy place.

Nobody else should be at the incall location - guy or gal - and as few people as possible should be in a position to see me enter or exit the incall. Incalls in busy neighborhoods are out and incalls in messy locations are out. I will turn around and leave or not enter to begin with if this is the case. Getting a room at a decent hotel is not that difficult and far better for everyone involved.

You may read more and all at the link, there is also lots of good info there.
Tks.
 
How about "Do not try and get me in and out in 20 - 30 mins if I paid for approximately 1hr of your time".
 
Do not ask
"Is it in yet?
;)
 
saliksalik said:
6. Do not bait and switch me.

If I schedule incall, do not call me at the last minute and ask if we can do outcall instead at your outcall rate. If I schedule incall at incall rates, that is what I want. Even if I can make outcall work at the last minute, I am paying the incall rate, not the bait and switch outcall rate.
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Does this really happen? I have never heard of such a thing personally and quite frankly didn't think the term "bait and switch" would even apply to it. :confused:
 
Another good one would be:

Come into the session with at least a semi-enthusiastic attitude. If you've had a rough day, or seen too many clients, cancel with an explanation/apology and try and make it up to me on a subsequent visit.

We always talk about what we clients can do to make the sessions better for the ladies but this article should be a must read for all sp's.

Luckily I've only had two or three bad sessions but those could have been avoided by the sp reading, and more importantly, abiding by those guidelines.
 
Sexy Violet said:
I don't know why, but it still surprises me to hear that there are girls that offer this kind of sub-par service! I mean, if you are going to do something, do it right... why is 'common-sense' not so common?!
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New and some not so new SPs will really benefit from: SWAG, if they are not already browsing it.

http://www.sex-work.org/

It is for the SPs by the SPs. Good for both SPs and Clients.

Cheers:
 
Sexy Violet said:
I don't know why, but it still surprises me to hear that there are girls that offer this kind of sub-par service! I mean, if you are going to do something, do it right... why is 'common-sense' not so common?!
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Violet, you would be surprised how many SPs have little or no idea. Some think that all they have to do to earn their money is lie on their backs stare at the ceiling and in between puffs on their cigarettes ask you if you are going to long. I had exactly this experience in Burlington a couple of months back! :(

We have recently has client etiquette for incalls and outcalls, so it is probably time for some SP etiquette and the links provided give some excellent pointers for girls new to the biz, who want to be successful.
 
Sexy Violet said:
I don't know why, but it still surprises me to hear that there are girls that offer this kind of sub-par service! I mean, if you are going to do something, do it right... why is 'common-sense' not so common?!
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Sub-par service has become the norm instead of the other way around these days so why should this business be any different?

I can understand some sp's just having off days etc but really, like you said, don't be in ANY biz if you can't do it right!
 
Ruskin's Law

It's just frustrating for me because these girls that are trying to scam their clients, or offering crappy services, or keeping messy, dirty, smoky incalls, or whatever they are doing to give SP's a bad name are doing just that. For the girls that are level-headed, educated, bright, clean and tidy and provide superior services... we shouldn't have to worry that those nitwit girls are going to jade our clients' view of SP's and mess it all up for us.

My reputation is my greatest selling feature (after my movies, of course;)) and word of mouth, and repeat visits keep me busy. I suppose low-balling on price permits these inadequate girls to stay in business, simply on the basis of Ruskin's Law***


***"There is hardly anything in the world that someone cannot make a little worse and sell a little cheaper, and the people who consider price alone are that person's lawful prey." ~John Ruskin~
 
Sexy Violet said:
It's just frustrating for me because these girls that are trying to scam their clients, or offering crappy services, or keeping messy, dirty, smoky incalls, or whatever they are doing to give SP's a bad name are doing just that. For the girls that are level-headed, educated, bright, clean and tidy and provide superior services... we shouldn't have to worry that those nitwit girls are going to jade our clients' view of SP's and mess it all up for us.
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Violet, you are forgetting the most important factor of the whole situation: these girls typically charge less and will take whatever abuse that comes their way. As such, the segment of hobbyists who view SPs as meat to be had at the lowest possible price is so large that these girls will be busy forever. The fact is many guys don't view SPs as human beings, just as a means to an end that can be purchased like any other possession. And so long as they allow guys to treat them this way, the guys will care less about the rest. It's disturbing, really.
 
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